Ok well i started dating this guy last year. It lasted for about four months because i found out that he was talking about me behind my back. The thing is that when we were together we were both soo happy and it affected the way we were toward family and friends in a good way. It was about 5 months ago that we split up. He doesnt have any interest but the more i try to forget about him the more i think about him and the more i convince myself that i dont like him the more i end up falling for him all over again... What should i Do all i ever do is think about him and its making me feel worse and worse every time i do so. Please Help Me.
2007-03-11 10:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I know exactly what u r going through. I have seen many girls go through this, and what annoys me is that the guys (as in your case) are always able to move on so quicly! I think u have come a long way! Five months is a lot of time!! Don't blow it now! If he is not interested, to hell with him. IF he ever finds out u are still not over him in all this time, he would have more to say about u behind your back!! and trust me, guys can be nasty!!! I think, u should indulge yourself in something else that interests u or go to the mall, shop till u drop lol, that's always great! Go out with friends, try meeting someone new. when u do, don't start comparing with the other guy. Just keep in mind that talking about your girlfriend behind your back is one of the worst things a guy can do. Try doing new stuff, get a makeover!!!!! look so hot that when he sees u he would be sorry he didn't respect u. O yes! and a great comedy movie with girl friends would do wonders. Try being with friends, get a few friends to sleep over night and have a slumber party:-D
Have fun! and remember u deserve a lot more than that!! Don't forget your worth! Enjoy life!
2007-03-11 10:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant explain the feelin you feel it on everyway n even tho youve moved in it gets harder everyday!
you finished because he was talkin behind your back? is him talkin bout you behind your back worth risking ure love 4 him?, on the ova hand is he relly worth loving if he chats about u behind your back, ? listen to your heart, if you decide to let go i kno it is hard but dont go running back to him coz the more times you go back to him the harder its gonna b 4 u,get back wiv him or move on no matta how hard it will b it will b worth it in the end!
2007-03-11 17:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by xxcharlenebbyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to occupy your mind, start a new hobby or sport, get a new pet or a new bf if you're ready.
2007-03-11 17:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find something productive to do with your time. When you see what you can accomplish you will feel great about yourself. Don't just sit and pine over him.
2007-03-11 17:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by mjen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to think about him, find somebody else to take your mind off him.you dont need somebody thats talks about you like that anyway.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-11 17:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by dannys girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should find something else to think about.
2007-03-11 17:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by bridgetkt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋