So, I've done a lot of thinking today. And I've come to the conclusion that in order for my friend and her boyfriend and myself to actually be happy, I need to move out. Because asking her to hang out with just me is like pulling teeth with him. Not that its like a problem that we hang out, but then he gets upset when he doesn't get to spend time with her. Which is understandable. But, I no longer have my best friend. My BEST FRIEND. I have a room mate. And that hurts so much. And I don't know how to say this to her without her feeling like she has to choose. Which I know that deep down, ultimately she would choose Joe. Which, if that makes her happy, then I'm happy for her. But that requires me to lose a friend basically. And I dont know what to do. And yes, they've been dating for almost 2 years, so I do have to give that to them. But, she's been my friend for over 5 years now. I dont want to lose my best friend, but I also want her to be happy. What do I do?
2007-03-11
10:19:18
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Kaytee
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