Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

2007-03-11 09:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by darush1977 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We were together for a year and a half, but then i understood this is not going anywhere, when need be he would call me his buddy and then at times much more. I felt i wasbeing used emotionally, when i asked him about us, he said he is too busy with his school and job and stuff which i understand, but all i wanted was a commitment. I think the long distance "friendship" (him being in NYC and me being in L.A) and his not very encouraging answers got to me and finally i told him it won't work and that i have many friends i don't need another i want much more and if he couldn't give me that then, it's better we part ways. This was in december, we haven't talked since. He didn't wish me on my B'day but all this time he has been in touch with a friend of mine i mean he has called her a few times asking about me and how i was doing. today he called her and asked her if i have another commited relationship and if it's really me who is not interested or the guys that turn me down! Y CARE?

2007-03-11 09:40:36 · 8 answers · asked by shaiyan 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex broke up with me about 10pm last night. but this past week he has been acting really strange..he hardly talked to me if i texted him he would just text back "ya" "ok" "idont know" stuff like that. and b4 he broke up with me he said he has a lot of stuff on his mind..he seems really sad..then he randomly texts me 1am in the morning after he broke up with me and said "you probably don't even care whats on my mind"..i said ya i do but you wont tell me whats on your mind..and i asked him to tell and he just said "nothing you would understand"..he keeps bringing up that he has a lot on his mind but he wont tell me what is.everytime i ask he just says idunno.or u wont understand..he keeps ignoring me..did he just lose interest or is he just sad?? should i ignore him back?

2007-03-11 09:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and his dad have split up over a year ago, we were not living together although he would stay at our place 3 or 4 days a week.
My son is nearly 5 and I do realise that all this has had a tremendous effect on him, however I've noticed lately that every time his dad is about lo leave when he visits my son or when he's dropping him back, he gets very teary and makes all sorts of excuses to prevent him from leaving.
Sometimes he has major tantrums about something unrelated to dad's departure just before he's about to leave... i can see that he's unhappy about the situation,
He spends time with his dad on a regular weekly basis and thankfully we keep a very good friendship which helps matters, however I'm just puzzled as to why my son has started showing this unhappiness now, he tells me he misses his daddy but just after he's left because during the rest of time he barely even talks about him...

Any advice welcome.

Thanks

2007-03-11 09:38:50 · 18 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Family

I want a friend to chat with!

2007-03-11 09:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley Tisdale 1 in Friends

I just realized i have a problem.. With guys i'm not attracted to i'm able to be classy and keep them as friends for years and years.. but when it's somebody that i'm attracted to, i strategically make it so we don't have a connection and get to the point they want to break up with me everytime. i just realized this with the last guy i met.. he was really into me, he used to call me at night to talk so we could get to know eachother, and i wouldn't answer the phone and then i slept with him fast.. i always do that.. guys i'm not attracted to, i can be friend with them for ten years, be drunk around them and everything and not sleep with them.. why do i do this? i want to be happy someday...

2007-03-11 09:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wanted to meet me
She asked me to go to the movies with her
We have alot of fun together all the time
When we are together she laughs and smiles alo
We have alot in common
We can have fun just talking for hours
She has told me things that you wouldnt just tell anyone

She was here visiting from England for a month. She is 18 and I only knew her for 3 weeks. I really like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her. When I first saw her I thought that I was not going to like her because I knew she smoked and she wasnt that good looking. I always told myself that I would never like a girl that smoked, but with her I dont care. Now I think she is the most beautiful person I have ever seen. We would talk for hours with her laughing and smiling. I wanted it to never end. Then the last week she was here I tried to see her as often as I could. The last night that I thought I was going to see her, the night before she left, she asked me to come the next day when she left.

2007-03-11 09:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

have your mother walk you down the aisle? My mom and I are really close and my father is no longer in my life. Is it common for a mother to walk her daughter down the aisle?

2007-03-11 09:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by kerri c 5 in Weddings

My MIL forgot my 8 yr. old daughter's b-day and now I'm upset.. How do I ask her why did she forget without startng a big problem?

Someone please help me!!!
Thanks..

2007-03-11 09:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by Mom of 3 rugrats 2 in Family

co-dependency or fear?

2007-03-11 09:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by milo2angel 2 in Singles & Dating

She wanted to meet me
She asked me to go to the movies with her
We have alot of fun together all the time
When we are together she laughs and smiles alo
We have alot in common
We can have fun just talking for hours
She has told me things that you wouldnt just tell anyone

She was here visiting from England for a month. She is 18 and I only knew her for 3 weeks. I really like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her. When I first saw her I thought that I was not going to like her because I knew she smoked and she wasnt that good looking. I always told myself that I would never like a girl that smoked, but with her I dont care. Now I think she is the most beautiful person I have ever seen. We would talk for hours with her laughing and smiling. I wanted it to never end. Then the last week she was here I tried to see her as often as I could. The last night that I thought I was going to see her, the night before she left, she asked me to come the next day when she left.

2007-03-11 09:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

my man is in prison in maryland and i just recently moved to texas. I haven't seen him since oct. 06 and he won't get out until 2010. we've been together since 1998 and i love him very much but i'm trying to get my life together and it's kinda lonely.

2007-03-11 09:34:58 · 25 answers · asked by LOVIN' LIFE C 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex works for her fiance under the table. We are going in for a child support hearing to adjust what I pay and I've been told that because she is showing no income I could end up paying a substantial amount more. She quit a job making a bit more than I did to work for this guy. I've never been late on a payment and also cover my son's heathcare costs. My pay has not increased since the last adjustment. Am I screwed or is there something I can do to bring this to the courts attention?

2007-03-11 09:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by dubi4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need it like 4 to 5 times a day. but he is good with 4x a week. what do i do.

2007-03-11 09:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by charlie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My colour scheme is light/hot pink with white.
My bouquet is going to be hand tied with hot pink velvet roses, scattered with a few stargazer lillies (with the stainy bit cut off! 4 obvious reasons!) I am also having a few sprigs of diamonties init too! I am very girly and like things to sparkle - it will match my sparkly dress and tiara!!!
My groom is having a matching hot pink rose with a diamontie inside with a single folded leaf as his button hole.
What do you think???? I trust u all !

2007-03-11 09:34:34 · 12 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 in Weddings

My friend can't see godness in boy and she needs a crush. Where can she find one and what type of guy is her type? She likes music, tennis and soccer.

2007-03-11 09:34:34 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley Tisdale 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:34:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy is Extremely punctual.. and he told me to pick what time of day we were going to go see this movie today.. (all through texts) and so i said well if you want to go in the daytime then anytime after like 2ish would be best for me. then he just said: sounds great i am looking forward to it. And he had set it for today because he was like i am really busy the rest of this week but are you busy on sunday? but so now it is like 2:30 and he still hasn't even said When he's coming or ANYTHING. is he standing me up? Should i say something.. like should i text him and be like are we still on for today? or something like that..? because i don't want to say something and look dumb though if he is standing me up.. but i also don't want him to that that I am the one who doesn't care or something.. what should i do?? do i text or not? or do i wait around by the phone all day? or just forget about him? he sounded excited.. so i don't know what's going on..??!!

2007-03-11 09:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

I work as an administrator in a university. The blokes are all married but can't help wondering if they ever fantasise about me when making love to their wives. If I have a great body, cute face..what is the likelihood they do?

I am the youngest there. Im 25.

2007-03-11 09:34:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:33:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:33:16 · 20 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Weddings

Can you help me out?
Well, one of my best friends like this boy in our school.I am trying to hook her up with him,but he fell in love with me.He kissed me right in front of my best friend and now she doesnt want to talk to me.I try to tell her that he kissed me first but she doesnt believe me.What should I do?

2007-03-11 09:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

we were making love when my lover stoped and looked me in the eyes and said he loved me,then carried on,does he mean it?
or is it just a bloke thing?
nothing has been said about it since should l ask him?
please help as lm crap at relationships!

2007-03-11 09:32:35 · 4 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by jake 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats up guys.. been and this girl have been together for 8 years... well recently, I don't think she's sexually attracted to me. Every time I bring it up she seems to blow it off. Tonight, we went into the bedroom and she said, "your not trying very hard.. you don't even wanna have sex with me.." but I was the one who brought it up all night. I said, "do you want to?" and she said, "Yes.. but it seems like you don't want to.. and I am tired right now.."

Ok, then we will get going and it'll seem like she's just going through the motions and I won't be turned on anymore.. and that point she will push me off and leave, acting upset and saying, "your not sexually attracted to me.."

What do you all think?

So we're laying in bed.. and she's like, "this isn't very romantic..." But yet, it is how we started it every other time. Confused???

2007-03-11 09:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i used to hang out with people who did drugs,broke the rules,and started fights over nuttin!!! now i am trying to start hangin out with my old friends who are the preps of the school but everytime i turn around my old run around crew would be there or call me and ask to hang out and its hard for me to tell them no cuz even though we were brakin the rules and doin stuff were not suppose to it was still alot of fun!!! and now its hard for me to avoid them and hang out with my goody goody friends!!! i had alot of fun actin up and being wild but now i want to change before it really ruins my life but i cant seem to do it !!!!!! how can i avoid all that trouble and earn everyones trust back!?!?!?

2007-03-11 09:30:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm having an issue with my wedding party. my problem is my husband to be has chosen 3 men: a best man and 2 groomsman. my problem is that I don't have a lot of close girlfriends so i have chosen my sister as the maid of honour but dont have any bridesmaids. we've chosen not to have a ring bearer, but will be having my neice as the flower girl. how can i make the wedding party more balanced without leaving anyone out or having to add people that I don't really want in the wedding?

2007-03-11 09:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by kerri c 5 in Weddings

OK...this is what is happening. I have a friend that keeps going back to this guy that abuses her. Like last time he got drunk, he hit her and she said it was her fault when we asked about it. Can this be what she wants? I just need to know. Why do girls like to be abused?

2007-03-11 09:29:09 · 18 answers · asked by Lex 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by FAB S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 09:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by april d 1 in Singles & Dating