I just want to know what to girls really want? Can you Fill Me In? Im in college 18 yrs old and wanted to know? Whether its being friends all the way to being in a relationship... BE SPECIFIC PLEASE :)
2007-03-12 13:16:36 · 18 answers · asked by jaysonmgs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every girl wants different things. and it depends on your personality. but in general girls want:
- a man with ambition
- kind heart
- honesty
- spontaneous & fun
- good in bed; or at least be willing to learn
- someone who can make her laugh
- man that's open to love
- someone who treats thm like they're the most beautiful woman on earth
all this sounds cheesy but it's true. you're still young. it takes time to get it right.
2007-03-12 13:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is as various, as there are various kinds of girls.
It will depend on the girl and what she is like.
So first you need to know what you are looking for in a girl...and I bet you already have a picture of that. I'm not just talking about how she looks, but who she is.
Because you see some girls only look at the surface....what the guy looks like, how much money he has, how popular he is, etc. And some guys do the same....how does she look, is she popular with all the guys, can he have sex with her, and a good time and dump her later.
But a lot of girls want more than that. They too have a picture in mind and want someone who is considerate, polite with good manners, responsible, honest, friendly and has a nice group of friends, has goals in mind for he future, would be a good best friend.....and not trying to just use them and throw them away.
Which kind of girl you want will depend on what kind of guy you are. They will want what you do.
If I were you, I'd look for a best friend. A great way to start a good relationship.
2007-03-19 19:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I'm only 15, and seriously in love, but I think there's no real age for love, and I'm a little bit mature for my age so I think I can help you a bit.
There are all kinds of us.
But essencially, we girls love someone who:
1. Is caring but not too protective.
2. A gentleman.
3. Romantic but headstrong and independent.
4. Someone who respects us.
5. Someone educated.
And that's basically it, but there are a lot more and it depends on every person.
For example, I'm a very deep person, so for me it would include thousands of things, but usually people are nice and simple, which is better.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 13:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open, respect us, love us. Trust us, hug us, protect us (but not too much), remember our B-days, be there for us in a crisis, tell us we're beautiful. Be patient with us, kind to us. Please don't be rude, and don't demand your own way. Kindly let us know when we are being cruel and give us chocolate on such occasions.
Listen to us, don't underestimate our opinion.
Be a gentleman, but dont' try to be something that your not.
Don't swear like crazy in front of us, Have an interest in us, not just how beautiful or not beautiful we are. Be someone that we can love and trust.
2007-03-12 14:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by I Love Yeshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl has there different things about a man that they like. I want a man that can make me laugh at anytime. And when I'm down he's not afraid of my tears and knows just what to say to cheer me up. A man that will be there for me through my ups and downs (even through my pms episodes lol) A man that likes my personality and that tells me im beautiful everyday. A man that wants only me and no other woman. Yeah every man looks at other women its in their nature so don't us woman, but a man that desires me. That will hold me through the night, and wake up with me. A man that will stick up for me to other people even if he knows im wrong. One that will listen to my problems and not be afraid to fall in love. A man That doesn't mind a little house work. And lucky for me ive already found that man and i love him to death.
2007-03-12 13:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl wants special attention from a guy. Being friends first is better for us as we get to know the guy well, understand his ways and views. After knowing him, we decide if the guy is really 'The One'.
2007-03-19 22:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women persons are too emotionally in touch in issues. they have a tough time attending to the element. hence, she isn't bodily attracted to him, besides the reality that he would seem advantageous. She would not choose to harm his emotions, so it style of feels as though she is maximum appropriate him on. Her immaturity is what makes this problem so complicated. men choose to get to the element of particular or no, yet women persons will go in circles and assume the lads to purely be attentive to. this is the version between the male concepts as against their lady counterpart. there's a reason in the back of this as in winding up one yet another. till you be attentive to the variations, you will continuously be puzzled via the reactions of a woman.
2016-11-24 23:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i want a relationship, but i can't answer for every single girl. i like being with a guy and knowing that he cares about me as much as i care about him. trust is always important, too. however, some girls are totally into the fwb thing. it jsut depends on the girl.
2007-03-12 13:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i like a guy that is silly, but serious when i comes to real stuff! i totally like long relationships, and i like honest and sensitive guys too, it doesn't seem like that with us girls but thats what most girls want! he also has to be cute, unless he's really nice, then there are other things but the 3rd girl answered it already!
2007-03-20 12:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lily C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I need in a guy is self-confidence. It is great to see a guy that is not afraid to be crazy and who doesn't care what other people think of him.
2007-03-12 13:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by rg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋