i like this guy and he likes me back, any way we started talking and he wanted to be in relationship with me and i told him no because i was not ready. we eventually got closer and i was dieing over him and then i wanted to be with him and he say he was going to think about it. i eventually fell in love with him and now all of a sudden he is totally ignoring me. i'm confused please help.
2007-03-12 13:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by puss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys love the pursuit, once they obtain you the excitement is gone for them. The spark is probably gone for him, so cut your losses and try to find another guy. Good luck!
2007-03-12 13:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confused? You shut him down. You had your chance and you blew it, there's nothing to be confused about. I would do the exact same thing if I were in his situation.
Now you wait.. eventually, you will get over him (probably like he got over you)...
There's always the chance that he might still like you of course, but is just getting you back.. it's up to you to evaluate.
2007-03-12 20:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by isantos2357 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that it seems like he is purposely giving you conflicting messages to keep you on your toes on purpose and that does not bode well for a long term relationship. I am oversimplifying but he is trying to control you through your honest emotions and perhaps he remembers how you snubbed him b4 and its just revenge. That is both the best and worst case scenario.
2007-03-12 20:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seee when love strikes one time u havee to take it..but sometimes it doesn't take that long for love to fade offf for certain ppl. in ur case the best thing to do is ask if the answer again & iif ur answer ur looking for end up in a negative answer than u just shake it off like it never happend!
* tiip: always giive them a chance because they may gain bak the luv ..opnce a connnection is restart.
2007-03-12 20:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tuesday S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably moved on to someone else, and probably isn't sure why all of a sudden you wanna be with him, which could be confusing to him
2007-03-12 21:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys like to ignore alot and u just have to play the game if hes treating u like that really why do u like him think about it? but it seams to me u got close to him just give it time dont try to contak him let him call u
2007-03-12 20:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by honey3533 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Pt is he Likes you Look at it that way... He still likes you maybe he is just waiting for the right moment :).......................................I had almost the same situation but I couldn't understand this girl thats why I held back tell him whats really on your mind! For real Guys cant understand women that way dont get mis signals ENJOY :) Hope it works out :)
2007-03-12 20:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by jaysonmgs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, sweetie. You just need a good movie, a gallon of your favorite ice cream, and a shoulder to cry on.
2007-03-12 20:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how that feels! it is probably just because he waz hurt when you told him that you where not ready and he waz not sure if he could say yes without you hurting him again! he probably really loves you but is just not sure what to do! you should definitely talk to him and if he wont talk to you talk to one of his friends and have them talk to him!
2007-03-12 20:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ignoring you cause you didnt put out, thats all, he wants more from you and if your not ready dont fall for his mind games, plenty more guys out there... be patient
2007-03-12 20:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋