i dont know what to think but i live in hope
2007-03-11 10:28:37 · 47 answers · asked by blueendred 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
brill answers thanks to you all cant make my mind up your all so kind
2007-03-12 04:29:50 · update #1
Been married since I graduated High School in '59. Believe me, we were both popular, and had many friends of both sexes, temptation was always around. But thank God, our marriage is real. Loyalty has to be earned through self-respect of each other. Our only wish is that God will allow us to be together for all eternity. God Bless !!
2007-03-11 10:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends as to how an individual, relates to a relationship. In today's society, you cannot point the finger to the Males, because it seems like the Females are,getting to be more aggressive than Men. I do not want to put down the females, since I am one of them, but, what I have seen and read in the newspaper, it seems that Females are topping the Males in being loyal to their Mates. I have known about females from where I live that are Married, and if they find out that their Mate, has been unfaithful, what do they do but, get back at them, by being unfaithful, also, and they do not show remorse, for doing it. I have been Married to my Husband of 48, almost 49 yrs. coming this June, and Back when I was younger, if a woman was found out, that she had been unfaithful to her Husband, she would be taken back to her Parents and it would be instant Divorce. Nowadays, if a woman or Man, are found out when being unfaithful, it almost always looked the other way, and no one points their finger, as to who did it or why. Do, I still think that Loyalty exists? For some people that have a conscience I do think it does, but for the Majority of them I do not think so.
2007-03-11 10:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It's a huge world out there and to assume that all people are incapable of being loyal to someone they love, would be ignorant. Some are and some aren't, it's just common sense. The thing is, mostly, we only hear the negative, rather than the positive, which is about those loyal people, because that's the kind of world we live in. Good question.
2007-03-11 11:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe it can ~ depends on your relationship really. If you have absolute trust and love with your partner it should be there along with 'unconditional love'
Being loyal is natural when you love and respect someone. My partner and I have been together for over eight years and I have always felt relaxed and complete trust in him. I believe Loyalty exists in relationships! Hope this helps, good luck! :)
2007-03-11 10:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by pandora_293 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. You know if you are attracting disloyal partners in your life you have to take a modicum of responsibility for it. Have you ever watched that video "The Secret." People tend to say what they do not want in their lives, and the universe answers them with the request...so in your case if that is your belief system, the disloyalty comes rushing in as a validation of your beliefs. Change your beliefs. Picture or visualize the relationship that you desire, picturing the exact outcome, and continue it through your relationship and I guarantee a healthy, happy, loyal partner for you.
2007-03-11 10:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i dont think it does, not today anyway. look back at your grandparents and before them! it did then. I dont think this generation is built that way. We're too selfish and self absorbed! We do what we want, when we want and thats the end of it. Im not saying this is me! Im just a woman scorned!!! lol I truelly wish it did exsist tho, im stil with my boyfriend who's cheated on me 6 times in 6 years. Stupid? yeah i guess so. Whats love got to do with it!!
2007-03-11 11:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES!!!
relationships are very difficult, and i think everyone struggles at times. loyalty does exist, because it is what has gotten my husband and i through many a rough patch. i wouldn't be still in my marriage if i weren't a very loyal person... i don't like to give up and i don't like to "fail".
2007-03-11 11:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it's the right relationship and the right person, then loyalty most certainly will exist...
we should believe in this or other wise all our relationships will be doomed, due to loss of trust...
so of course have hope and swim away...
2007-03-11 10:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely it exists in relationships! and so does trust and respect. It occurs when both partners are completely and totally committed to one another and the relationship and every action and every word and every thought they have focuses on that relationship. Loyalty and commitment go hand in hand. When you are committed to the relationship and your partner, your actions show your loyalty.
2007-03-11 10:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES !!, Loyalty and trust are on the same line, trust is earned as is loyalty, loss of trust is also a loss of the other.
2007-03-11 10:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by jdyer12002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋