Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

ok I just started going out with him. and right before we started going out he ended with his ex of 4 months. but i think he is still talking to her and it is scary to think about!!! She just can not get over him and she wont leave him alone. he tells me that he doesnt like her but He had strong feelings about her before and still feel like some of those feelings are still there!!! what are your thoughts an what are some things i should ask him about her??? im not afraid to ask him anything so pleaseeeeeeee help!!! its kinda making me nervous and also when we are on the phone i can hear him texting and i think he is talking to her!!!!

2007-03-12 13:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by ~~ny giants fan~~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:40:14 · 17 answers · asked by sweetlove30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like my guy friend who has a girlfriend.He considers her the love of his life,but I dont think that he really loves her like he says he does.We flirted for a while even though he has a girlfriend,and whenever I would say something about another guy,he always changed the subject back to me and him.Well last night went terribly wrong.I asked him why he changed so quickly,and why he dont call me sweety and things like he used to.He said because he called the love of his life that,his girlfriend.So we began arguing over nothing really,and I asked him why we were even friends if all we did was argue.He was like,oh my goshhh,like he didnt want to talk about it.I ended up telling him that I hated him,and he just took it and said that I'd done it whatever he meant by that.And while we were talking,I asked about me and him,and he said,there is no me and you,so theres nothing to tell.But he was trying to flirt with me too kinda in a subdued way.Is he trying to hide his feelings or what?

2007-03-12 13:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would like to date a midetsi have aways wanted to

2007-03-12 13:39:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy but Im not sure if hes into me. I see him look at me sometimes but i dont kno if hes lookin at someone else. He also walks with me sometimes and talks to me a little but im not sure if hes jus being nice. How do i kno and what should i do?

2007-03-12 13:39:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When can you say that "my girlfriend..." and not "my date..."
What's the time to start considering her ur gf? what are the signs?

2007-03-12 13:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister says she got married and i don't want to hurt her feelings by asking to see if she has her marriage license so i'm tryin to find a way to find out without askin her.

2007-03-12 13:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by liltyrtle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you go out, hook up, etc. with a guy, what like of underwear would you like better?
*boxers
*boxer briefs
*briefs
*thong (LOL)

WHAT???

(Thanks! I know its an easy question.)

2007-03-12 13:38:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law who always help me out with my problems and such. She has a baby whose 2 years, he goes to child care place when my brother and her is working.


I'm going to be a guest in their house for the next 7 days. The last time, I was a guest in their house, I messed up big time because I was lazy and I didn't do a thing for their house.

This time, How Can I be a good guest in their house?

I don't know how to cook.

2007-03-12 13:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Should I shave... down below I mean. I personally think it looks better and makes it look bigger:). But, I don't know if it is what girls want or not. You can IM me your answer if you are too embarassed to give me one out in public. My IM is youmeandthebed69 Ladies please help! :)

2007-03-12 13:37:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl at school and she supposedly got me to go out with this HOT guy. But I am not sure that I can trust her. On the other hand I think he might like me. I don't know what to do. Any suggestions ?

2007-03-12 13:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jonas Brothers Lover! 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any unique ideas? It's going to be held at our home, so decorating ideas or games, music etc would be great!

2007-03-12 13:37:14 · 21 answers · asked by Moneta 4 in Weddings

Ok so there's this guy I REALLY like....But he likes my best friend...More than anything, but she's dating my cousin. And all he ever talks about is how much he cares about her, and how much he loves her....And it hurts so much!! He's like the sweetest guy, and we talk about everything, but I wish he could just understand how much I like him.....

2007-03-12 13:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by A.J. 4 in Singles & Dating

I think shes waiting for me to ask her out....
But i dont know what or how to say it.
Its been 3 months and i think shes losing interest...
I gotta pop the question.


I hate being a dork.

2007-03-12 13:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am happily married to a man that I have been with 17 years. I love him. Period. I have never had an affair on him. He is very good to me and I don't want to do anything to hurt him. But, I have this problem. I have this goodlooking man that shows up alot, and I believe he is making it a point to be around me. I am 36 and he is 30. He is darn goodlooking and he is using his eyes and smile to flirt with me. I can't help but to think about him ....but I don't want to think about him! How do you STOP thinking of someone you don't want to think about but your mind WONT let you!!! I am NOT going to cheat on my husband ....but I'm afriad that this very thing is how affairs start. PLEASE help me. I need someone's help really bad. Tell me how to stop this nonsense!!!

2007-03-12 13:36:33 · 23 answers · asked by sugarbud 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great "special male friend" that is graduating from college this June. I've known him for three years and we've had this messy little friendship where I always seem to want more, and he's perfectly happy in the friend zone and gets scared if I try to cross the line. I've kind of gotten used to living this way.... One thing scares me. He lives like four states away and when he goes home, he's home for good. I doubt he'll really do much talking online and he doesn't have a cell phone (such a 'tard, I know...). At first I got this overwhelming feeling of sadness, thinking of never seeing him again, but I'm borderline scared. I've never gotten so attached to someone like this before and I really can't imagine making it without my old friend. Advice? Words of wisdom? Help!?

2007-03-12 13:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 in Friends

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2007-03-12 13:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

My new neighbors are very rude and most of them are teens, so they put techno so loud at night time i can hear it from two blocks away! any help?

2007-03-12 13:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by hsmstam 2 in Friends

2007-03-12 13:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by nera a star 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i know this one guy and i totally hate him. But then agian deep down i still really like him. But back to the point he is doing coke and i hate it. I want to tell him that i want him to stop cause he will be better of but like i said we like dont talk cause i like hate him. I just want him to get help so i dont have to hate him.

2007-03-12 13:35:28 · 5 answers · asked by nikki marie 1 in Friends

my girl friend says im too nice...... im not like freaking crazy nice i jus tlike always compliment her and stuff and i never get mad.. im always their when she calls exc. im just a good bf i guess.... but my gf is annoyed by me cause she cant get me angry like she calls me names .. but i dont really care cause im used to it and they dont bother me. . . she trys to get me angry but it never seems to work. . . and if i do get a little upset i get over it in like 2 minutes i never hold grudges mroe then like 20 minutes..... and idk isnt it a good thing that i dont get mad at my gf? and is the phrase " nice guys finish last" because im starting to think it is true...

2007-03-12 13:34:40 · 6 answers · asked by Mickster 3 in Singles & Dating

Some people come up to me and get really close like half a foot away from my face, I am a guy by the way and its not guys that come up this close.

2007-03-12 13:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by Wireless 2 in Singles & Dating

Why I am asking is because my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The 1st 3 months were CRAZY. It was sooooo much fun and absolutely nothing was wrong.

3 months ago I woke up with this thought that I had fallen out of love with him. I was scared to death. Didnt eat or sleep for at least a week...was just a mess!

I dont feel like I love him as much as I have loved some of my ex's (abusive relationships...mostly emotionally) Now I just have fun with my current beau but for some reason am having doubts. I feel as though I have 2 ppl arguing about it. One telling me I love him the other telling me I dont....

Is it normal to feel this way? Am I just not in love with him yet? I don't think that it was just infatuation and then fizzled down and realized who we both really were together. There is no reason that it could have fizzled down cause he is everything I want...
This is my 1st non dramatic relationship and my friends say I seem so myself!
Does this mean that we are not compatible and he is not the man for me?

Thanks

2007-03-12 13:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girls looks great; is there anyway I can ask her out on a date?

2007-03-12 13:33:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..so they broke up after he cheated on her after a yr long relationship.....and we got together 4 months after that...we've been together for 4 months...like any guy...he wanted what he couldnt have and tried getting her back...at first she was confused but then she said she wanted to be with me.....3 months went by and now she is confused again. She says she loves us both soo much and she wants to go spend 1 day with him this week to see if he "changed"....I just wanna be with her...and as passive as I am, I told her to do what she has to do to make a decision....I dont think many guys would approve of that, but what else could i do? It was either that or she'd say "i dont wanna be with anyone then"...and I LOVE HER SOO MUCHH....

2007-03-12 13:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by 28323 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:33:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 13 and my dad thanks i to young to date he says i have to wait tell im 16 how old do u people think i should be to be able to date plzz... help

2007-03-12 13:33:13 · 4 answers · asked by hailey a 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 years old and my husband is mad because I am sort of close to my parents we moved away from both of our families almost a yr ago and they listened to me when I was not happy with my marriage, I almost left my husband and he is mad that I am so close to them, just talking to them makes him mad, I don't tell them bad stuff anymore.

2007-03-12 13:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by Angela S 1 in Family

we have been in this relationship for 5 years. Recently found out that my boyfrd had made a lot of female chat frds, calls them and at times has phone sex with them. He doesn't meet them but you never know. I had caught him doing this before and he promised me he will never do it again. But he did it again and again. he defends himself by saying that he gets bored of the relationship and he knows this is wrong and he should abandon it. I am really devasted. What should I do. I still love him but I am very very insecure now.

2007-03-12 13:33:04 · 4 answers · asked by IsK 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to leave to become financially stable again with out shooting myself in the foot again.

2007-03-12 13:32:37 · 13 answers · asked by Margarita 1 in Singles & Dating