2007-03-11 09:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by darush1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife cheated on me and it tore our lives apart. No its not a good idea.
2007-03-11 09:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only time it is good to have a relationship with a woman who has a husband, is when you can be friends with both. If you are talking about an intimate relation with her . Then while she has a husband its not a good idea. you may cause undo heartache on the woman.
2007-03-11 10:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by spok_shinnizlesmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you had a wife and kids and someone started having a relationship with your wife, she lost interest in you and the kids and the home, deserted youll and eloped, would that be good?
Try and look for some woman who doesnt have a husband, and spare yourself and a lot of people the guilt, shame and pain.
2007-03-11 09:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by brian p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not good. It's called an emotional affair which could easily turn into a sexual one.
A true friend would not try to have a relationship with a woman who is married to someone else. It could tear the marriage and family apart.
2007-03-11 10:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not suposed to but sometimes , ur spouse doesn't know how to listen & ignores u & even if u don't want to leave bcuz of kids or whatever u still need to be loved & love back & feel appreciated by someone. No it's not right but its not right to be ignored either. I have been there , no it can tear things apart but if some people's spouses could get their ego's in check there wouldn't be this issue. Just be carefull
2007-03-11 09:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all up to you. You will always be second place but on the plus side its usually sex with no commitment. Just don't develop feeling for her and don't get caught. If she isn't worried about her husband why are you?
2007-03-11 09:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by zuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way, if u had a wife would u find it ok 4 her to have a male friend if yes then it should b all right but if not then go with what your heart tells u.
2007-03-11 09:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by {Soulja_Boy'z_#1_Wifey} 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not good. It will end really bad, and many people, not only you, will get hurt. What makes you think you're the first lover? You can get a disease. Be careful.
2007-03-11 09:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, I would say no. I mean - taking the moral aspect out of it... it's just one more complication. And aren't women and already complicated enough?
2007-03-11 09:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Willalee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!! you are going to get into big trouble .......stay away from the married women......even IF they come on to YOU.....she may be bored or just a skank.....but someone WILL get hurt....dont let it be YOU!!!!!!
2007-03-11 10:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋