Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

we are meeting up with my sister in Disneyland, I feel like it is a little honeymoon since we never got to go anywhere. My sister is taking my kids who are 18 and 19, they will be staying in her room. My other sister is going with her b/f and their 4 kids. I wanted it to be just my new hubby and I but he wants to take his 13 year old son. I feel bad because his son hasn't been on vacation in 5 years(his mother makes $95,000 a year but refuses to take him on vacation with her), but I really want to have our own room and have "us" time. What should I do?

2007-03-12 13:32:11 · 14 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Weddings

I was a Jehovah's Witness until I was about 11 or 12. My parents finally decided to divorce and my mom had taken me and my brother away from the religion at last. We could me normal kids and see my moms side of the family again. But my dad's side I have never really seen since. Maybe once or twice. Also my mothers own brother who is a JW told her she was dead to him when they divorced and took my dad's side! All because of this religion. Can I ever move on?

2007-03-12 13:31:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

his name is patrick, and yes, we've thought of patty, krabby/chicken patty, st. patrick, and patty wagon. he loves guitar and i've been going CRAZY trying to make a nickname for him bc he always makes them for other people. help??

2007-03-12 13:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by lajolla_x3 2 in Friends

I think I may be dealing with an insecure man, and I need to know the warning signs/red flags.

2007-03-12 13:31:31 · 2 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Singles & Dating

Am visiting new york (from ireland) for paddys weekend and would love to book for the pogues. My favourite irish band but have never got the chance to see them in ireland. Does anyone know what the roseland ballroom is like. I know the location. Is it all standing, is there a bar. Would you recommend it?

2007-03-12 13:31:12 · 1 answers · asked by Teresa M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm good friends with this girl in my grade. I want to tell her I like her, but I dont know how. How can I get the idea across to her?

2007-03-12 13:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by john H. 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.... theres this boy in my class and i like him.... he likes me back...... i know it seems stupid but i dont want him to like me back....






ANOTHER PROBLEM!

theres also a girl in my class shes kinda my friend but she told this guy and younger than me but he makes a fool out of me really easily about it and he makes fun of me(JERK-HEAD).... and the same girl who told JERK-HEAD told the boy i like about how i like him....






I NEED HELP!

2007-03-12 13:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by MCR rocks 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 13:29:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 13:28:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime my ex gets mad, he would break up with me even if he wasn't mad at me..he would point something wrong about our relationship, and say he wants to break up..then whenever hes happy again, like the next day or a couple days later he says he sorry for breaking up with me and asks me back out..he broke up with me twice.and last time was 2 days ago well today my friend talked to him and he told her he still likes me and wants to go back out..i really want to go back out with him because most of the time hes actually rreaally nice,caring,and everything..but the only thing wrong with him is just breaking up with me when hes mad..should i go back out with him or no??

2007-03-12 13:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is considering divorcing her husband because she has reason to believe that he is cheating on her. The question is, what are the laws regarding divorce? If she initiates the divorce proceedings, can she get alimony from him? And how does his adultery factor in...does she have to have proof? She was told by a friend that it doesn't matter about the circumstances, that whoever is making the most money has to pay the other alimony. How does all of this work? Any insight into this would be much appreciated. Thanks. We live in NC by the way, if that helps any.

2007-03-12 13:27:38 · 16 answers · asked by Antecedent 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 13:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Friends

ok we have been talkin since skool started,we dont go out,but he told me he had liked me and i liked him too! we had exchanged numbers and we talk a lot over the phone but at skool he acts like he doesnt see me when i know he does(like when i walk passed him i know he sees me),he only hugs me when he is around certain friends(he in the 12 grade and im in 9) i feel he is ashamed or embarrassed of talkin to me,but i feel if u cant talk to me at skool and have a problem with that then how can we go out,ima give him time,i try being nice,but im not calling him n e more until he gets it together or maybe never.

2007-03-12 13:27:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What ShoulD i DO?

2007-03-12 13:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she comes into the office frequently, she's from another office, shes so hot and I want to ask her out , but i dont want any trouble w/employers or harassment, I'm pretty sure she would be ok with having lunch or something but I cant really ask her without it being overheard in our office...any Ideas?

2007-03-12 13:26:59 · 3 answers · asked by xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to threaten to divorce him..I'd probably be worse off. I'd be even more financially broke, and I'd have to shoulder everything from bills to kids all alone. But I just don't get his reluctance. He has VERY low self esteem; he can't read well and is not educated much beyond a tenth grade level. He's convinced nobody would hire him; so there's no point in trying. His low self esteem and lack of ambition (or pride?) is causing me to lose what respect I had for him. I love him; but I can't respect himif he won't even TRY. Otherwise he's fine... he doesn't drink, doesn't smoke. is wonderful with kids, not physically or mentally abusive.....he just won't try to overcome his self esteem/pride issues and get a job. What the heck do I do? Due to recent health issues, I can't work for the next couple of months.

2007-03-12 13:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by Alisa L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think girls are far more confusing than guys are

2007-03-12 13:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by zippoman1990 2 in Singles & Dating

T.S.
or
J.T.

they are both awesome for different reasons.
just pick them by their initials.
it'll work out the right way.
:)

2007-03-12 13:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u ask a girl out on a first date?

2007-03-12 13:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by Yankees fan 2 in Singles & Dating

In my school, theres this really mean guy named Ray. He's nice 2 everyone xcept 4 me. He's going out with 1 of my friends and i already asked her if she could talk 2 him, but he didn't listen 2 her. All he does is try to hurt me or call me a lesbian(which im not) or something stupid like that. I can't hurt him because i go to a catholic school and they're big on the "no physical contact" thing. I tried telling him off and cussing him out, but it doesn't work. And then i've tried avoiding him completely, but it doesn't work. My next influence is go 2 the teacher and complain. Wat do u think i should do???

2007-03-12 13:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by bubbly_blond34241 2 in Singles & Dating

Does sex ruin teenage relationship. please help?Effects of having sex in a teenage relationship?
a guyfriend of mine had sex with his girlfriend. 3 weeks later he is talking about trying to have sex with a cheerleader. does he still like his girlfriend. does having sex make him bored of her?

2007-03-12 13:24:38 · 5 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

We are a couple in our mid-twenties in age, so I can understand wanting to be "out and about." However, my husband is always over his friend's house or he is gone to shoot pool, watch "the game", etc... I can always call his cell and he does answer; I always know where he is. Cheating is not an issue. It's just that I wish he wanted to spend more time with me and our 5 year old son. Am I overreacting? He always comes home at a decent time--it's just that he is gone more than he is at home. He says, "at least you always know where I am!" Compared to some other relationships that I know, he is right. However, I still want what I want and that is for my husband to be home more often. I hang out with my friends probably once every one or two weeks. He hangs out with his 5 or 6 times a week! Am I making too big of an issue out of this--meaning--do couples usually have bigger problems to worry about? He is a wonderful husband and father otherwise.

2007-03-12 13:24:33 · 16 answers · asked by E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like asking total strangers for advice or close friends?

Some people prefer asking total strangers really personal questions, what do you like, asking your best friend or on here to strangers?

2007-03-12 13:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is in regards to me meeting a women (age 18-24), say at a bar or something, who is just as interested in me as I am her.

Should I:

A. Call her in few days, talk for just a FEW minutes, and ask her out.

B. Call her, talk for a little bit, and ask her if she like to do something with me and my friends this week.

C. Call her, try to chat, perhaps for a while, call 1 or 2 more times that week or so and chat, and than ask her out.

D. other

2007-03-12 13:23:57 · 8 answers · asked by Magician 1 in Singles & Dating

Well...I've been dating my bf for 3 weeks..& everyone is telling me hes changing me and makin me more rebelious..Hes also 5 yrs older than me.& plus I think im starting to like someone else...What Should I do?

2007-03-12 13:23:43 · 1 answers · asked by loflin_21 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiances brother is getting married and my fiance is best man but i cant stand the woman he marrying and i gotta spend all day with them she hates me and vice versa cos my fiance was her best mate i she didnt want him in a relationship she wanted him all to herself i know she has slept around behind his back loads of times he just so blind and cant see owt wrong but no one in the family knows what do i do

2007-03-12 13:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

bathrooms, getting dressed..ect

2007-03-12 13:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a company trip this weekend and even asked him to go with me but he refused. When I came home I was excited to see him and told him about the trip, unfortunately only I got sarcasm and a cold shoulder from him. It's not like I did something wrong and everything was a wholesome company outing...I know he might feel rejected from it but I don't see any reason why he should act like a baby and hurt me in the process. He always have this personality of looking down at what I do and people that I go out with....I don't feel like I need to apologize from what happened.

I feel like shutting my world from him. Do I deserve this treatment in the first place? Make up sex is not even in the vocabulary after how I felt....

2007-03-12 13:22:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 13:22:34 · 4 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think it's called twinges, which is a sudden, physical, sharp pain.

whenever i am depressed/hurt, and if im thinking about something sad, i would get this sudden sharp pain in my heart, and on my wrists at the same time. the pain lasts for only 2 seconds.

is this normal? do you get these too?

2007-03-12 13:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating