My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. After she broke up with me to be with someone else, I started hanging out and doing things with one of my friends. My girlfriend and I got back together last week. I just found out I'm pregnant. She says she doesn't want kids. Also, should I tell my friend he's going to be a father?
2007-03-11 10:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by all_on_the_floor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
toxicity, very good questions. I think he would step up and help. We've been friends for a decade and a half. I do agree that he needs to know. I'm more concerned about what my girlfriend will do. I know a couple of people who didn't want children but have them, and they treat them like crap.
2007-03-11 11:10:47 · update #1
You have to be honest with everyone involve. Put yourself in their position and ask what would you want. Then make it happen.
Good luck
2007-03-11 10:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Michael b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a question. Would your friend step up and be a man? Do you like each other enough to get along for 18 years? How long have you two known each other? The reason I ask is because he needs to know and needs to help you with the baby. If your girlfriend doesn't want kids, I at least hope your friend will help you.
2007-03-11 11:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by toxicity_inour_city 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to 'fess up to both of them. Your gf will probably leave you, especially if she doesn't want kids, and The babie's father does have the right to know. You need to think it over, they're both gonna find out anyways, so you might as well tell them and get it over with. The longer you wait, the worse it's gonna be. Good Luck.
2007-03-11 10:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really put your foot into it didn't you?
Obviously you have to be honest and tell both the father of the child and your girlfriend. Then you have to decide if you want to have the child and are willing to be a responsible parent. From now on, your priority will be your child's well being. Your girlfriend may or may not want to raise the child with you. If she does, great; if not you have to respect her decision. I hope the father will want to participate in the life of his child. If he wants to participate I hope you will respect his wishes and allow him to participate.
Best of luck.
2007-03-11 11:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright. well you have a girlfriend annnnd you are pregnant. i think you should tell your friend that he is going to be a father. i think that would be a good thing to do. instead of keeping it from him. sence you know your belly is gonna get big and he is going to notice. and imagine you being in your friend's place. if you were going to be a father..[[even tho you are a girl]] you would want to know. good luck with the baby =]]
2007-03-11 10:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know what you have to do, if your girlfriend doesnt want children and doesnt except your wishes into having a child then she isnt worth it and you can find someone better that loves you and does what a child, because the girl yur with now cant love you that much if she doesnt respect your wishes,and were as the boy is conserined he needs to know the truth,and see what happens xx
2007-03-11 10:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by xxcharlenebbyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell both. They might react badly to the news but they should know since this will soon or later affect them. They are both part of your life now
2007-03-11 10:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by TOBE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meg, were you not reading? Yeah, she's a girl. She has a girlfriend. They broke up. She had sex with a male friend. She got pregnant. DUH!!!! Anyway, poster, tell them both. You'll all feel better.
2007-03-11 11:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by cutest_couple_rahrah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Girlfriend??? arent you a girl?? anyway how would you even get pregnant??/
2007-03-11 11:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋