One of my old uni mates is making it quite obvious he likes me...paying compliments, asking me to come up and visit quite often, is always phoning and texting me, asking me what I'm doing etc....and quite frankly he's really starting to annoy me. It's on a daily basis.
I'm just not interested in him and his constant questionning of what i'm doing or who i'm with is so irritating. He also tries to make me jealous by pretending he has interest from other women when i really don't care and actually wish he did have someone else so he'd get off my case.
If i don't reply to a text, 20 minutes later I get a "you not replying" or similar or 3 phone calls and if i log in msn i get the whole "i thought you weren't talking to me!"
I don't want to be horrible guy and tell him to stick it...can anyone think of some nicer ways to politely tell him "go stalk someone else!!!"
2007-03-12 13:21:26 · 14 answers · asked by Lalalala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately men are simple beings, and understand only simple things, this leaves us women in a difficult situation, you just have to remember thay are really simple. If you say 'look I'm sorry I'm just not interested in you that way, I think you're a really good friend but that's as far as it's going to go' then he will take it that you think he's a good friend and that you're not interested in him in that way. The ammount of times men turn round and say 'well, why didn't you just say that', we should trust that! Good luck!
2007-03-12 14:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a kind voice, explain to him that you are'nt interested in him and that, frankly, his constant barrage of calling, texting, emailing you is actually driving you farther away. Invent a boyfriend and explain the reason he never sees this boyfriend is because he works long, hard hours and when the two of you get together, you meet him somewhere so he doesn't have to use more of his time to come over and pick you up. Say that you and your boyfriend have been dating exclusively for X amount of time and the two of you are quite happy with the situation.
If that doesn't work, use harsher words and tell him you tried to nicely explain the first time and obviously it didn't work. Threaten him if you have to by saying you will go to the "authorities" if he doesn't amend his behaviour towards you.
2007-03-12 20:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest he'll respect you more then findind out the truth in the future......Beside s u dont know how he really feels so its better to get it ova n done with now n easy then hard and n the long run
2007-03-12 20:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pr!n(3ss @nn!3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him straight up if he likes u this will make him feel weird or uncomfortable and then just say listen im sorry but im not interested
2007-03-12 20:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tel him your grown up ..and you have things to do in your day...cant be listenin to the crap 24/7 all your life ...change your number or ignore him totally...from the picture i see ..he's a big Loser !! lol
2007-03-13 07:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a Hit Man!!!
oi oi
or The A-Team lol
:-)
2007-03-13 00:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by mancman3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be 'horrible' to him, but you can simply be 'straight' with him.
"Look, I thank for your interest, but I'm really not interested."
Wouldn't that do ....for a beginning?
Sash.
2007-03-12 22:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a link to this article!
2007-03-12 21:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Sarcasm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him that's he's getting on your nerves and that he needs to leave you alone.
2007-03-12 20:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by I ? Escape The Fate!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. tell him that your boyfriend gets back from his special forces mission in iraq soon and that if he finds all these messages then he'll probably kill him.
2007-03-12 20:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋