I am 33 years old and my husband is mad because I am sort of close to my parents we moved away from both of our families almost a yr ago and they listened to me when I was not happy with my marriage, I almost left my husband and he is mad that I am so close to them, just talking to them makes him mad, I don't tell them bad stuff anymore.
2007-03-12 13:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by Angela S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your husband shouldn't be mad at you because you have a close relationshi[ with your parents. Your a grown women and it's important for you to be with your family. Even though he get's mad just ignore it. He probably is just jelous because your parents are getting more attention then he is.
Don't sweat it. If he keeps acting like that then you need to do something about it.
2007-03-12 13:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't believe your description is all well and honest. But, let me tell you this: Even if you were right it wouldn't make you happy... and in this case you're not! Why? Because your man is your family. You chose to make him family and you owe him that love and respect. He feels degraded in your parent's eyes becasue of all the negative that was relayed to them in the past. Honey, men are simple. If you make it your business to love him like you've never been hurt it will reciprocate 10-fold. You will benefit. It's a win-win situation. Don' trust me. Try it yourself starting tonight. Be compassionate, be sweet, be kind, be inviting, be loving and be very sexy. A good orgasm never hurt anyone ;) After a while, if you keep this attitude you'll find your husband isn't mad anymore when you "talk" to your parents... Good Luck!
2007-03-12 21:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by knowitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not right for him to keep being mad he just has to understand that you are close. It sounds like he is more so mad because everytime you wasnt happy with anything you most likely called your parents and he felt as though it just gave him a bad name and he probably feels as though the reason you almost left him was because of your parents. Nobody really said marriage is easy but you have to make the best out of things like this and you have to communicate with him more often. Good Luck
2007-03-12 20:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He shouldnt be mad but u do have to respect the boundries of yall being married and puttin your family in everything yall go though. Sit down with him and figure out WHAT exactly about you and your family being SO close bothers him then see what you could change about that
2007-03-12 20:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pr!n(3ss @nn!3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO he shouldn't be mad that you are close to your parents, my husband and I have been married for 6 years now and I am still and always will be daddy's little girl :), but now that you are married, he may want you to rely on him now to be there for you. My husband and I have a great relationship, we share all of our secrets and dreams, and sharing those with your parents is fine, but you are married now, he is asking you to trust and believe in him. Now I'm not saying that you shouldn't call and talk to your parents, it is wonderful that you have such a great bond with them, but you are a married woman now. Unless your husband is treating you hostilly (such as physical or mental abuse), lean on him now for your dreams, it may be a scary ride to let go of telling your parents everything, but believe me, when you are with a man, whom can love you more than he loves himself, it will be a great and wonderful ride. I wish you both the best.....:)
2007-03-12 21:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Heartful_poet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ur husband shouldnt be mad at u for being close to ur family at all seems as if he's jealous because u have someone else in ur life that ur close to and he's not the only one in his life some men want and need to be the center of their wifes world and cant deal with it anyother way i'd tell him nicely that u will always be close to ur family and he might as well get use to it
2007-03-12 20:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just ruined your husbands thoughts about your parents,when you tell your parent about your marriage problems instead of talking to your husband that makes your husband feel like your just talk crap about him to your parents.
Parents don't forget! so they will always look at him like trash because thats all you ever tell them about your husband.
That in return will cause your parents to convence you to leave him and tell you how he isn't right for you.
You dont ever talk to your parents about your marriage fueds it childish and your an adult you don't need your parents judgement , you need to talk to your husband who you promised to love and charish for the rest of your life!
Remember nobody else made that promise to devote his life to you and your needs. Take care of it together or go to a marriage counsler they will do wonders for a troubled marriage.
take care!
2007-03-12 20:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by FlameBoy2210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to get mad because you are close to your family, he is just trying to control you, don't let him
2007-03-12 20:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋