she will come in middle of my study with her 4 kids in very busy time at the university. what do you do...?
2007-03-12 11:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i asked her to come after my exams, but she still does not understand and thinks am rude to ask her not to come now and that i kick her out.. its not that. i am just worried about my study. but i feel she is selfish. she wants to come enjoy her holiday with her kids while i have exams. i dont think its fare. i am upset and she is mad now.. i dont know what to do.
2007-03-12 11:26:24 · update #1
Your sister is very inconsiderate. You will have to be honest with her about your feelings on this.
2007-03-12 11:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain to her that it is a very busy time and ask if she can come the following week. If not explain that you want her to visit and you want to spend time with her but you might not be able to visit with them as much as you will be in the library studying. She should understand.
2007-03-12 18:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ecplain to her that it is not the best time for her to come visit, if she presists, tell her that u will be unable to spend tiome with her as ur exams are extremely important? why not suggest you go to hers after ur exams are finished? or maybe that she comes to you. if she isnt coming for long then it might be refreshing to have ur sister come to you-she might be able to help, plus u cant just study 24/7 u need a little break so maybe its just wat u need to motivate and at the same time give u a well earned rest! hope this helps
2007-03-12 18:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by the nice girl 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and ask her to come by some other time. She should understand.
2007-03-12 18:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by DizziDazi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋