Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.

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7 minutes ago
I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???

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2 days ago
has it beenn 2 long??

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23 minutes ago
please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing

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2 hours ago
all her friends r mine and we met at a party a few months ago, when she saw i was upset she started crying, we cant avoid each other, i love her and its going on 2 long, plz help folks

2007-03-11 10:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 10:36:14 · 1 answers · asked by Hayley 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 10:35:48 · 23 answers · asked by Goldie725 1 in Weddings

I love these three guys and we get along like best friends. they don't know that i like them.
i don't know if i should ask them out.
should i?
whould they never like me again if i asked them to the dance or if i danced with them?
would it be awkward for you?
what should i do?
i think they are all cute!!!!
and with great personalities!!!!

2007-03-11 10:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by live.laugh.love♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. After she broke up with me to be with someone else, I started hanging out and doing things with one of my friends. My girlfriend and I got back together last week. I just found out I'm pregnant. She says she doesn't want kids. Also, should I tell my friend he's going to be a father?

2007-03-11 10:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by all_on_the_floor 1 in Singles & Dating

He is really fine and nice and popular.

2007-03-11 10:35:01 · 7 answers · asked by JLo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 10:34:37 · 20 answers · asked by saintsuna 1 in Weddings

so i've hung out with this guy for like 3 months off and on.
and we have kissed a few times. and flirt like crazy.

but we haven't talked of a relationship or anything. which is fine with me. but i just wanna know whats going through this guys head.

like last night. we went to the beach and just layed there talking. and he held me. and he wanted me to go down this path with him. but it was dark and creepy so i was just like nahh. and so he picked me up and acted like he was gonna start down it. but didnt. thank god. and he did it in a really sweet way. and he made sure i got home for curfew.

what's he thinking?

p.s. he knows he isnt getting sex.
that has been made clear.

2007-03-11 10:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by yelah1234 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy that is in the army as an officer?

2007-03-11 10:34:07 · 31 answers · asked by medic_man 3 in Singles & Dating

dont answer this...........

2007-03-11 10:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 10:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by eaglefan9000 1 in Singles & Dating

I seldom meet my cousins because they are far away from me... and the seas of the Philippine archipelago separates us. During those times that we're together, I have this feeling I cant deny. Is it wrong to have a crush on your blood relative? I mean, I did not want to have this feeling... but i cant deny it!

2007-03-11 10:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by CA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were my boyfriend, where would you take me on a date?
{My Ex's dates are why i broke up with him}
I just wanna see what ideas are out there..
((no nasty answers please))

2007-03-11 10:32:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do???

2007-03-11 10:31:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what's wrong with me! I don't even know what I feel anymore. I try to think of reasons.... Okay, I moved to live with my aunt and uncle which I hadn't seen for nine years about six months ago. I had to move because I was in danger where I lived. I used to live with my mother, siblings and her now husband which was the danger. Anyway, that really affected me. I know that but I thought I was doing better.
Now, I've been with my "internet boyfriend" for almost a year already. And he lives in Mexico and I in Texas. I care for him but recently have been feeling like he's being a little cold. He doesn't notice it though.
So, on top of that I think I'm bisexual. I'm not sure if I am but I don't want to be. I don't really know... I mean, I shouldn't care what society thinks but *uck! (My BF knows about these doubts of mine.)
So, today I've been over eating and feeling like crap...
What is wrong?? I just feel... empty, confused, dazed and I don't know what else...

2007-03-11 10:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so this guy and I have been emailing back and forth and one day he sent me an email telling me how amazing he thought I was and that he'd couldn't stop thinking about me and then he asked me out. I had alot of other stuff going on at the time, my grandfather had just died and I was helping with funeral arrangements and I was making a commitment to God by getting Baptised. I didn't really think it through and I emailed him back saying we should stay friends.

But after everything was done and over with, I realized that I really liked him and my grandfather passing away kinda taught me that life is too short not to be with the ones you love. Should I email him and tell him how I feel? Or do I need to play a little hard to get? I'm kind of know for being forward and people are always telling me to cool my jets and let myself be pursued by the guy, but he's kind of sensitive and I'm worried he'll give up if I don't say something.

2007-03-11 10:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 10:31:22 · 2 answers · asked by zoe c the sexy 1 2 in Singles & Dating

so im 5 feet and so i was just wondering what guys think about short vs. tall girls?

2007-03-11 10:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by purplepolkadotties 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone who has done this please fill me in what it is like to have one installed.

2007-03-11 10:30:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in high school im 17,and shes 16,and i like this girl she just blows my mind,and the things that i need help on are when i talk to her i get so nervous i want to know why?But i dont let the nevervous stop me ,i still talk to her,but when we talk she doesnt say anything,she only answers me when i ask her a question,and maybe she talk to me alittle bit,but when its lunch time she looks at me and i look at her,but i dont look at her alot,because sometimes girls can think wrong.I want to let her know how beautifull,and my plan is to aks her to the movies and tell her there is that a good place,right after the movie ill tell her his,"Gladys,since the day i met you,i couldnt stop thinking about,everyday i would want to go to school,just to see you,and sometimes i would look at you and i would want to tell you how beautiful you are,now i just cant hold it,Gladys i want to ask you if u would give me a chance and be my girlfriend",and hopefully she says yes,so is that good or what.

2007-03-11 10:29:34 · 15 answers · asked by SDCHARGERS#87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 10:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by hosamzoromba 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what to think but i live in hope

2007-03-11 10:28:37 · 47 answers · asked by blueendred 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Are they or is it just a scam. My friend was telling me that he ws going to sign up but I am not to sure. So whats the real story is it for real or just a scam.

2007-03-11 10:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

week as she has epilepsy and the baby is a new born and the husband is firing for divorce and getting custody of their daughter. it wouldn't be safe to leave her with her mother and I am her only hope to see her daughter as the law won't allow her to have the baby unless there's a member of the family there with my sister (that would be me) as the fits could happen anytime and she could drop the baby if it happened when she was holding her.As for me if I go it would be for a few years and she was the one who helped me get where I am now. So I owe it to her.I just wish there were two of me so that everyone is happy.Thanks to everyone who answered my question before.You really helped me get the right answer.

2007-03-11 10:27:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it, when a question is asked, and a person wants some logical answers to their dilemma, the Bible bashers come out and start quoting Bible Scriptures......The Wrath of God type stuff.....what is their purpose?.....what are they trying to achieve?

2007-03-11 10:27:16 · 21 answers · asked by rightio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and i dont know if he likes me back...and im afraid to talk to him because i would freeze up...if you have any advice for me about talking to him or seeing if he does likes me...PLEASE TELL ME!!! thanks

2007-03-11 10:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His father left us at 4 months old, When he gets older what is it that I should tell him

Yes, I know about child support and filing that is not my question

2007-03-11 10:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Family

Like when i was grinding with a guy a whiel ago, it was completly wierd, like i was going one direction and he was dancing another. The same thing happened when i was dancing with anotehr guy too. and if you are supossed to have the same rythem, what do you do if you start out differently?

2007-03-11 10:25:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says hi when we pass in the hall, but i cant do more than smile, what do i do

2007-03-11 10:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION TO IMPORTANT TO not answer!!!!!!!!!!!!1?
Is high school very different than middle school im really nervous when it comes what are some tips to get those upper high school hotties!?? Please help me and what are some tips !!!!!!!!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-03-11 10:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating