Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

I dated this guy for awhile and fell desperatly in love with him. He broke up with me for another girl who he said he loved but she broke up with him because she only wants to be friends. Its only been about three weeks and I'm desperate to have him back because I do love him but I don't know how he feels. Should I just get it over with and tell him this or go on with my life?

He broke my heart but I am willing to forgive and forget but I don't want my heart broken again if I take him back. I keep reminding myself that it could go one of two ways: he will either come back or he won't. I'm trying to prepare myself for both. Should I save him and myself some trouble and just tell him?

2007-03-11 11:10:17 · 20 answers · asked by p_shell1987 2 in Singles & Dating

any tips?

2007-03-11 11:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by youjrys 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 11:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by forbewe 1 in Singles & Dating

its really hard because i know some will cry. im very popular at my current school, so i know it will effect a lot of people. help.

2007-03-11 11:09:34 · 5 answers · asked by youjrys 1 in Friends

Do you want girls to be clever/funny/provocative/shy/loud/abrupt/polite/one of the lads/very girly... etc etc the list is endless?!

2007-03-11 11:09:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i was dating this guy for a week and his ex girl got in to the picture and talked shot about me and broke us up. got together with him a day later and acted sad at school b/c i was dating him. we borke but b/c of a romor that was said and he did not believe me . so should i forgive him and be friends like nothing happened or what. Please help i am so confussed.

2007-03-11 11:09:13 · 2 answers · asked by mesa_geek 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to get out of an abusive relationship for one year now. I do very well everytime he hurts me, I always tell him never communicate with me again, etc. After time passes, he says the same things again. Not even sorry. Just I love you and miss you. I do not even love, not even like him. He is a nasty evil person, but I just can't let go. I can't afford councilling so I am looking for some words of wisdom and or advice. I just have the hardest time trying to figure out how someone tells me I am crazy, dumb, stupid, *****, crazy, but he still loves me?!?! I just don't understand. I know that's not love, but why would a person say those things????

2007-03-11 11:09:12 · 18 answers · asked by mariahbea 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf has no confidence for whatever reason. She always gives up way to easy and when she makes a mistake I cant tell her about it cuz she gets mad...even if its a small mistake. Life if we are on the couch and she leans against me in a way that hurts. I will gently take her elbow and move it slightly. She'll say am i hurting u? Sorry....and then sit up and stop leaning on me. Or she made cookies that werent too good....she asked me if i liked them I said they were alright.....now she wont go anywhere near the kitchen. When i first met her she was goin 2 school full time with a hard major and working 3days a week.....and i was atracted to a hard working driven person. But lately she has no confidence and says she is goin 2 drop out and work at Walmart forever, I dont want this 2 happen. How can i help her be more confident, Ive tried complimenting her sooooo much, ive tried yellin at her, ive tried reasoning w/ her, but nothing works. help

2007-03-11 11:07:37 · 3 answers · asked by mmmmmmm 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont mean to be needy, but im just realizing it, okay im 14 and my friend has been noticing it, she hasnt told me but she told my other friend and she told me. you see my friend has alot of friends and she thinks that she cant hang out with other people b/c she thinks i want her to hang out with me. i really dont know what to do. please help me.

2007-03-11 11:07:14 · 1 answers · asked by CARA 2 in Friends

improve myself so that girls will like me more. Oh ya I am in gr. 7

2007-03-11 11:07:07 · 1 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Singles & Dating

My bff is telling secretes to my other bff at my house rite in front of me and every time I always hear my name so I got mad and told her that I didn't know if I still wanted to be their friend?Should I still be their friend or not?
I really need help on this one ppl

2007-03-11 11:06:52 · 2 answers · asked by Kristina S 1 in Friends

2007-03-11 11:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by MEE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you guys kissed on a date [movie] den does dat mean dat shes ur girlfriend??

..nd shud i kiss or hug her wen i c her agen??

2007-03-11 11:06:42 · 15 answers · asked by 123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 11:06:40 · 15 answers · asked by E_J 2 in Singles & Dating

i have an aunt in alabama and i want to email a video to her how do i do that???

2007-03-11 11:05:03 · 1 answers · asked by alex_algiere@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

I like my bestfriends ex-girlfriend?
alright here is what happened so far, i went out w/ this girl for a little bit in the 7th grade but i wasnt ready for a relationship, then this past 3 yrs weve become pretty good friends, we make fun of each other just for fun and have a good time when were together, and i would have already asked her out but she just broke up with my best friend last sunday and they had been goin out for little under 7 months. now my bestfriend is goin to ask this other girl out this week and he know that she likes him and i think thats part of the reason why he broke up with her, im woundering how long i should wait before i ask her, how i should tell him, and how i ask her. i need help this situation is all messed up.

2007-03-11 11:03:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://s77.photobucket.com/albums/j72/sweetpea07_2007/Bridesmaid%20Dresses/?action=view¤t=ThreadDress.jpg

I found this pic (sorry it's a little fuzzy) in the Feb/March issue of Brides magazine. It says they are made by THREAD (but they cost nearly $400 online and we are NOT paying that much for a bridesmaid dress!) But I love the style and I'm sure there is something similar to it somewhere else! I have 4 bridesmaids and I want the dresses to be some shade of blue.

Do you know where I can find something like this style? I have looked at David's Bridal and online at other stores.

Any ideas of where to look or should I just have them made?

Thanks in advance!
;)

2007-03-11 11:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by ☼ lovethesun11 2 in Weddings

this gurl whoses always bossin around... i need 2 get her down......n o w!!

2007-03-11 11:03:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You say I am to picky. Every relationship I had it was something I forced myself to do. They seemed like the right fit for me so I went out with them. I ended up being miserable and they eventually figured out what was going on. How am I supposed to stop being picky. Forcing myself doesn't work.

So now to the girls I like who don't like me(I can't get a first or second date with). I am working out everyday. I am attractive, smart and funny. I am thirty one and can't find a date I like. It would be great to know how to improve myself - buy a better car (i drive 2000camry), become more assertive(where them down), move out of my parents house (I live there only to save money. I lived on my own for years and moved back in several years ago because I had to take an entry level job that payed near poverty level. I have been financially able to move out for several years but like the money i save), or should I get a hair transplant (slightly thinning). Help!!!!

2007-03-11 11:02:54 · 10 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

i miss my childhood; how about you.

2007-03-11 11:02:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend wants to move in together, but i was taught that you shouldn't live together before you're married. My boyfriend feels strongly about it, but i'm not sure how i really feel. I love him very much and wouldn't mind living with him, but I know that it would probably upset my parents and his parents. Plus he lives in Pennsylvania and I live in Michigan. What is your advice on my situation? And did living with your significant other before you were married give you better insight to each other? Or would you rather have waited until you were married to live together? Please help!

2007-03-11 11:02:35 · 16 answers · asked by collegeboundblonde1287 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend angela wanna get our belly buttons pierced. does it hurt??? will we cry?

2007-03-11 11:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he was using my pant.ies as air freshener

2007-03-11 11:02:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's 17 ...... and ...... does he need to be in a rehab or can it be done by himself at home ??? What things would be an aide ?

2007-03-11 11:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what if your 1st relationship was a real nightmare full of contradiction and which steps you backward instead of helping you grow ...!! when someone asks after 4 months that I am out of now of my 1 year relationship, I said I'm not ready yet , because I want to heal 1st and retrieve myself before envisionning to be in a new relationship ....!! Iám really emotionally drain and don't feel ready to give my love and trust anybody anymore ...!! is that right to wait , huh? and if that 1st one, was a nightmare would you always think that will be the same also ...?

2007-03-11 11:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

he says it is 100% his fault. others are telling me its mine.

he confessed a month ago to cheated 4 times in past 2 months, but broke everything off was sorry ect. the girl is almost 20 years older than me (him 25) and fat n ugly. when i asked him why he did it, and with someone like that he said that first time he was drunk other 3 times stupid and thinking with little head cause the girl wouldnt stop chasing him and he wasnt getting any sex from me.
he had complained about our never doing sex. but i thought he understood it was the DEPO that made me not even want him to touch me. and i did stop the depo but baby slept in our bed, what could i do? now people say its my fault cause he did ask for more sex, told me he needed kisses and more affection but i didnt give it to him and always had excuses he says.
is it my fault?

if i fix those things and give him a second chance do you think he will cheat again?

2007-03-11 11:00:57 · 39 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So here is my question I hope I get lots, its for my own research not for self. I notice allot of people both men and woman are back behind on child support and have a hard time, most think Oh he/she is a loser because they are not up to date, people seem to forget by the time it goes to court they are behind because they go all the way back from the first file papers ( sad) not thw parent has something to hold over the man/womans head forever ( especially with intrest tacked on) my question is, is if the custodial parent cries about wanting the child so badly why don't they forgive the parent who is behind and give them a new start? why doesn't the parent allow more time with the child with the other parent( forget about the abusive ones or molesters in this case) most of all why do the custodial parents hold crap over the other parents head, why when you read stuff on here about spouse leaving why are the so big on the support thing, did you not have them? can you not get a job?

2007-03-11 11:00:02 · 10 answers · asked by Gina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 11:00:01 · 6 answers · asked by carlymychelle 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a few friends that keep ignoring me. When I ask them what's worng, they just change the subject. They told me that they heard that I was "Talking crap about them" but I never did. I have so many bad things that I could tell people about them, but I am a good secret keeper. I just want them to be my friends again.What should I do to get them to like me again?

2007-03-11 10:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-11 10:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by mizzmiami 1 in Friends