In my school, theres this really mean guy named Ray. He's nice 2 everyone xcept 4 me. He's going out with 1 of my friends and i already asked her if she could talk 2 him, but he didn't listen 2 her. All he does is try to hurt me or call me a lesbian(which im not) or something stupid like that. I can't hurt him because i go to a catholic school and they're big on the "no physical contact" thing. I tried telling him off and cussing him out, but it doesn't work. And then i've tried avoiding him completely, but it doesn't work. My next influence is go 2 the teacher and complain. Wat do u think i should do???
2007-03-12 13:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by bubbly_blond34241 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry - are you asking me specifically or you mean he's evil?
Seriously, he's attacking you out of some insecurity on his part. It shows immaturity and he's feeding off of you getting upset.
Avoiding him is always the best, but if that's impossible, try to beat him at his own game. If he sees that he's not getting to you, he'll give up because the thrill is gone.
Try some of these things:
-smile at him and tell him you know why he feels the need to go after you. Then hold up your pinky,
-flat out ask him if he likes picking on girls. Does it make him feel good about himself?
-Tell him his jokes are funny. Ask him if his little brother helped him come up with them.
-In public, ask him when he's going to grow up.
2007-03-12 13:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally if someone attacks a person, its a sign of inferiority towards the latter. I strongly believe that Ray guy has alot of issues that he is just trying to cover it up by venting revenge on you. I think the best way to have this one stopped is the approach the right authority which in this case will be the teacher of the school adviser and have it dealth with.
2007-03-12 20:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Papabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are really weird sometimes. I can say that without rancor, because I am one! It sounds a little like he may be interested in getting your attention, but feels his cause is hopeless. No one out here knows the ins and outs like you do, but if you feel at all threatened, you should get HELP!! There is no one in all this world who can replace you!! Be on the cautious side!!! AND GOD BLESS!!!
2007-03-12 20:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the wind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to act like it doesn't bother you.
he likes to see you in pain, you take away the pain. he has nothing to laugh at anymore.
if your friend is going out with such a dick then why are you friends with her in the first place, she should care about you and him. not just him, unless he is that way with her but he hides it.
main thing is act like you didn't give a damn about what anyone says about you, cause you are too proud for all his small talk.
2007-03-12 20:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by lil angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your friend that's dating him get a picture of him on the toilet, then make plenty of copies and post them all over the school. Or go to thepayback.com.
Plenty of ideas there.
2007-03-12 20:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really weird that he's only mistreating you, but he is. You've tried to talk to him, curse him and get your friends' help. Now it's time to talk to a teacher. He's harassing you, and it's not stopping.
2007-03-12 20:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has a name: harassment. you need to tell a teacher asap before this gets even more out of hand.
2007-03-12 20:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
2007-03-12 20:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swift kick to the testicles...even Jesus would understand that
2007-03-12 20:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by music junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me thinks he fancies you...........try coming on to him and then denying it.......
2007-03-12 20:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by renegadechickenhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋