Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

A few months back, a girl I liked (I think she had a boyfriend) was at a party I was attending. That night, her friend (who I knew had a boyfriend) asked me if I was single. I told her yes. She smiled. I wonder if the friend was asking for herself or for girl A because I had gotten signals originally from girl A & not the friend. Lately, (I still talk to both) it seems the friend has been friendlier to me than the girl I like. She's been asking me questions about my interests or background. I'm wondering if it's because she approves of me for her friend(girl A) or if SHE's interested. (Also the first time I met the friend, girl A said 'we' missed you at the last get-together (since I didn't attend), but at the time I only knew one of them.) Any insight?

2007-03-12 13:22:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 3 years and he still refuses to get my name tattooed across his butt! I feel that a tattoo is the ultimate sign of commitment, I mean anyone can get married and just get a divorce but try getting a tattoo removed! What should I do? Should I dump him since he wont commit with a tattoo?

2007-03-12 13:21:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think?

2007-03-12 13:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

One of my old uni mates is making it quite obvious he likes me...paying compliments, asking me to come up and visit quite often, is always phoning and texting me, asking me what I'm doing etc....and quite frankly he's really starting to annoy me. It's on a daily basis.

I'm just not interested in him and his constant questionning of what i'm doing or who i'm with is so irritating. He also tries to make me jealous by pretending he has interest from other women when i really don't care and actually wish he did have someone else so he'd get off my case.

If i don't reply to a text, 20 minutes later I get a "you not replying" or similar or 3 phone calls and if i log in msn i get the whole "i thought you weren't talking to me!"

I don't want to be horrible guy and tell him to stick it...can anyone think of some nicer ways to politely tell him "go stalk someone else!!!"

2007-03-12 13:21:26 · 14 answers · asked by Lalalala 2 in Friends

i really want to ask my my x-boyfriend to prom. but i'm not sure if i should ask him. i'm not afraid of him rejecting me. it's we dont talk that much since we broke up. the last time we broke up he said he still loved me. if i do ask him to prom how should i ask him? i really want to go with him. but i;m not sure if i should.

2007-03-12 13:21:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i like this guy, and hes completely not my type. i dont know what to do.i mean im not shallow or anything. but i started to like him a while back, and i tried so hard to not like him. i really did, but you cant change who you like, right? i mean, hes really not my type.hes the kind of guy me and my friends despise. and then i fall in like with him??i told my best friend that i couldnt help it. but shes like always making fun of me now and telling me all the bad in him. i dont really know him, and i know hes got a kind of a reputation as a player, and believe me, thats the last person i would want to be involved with, but i just cant stop thinking about him. i try so hard but he just keeps crossing my mind!!what should i do?about my friend? and about me liking this guy?please?

Sabby

2007-03-12 13:21:08 · 19 answers · asked by Sabby 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:20:12 · 46 answers · asked by SugaLova 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:18:56 · 19 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok the problem is I only know him for a few months and he mostly invites people that he knows for much longer. But how do I hint to him that I want to be invited without directly telling him to at least know that I did my best to get invited. I really want to be there since the guy is the key to me getting to know girls cause he knows a lot of them.

2007-03-12 13:18:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:18:02 · 3 answers · asked by Marya L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i was sitting on the computer and my borthers friend drew a penis on my favorite jeans in permanent marker... ne 1 no how to get that out?

2007-03-12 13:17:48 · 1 answers · asked by ashley g 1 in Singles & Dating

(other than get a divorce, get counseling, get a life or pray.)

2007-03-12 13:17:31 · 16 answers · asked by micamocha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, there is this guy who i've been friends with for maybe 2 months or more. He knew i had a boyfriend and i knew that he had a fiancee. Well at work we act like best friends, he comes to see me, i go to see him, we walk to lunch together, little stuff like that. I've hung out with him once at his house with his parents there. Well one night this guy calls up my bf and tells him that I need to stop flirting with him before it goes any further. Now to me it seems like he's trying to get my bf to break up with me. What does it seem like to you?

2007-03-12 13:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-12 13:17:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wedding website through the WeddingTracker.com and am having a destination wedding so to make it easier for all of my guest to communicate with me I have an e-mail option on the site (not with my e-mail address) that allows people to e-mail me trough the site or leave messages on the guest book. For the last 4-5 months I have received at least 10 Sex Spam e-mails a day through the site and everytime I complain I get the same response, our IT guys are working on it. I think they need new IT guys. Anyone else had this problem, if you have fixed it what did you do? Beware of this if you are going to do a site!!!

2007-03-12 13:16:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 23 and the girls I'm talking about would be between 18 and 30 years old. What are the typical signs.

2007-03-12 13:16:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i ask him out??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????//

2007-03-12 13:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what to girls really want? Can you Fill Me In? Im in college 18 yrs old and wanted to know? Whether its being friends all the way to being in a relationship... BE SPECIFIC PLEASE :)

2007-03-12 13:16:36 · 18 answers · asked by jaysonmgs 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by workin_man66 3 in Singles & Dating

If a girl is cynical, not flirty at all and doesn't believe in love, but is very smart, hilarious, talented, and beautiful, would you go for the challenge or get scared off by the Miss Independent vibes?

2007-03-12 13:15:26 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm asking because I like this guy and I know he's a big pot user. I'm not interested, but I know taht if we started hanging out, he'd be high a lot. So how would he act? and if he was drinking too, what id the combination like? I'm curious since I've only experimented with alcohol and my guy friends don't smoke around me. nor will they answer my question...

2007-03-12 13:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ok if we curse sometimes? or is it unattractive all together? i mean i can understand really unattractive if chicks curse like truckers, but alittle bit or none at all? im trying to cut down, it just seems that its the everyday vocabulary now in highschool. bad habit.

2007-03-12 13:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was a stay at home mother of my dear, wonderful children for years. Ex wouldn't allow me to get an education while staying at home with them. Now that we are divorced, I have left to find a way to get back on my feet. (He quit his job and his millionaire family pays their bills.) I have officially hit poverty, but nothing has kept me from calling my children everyday. I especially have had a close relationship, connection with my daughter. Recently, my son was tested for ADD, now a behavioral specialist and my husband have agreed that he needs structure, and that I am to call them once a day at a specific time. I have spoke with the specialist as well, and I have agreed to do it, since it will benefit my children. Sadly, the past couple of weeks, it seems my children hardly talk to me at all. I talk to them on average about 3 to 5 minutes. (I used to talk to my daughter for nearly an hour a lot everyday.) My ex-husband says that if they wanted to talk to me they would call me.

2007-03-12 13:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by MissingMyKids 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my ex that i dated for 2 1/2 yrs and i have been getting quite close lately despite the fact that she has a bf. In her words, she's dating me on the side first without commitments to see if a relationship between us would work again. I love her but, I don't know if i can just be someones bf on the side, even if it is temporary. she says we're together but it obviously doesnt feel like it, especially when she's with the other guy. ppl are going to say she's using me but i don't think thats what's going on, she just doesn't know what to do. what bothers me the most is that i'm pretty sure that deep down she does want to be with me and only me, so the fact that she won't leave him right now sucks. she always complains about him and how she's sick of him and how bad he treats her. i always ask "then why stay, u know i treat u well"..to that she says "i'm just confused". we do kiss and mess around sometimes but i just don't want to share her like this. and advice on what i should do?

2007-03-12 13:14:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I love a guy. I'm only twelve. Please don't say it's just a silly crush, there is no age limit on love. Besides, I've felt this way for him for a few years now. Right now he's a good friend, but I want it to be more than that. I'm not sure if he feels the same way or not.... are there any signs that might say something about his feelings?
And to guys... what in particular makes you like a girl, other than looks?

2007-03-12 13:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by Lunae 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he likes me back, any way we started talking and he wanted to be in relationship with me and i told him no because i was not ready. we eventually got closer and i was dieing over him and then i wanted to be with him and he say he was going to think about it. i eventually fell in love with him and now all of a sudden he is totally ignoring me. i'm confused please help.

2007-03-12 13:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by puss 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in my 30s and married with a 4 yr old. I have no friends, only coworkers, and they all seem to have their little cliques. Motorcycle season is coming and this brings depression since hubby is out on his bike as he pleases and I am home with kid all the time. I work, come home, feed and bathe kid, play on computer or watch TV, and go to bed. I cannot see living the rest of my life like this. It sucks! I can't even squeeze in any exercise and am getting squishy! I love my kid, but dislike kids in general so play groups are out. I used to go dancing all the time, but now only once or twice a month when kid stays at grandmas, and hubby gripes about going with me, yet doesn't like me going by myself. I envy the freedom hubby has to do as he pleases, and wish I could go too, but we can't afford a babysitter. I long to be someone besides "mom" once in a while. Hubby doesnt like being stuck home with kid, but I am supposed to? Heck I wouldnt have anywhere to go even if I could! Ideas plz?

2007-03-12 13:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my wedding is going to be slightly untraditional. I have no relationship with my father so he is not coming. My mother passed away last October. First off my son is walking me down the aisle. So i was planning on dancing a song with him. Then I would like a combined dance where my fiance dances with his mom and I dance with his dad. I would like to incorporate my mom in this and her favorite singers were Elvis Presley and Alan Jackson. They have a TON of love songs but i am having a hard time picking one for this occasion. Does anyone of any suggestions on what songs would be appropriate for this type of dance???? Help please!!!

2007-03-12 13:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Its obviouse, so I know for a fact. The problem is our conflicting scheduals make it hard for me to ask her out, since when I am around her she is never alone. I have a 5 min window during one time of the day where I could talk to her in this maner, but it is not every day, and has many contributing factors to whether o not she is actually there. Because of this, I have decided it is best to ask her out in a less conventional mamnner.
She left a note on my car two weeks ago, saying her and her friends love me, so I figure it would be alwright if I left a note on her car saying, "give me a call", and I would leave my phone number.

What do you think? Or what should I say?


PS. Yes, she is very very cute.

2007-03-12 13:11:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating