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im 13 (same witht he kid i like) and he told my best friend he drinks and smokes. he claims its because of the town he lives in no one else knows except me my bf and 1 of his friends. he doesnt even know i know. so now what is it ok for me to still like him? im so confused what do i do now

2007-03-12 11:04:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i dont think he would pressure me into doing all of that he didn't even want anyone else to know. besides id never do it but im still confused

2007-03-12 11:10:47 · update #1

and im not asking your opinion on if i should have a boyfriend or not so no answers liek your to yound for dating they are no help

2007-03-12 11:12:02 · update #2

he goes to my school hes nice to me

2007-03-12 11:14:11 · update #3

12 answers

i use to like a boy who did drugs, smoked, etc. he was gonna ask me out but after thinking about it, i said no. but honestly, if he understands that you don`t EVER wanna do it, it`s fine. =] you should go with what your heart tells you. but i wouldn`t like him if i were you. he should`ve told you himself that he does that stuff, not by telling your best friend! i say you get over him sweetie. you can do WAY better, thats` for sure. =]

2007-03-12 11:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 1 0

You are at a point in your life where you are trying to understand your beliefs and values. If you don't want to date someone that drinks and smokes, then don't. This is a very strong belief for some and it could be one for you. Yes, culture does play a large role in substance abuse. Lets hope he lives through his "experimental" stage and that it doesn't get worse. You can like him. But, the question should be, do you want to date him? It really doesn't matter whether you know he drinks or smokes--in the entire scheme of the world. At some point in the future you could tell him that you like him, and that its too bad he smokes and drinks...since that isn't your bag. Or not. Good luck figuring life out:-)

2007-03-12 11:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1 0

No not cool. even if he was just kidding. if he acts like he drinks does drugs whatever then soon enough he will. and he'll pressure you. if you care anything about your future then completely leave him alone. do you really think a boyfriend when from when you were 13 is going to have any impact on your future? no it wont. seriously if you went out it would probably be for about a week.

2007-03-12 11:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by frances m 1 · 0 0

You should tell him how bad those things are. And then don't hang out with him, that's a bad influence. You really, really shouldn't drink or smoke. It's illegal for your age, will make you sick, and jus really bad for your health. I'm sure you can find someone better to like. My friends in Jr high that did that kind of stuff ended up in jail, dropping out, or pregnat when they were 14. So don't do it.

2007-03-12 11:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is better to not hang around people like that until you are mature enough to resist the temptation of drinking and smoking yourself. First, it is illegal for this guy to drink and smoke. Second, statistically men who drink alcohol, are over 10 times more likely to be violent to there"better half." MY advice is to limit your contact with this person for your own safety.

2007-03-12 11:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by The one with all the answers 2 · 0 0

IF HIS SAME AGE LIKE YOU...i think its a no no no no..

his too young to be drinking...what about when he turn more older??? drugs....

your young....dont worry there's more opportunity to find a better MAN out there

2007-03-12 11:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0 0

first off how old is he??? he should not be smoking (cancer) he should not be drinking (alcoholic) and especially if he is your age, Then again you should not be looking for a bf you are a little too young!!

2007-03-12 11:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0 0

he's already makin bad choices at 13. if u aint too hung up on him....move on. there are better guys...why waste time on one who doesnt seem to have it on the right path already?

2007-03-12 11:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by TTerrell 3 · 0 0

its ok, we all smoked when we were in his age, but you gotta tell him its not ok with you, and to stop it, but don't push him too much to quit, be smarter than him, and get him on the track you want... this is all i have to say to you, you'll do fine..

2007-03-12 11:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by steve 2 · 0 1

Get off the internet. Your too young!

2007-03-12 11:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by missie_d_73 3 · 0 2

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