I have a few friends that keep ignoring me. When I ask them what's worng, they just change the subject. They told me that they heard that I was "Talking crap about them" but I never did. I have so many bad things that I could tell people about them, but I am a good secret keeper. I just want them to be my friends again.What should I do to get them to like me again?
2007-03-11 10:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you can't really do much because they have made up on their minds that you have said these things. Sometimes or most of the time when people come to conclusions on things they become close minded and their is not much you can do to change their minds. If they feel this way, you may want to get some new friends because you may not be able to get close to them now that they have this perception of you in their minds. You can try to convince them that it is not true but eventually people get tired of trying to defend themselves for something they didn't do. If they don't believe you, find some new friends and show them that you won't deceive them. And just in case, the old friends would try to tell your new friends of what they think about you, you may want to fill your new friends in on the whole situation. That is if you decide to let them go. All you can do is give them time and try to tell them the truth, if they don't come around it would be their lost that they let go of a trustworthy friend, not yours. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 11:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. i didn't do anything about it and then it escalated. these s are trying to tell u that they dont like u, in a weird way. they are trying to get you to stop being their friend without them looking like the mean ones. they think eventually you'll stop being their friend on your own. find new friends NOW, becuase i had to learn all this the hard way. eventually they gave up on this "method" of de-friending becuz it wasnt working and i was still their friend, so they gave up and just straight up told me they d me for no reason and for me to sit at another table. i was devestated. if i were smart i couldve left them on my own. if it weren't for the coincidence that my new best friend i met @ camp that summer was going to my highschool that fall, i would have no friends today. i know how you feel 100% , and u just need to be brave and find new friends. i know that sounds harsh but trust me, these s are not your friends.
2007-03-11 11:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them the truth. Let them know you don't appreciate being ignored, especially when you didn't do anything to them. Tell them you didn't talk behind their backs and you value their friendship.
2007-03-11 11:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just leave them alone. There's bound to be some other less.....mean girls out there, that you could hang out with. Then your friends, if you can still call them that, will forget about it soon and you can hang out again. Sometimes, they just have no idea.
2007-03-11 11:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be stupid....they didn't trust on you,so why you want them back...if they are good and real friends,they'll discover their mistakes,you didn't do any thing wrong....try to find some friends who trust on you not on what does the people says about you....don't be worry;there is a lot of people who wants to be with you,but it is not easy to find them.......any way,if you like them thet much,try to explain for them and tell them the real truth............good luck
2007-03-11 11:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you said something that just slipped out..?
but if nottt just tell them and say "look, i'm really sorry you think i've been talking about you, but i haven't--honest to god." they'll have to forgive you.
2007-03-11 11:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋