everytime my ex gets mad, he would break up with me even if he wasn't mad at me..he would point something wrong about our relationship, and say he wants to break up..then whenever hes happy again, like the next day or a couple days later he says he sorry for breaking up with me and asks me back out..he broke up with me twice.and last time was 2 days ago well today my friend talked to him and he told her he still likes me and wants to go back out..i really want to go back out with him because most of the time hes actually rreaally nice,caring,and everything..but the only thing wrong with him is just breaking up with me when hes mad..should i go back out with him or no??
2007-03-12 13:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both times were in 1 week too..idontknow
2007-03-12 13:32:40 · update #1
he's going to continue what he's doing. its pretty much a certainty. I'd stay out of the relationship unless you can take that kind of heart break every 2-3 days. also, its probably best to move on because who wants a fair weather boyfriend anyways? you want someone to love you despite everything else.. especially his occasional anger with you or even something totally unrelated to you. you deserve better than that. good luck with everything, though. =]
2007-03-12 13:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you should give him at least one more chance. Third times the charm, right? Acutally, I don't know. If you do decide to get back together with him, tell him that this is his last chance and if he breaks up with you whenever he gets mad again, then you are done. Of course, only say that if that is the truth.
Most definitely, you should always be sure that you love him enough to get back together with him a third time. Do that, and you should be okay.
2007-03-12 20:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age but this sounds to me like he is going through some stress/anxiety problems so if you decide to take him back I think you should talk to him about that possibly being an issue and see if he would be willing to get some help with the issue and figuring out the problem.
2007-03-12 20:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes too emotional, needs to sort out his own life problems before he can be in a serious relationship. I'd leave him and go find someone mature enough to treat you how you'd like to be treated, and not break up with you for insignificant reasons.
2007-03-12 20:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that your heart cant keep having him just dump u and get u back whenever he wants! and you really need to let him know if he keeps up with that, u may not be around for long and you'll walk! it will make him think just how lucky he is to have u in his life and hopefully he will take that into consideration! good luck girl
2007-03-12 20:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sounds confused give him some time and than if you still want to date him lay down some ground rules and stick to them
2007-03-12 20:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T GO BACK OUT WITH HIM. IF YOU KEEP GOING BACK TO HIM, HE'S GONNA THINK HE CAN ALWAYS HURT YOU, AND WALK ALL OVER YOU. SHOW HIM YOU CAN BE A STRONG FEMALE.
2007-03-12 20:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Da*Da 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should leave him. he is crazy. wehn u have his kids he can start abusing u phisaclly. these r how these relationships start. u deserve better and i know u can find better. no offense but i think that he is crazy.
2007-03-12 20:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Fathema B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep going back.
2007-03-12 20:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋