Why I am asking is because my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The 1st 3 months were CRAZY. It was sooooo much fun and absolutely nothing was wrong.
3 months ago I woke up with this thought that I had fallen out of love with him. I was scared to death. Didnt eat or sleep for at least a week...was just a mess!
I dont feel like I love him as much as I have loved some of my ex's (abusive relationships...mostly emotionally) Now I just have fun with my current beau but for some reason am having doubts. I feel as though I have 2 ppl arguing about it. One telling me I love him the other telling me I dont....
Is it normal to feel this way? Am I just not in love with him yet? I don't think that it was just infatuation and then fizzled down and realized who we both really were together. There is no reason that it could have fizzled down cause he is everything I want...
This is my 1st non dramatic relationship and my friends say I seem so myself!
Does this mean that we are not compatible and he is not the man for me?
Thanks
2007-03-12 13:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think its normal. You have been thru alot lately so I think its a normal tendency of a person to put up its defense. It would really help if you seek professional help so that you can weed out issues thats raging in your head..
2007-03-12 13:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Papabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might have some personal issues to work out if most of your ex's who abused you emotionally are the ones you loved more. Do you think poorly of yourself? Some people love the wrong guys because a part of them feels that they deserve to be treated that way. I dated a very controlling guy for two years because I thought that was how a relationship worked. Maybe now that you're past the initial drama of falling for someone, you crave (subconsciously) the drama of a bad relationship.
You can tell a lot about a relationship by how you act when you're in the couple. I would say that your friends telling you that you seem so yourself is a good sign. (Especially if they tried to get you out of the bad relationships from your past.)Drama is exciting but love isn't drama. Love can range from exciting to calm, from heart-pounding to comfortable. Stick with it for a little while longer. As long as you're not facing any of the Four A's (abuse, addiction, adultery, abandonment), this sounds like you need some time to see what you really feel about this guy.
Listen to your friends and your heart and you shouldn't go wrong.
2007-03-12 21:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens alot. sometimes you really really like someone and you click for awhile but you cant be with him because you just dont feel connect anymore. try working it out try doing the things that you used to do with him when the feelings were there those feelings may come and if they don't then i think its time to end it and move on if you end it those feelings may come back then you defintely know that your meant to be
dana
2007-03-12 20:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by jocelyn c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CRAZY>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
2007-03-12 20:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweety is not crazy it normal. trust cause i still love my ex boyfriend. but if you weat and see you will mak it. good luck i have fath in you
2007-03-12 20:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were probably in lust with him at first. Happens to alot of us.
2007-03-12 20:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋