Theres some girl that i like i need some help.I need help from Girls,and mabe guys also!!!!!?

Question

im in high school im 17,and shes 16,and i like this girl she just blows my mind,and the things that i need help on are when i talk to her i get so nervous i want to know why?But i dont let the nevervous stop me ,i still talk to her,but when we talk she doesnt say anything,she only answers me when i ask her a question,and maybe she talk to me alittle bit,but when its lunch time she looks at me and i look at her,but i dont look at her alot,because sometimes girls can think wrong.I want to let her know how beautifull,and my plan is to aks her to the movies and tell her there is that a good place,right after the movie ill tell her his,"Gladys,since the day i met you,i couldnt stop thinking about,everyday i would want to go to school,just to see you,and sometimes i would look at you and i would want to tell you how beautiful you are,now i just cant hold it,Gladys i want to ask you if u would give me a chance and be my girlfriend",and hopefully she says yes,so is that good or what.

Answer 1

I suggest you learn how to speak English and write with proper sentence structure and then try again.

Answer 2

Your approach would be nice if she has NO experience whatsoever with guys. Chances are, she'll get scared because you'll overwhelm her with emotions she can deal with all at once.

You need to do this to get rid of the initial nervousness. Practice keeping eye contact with random girls. Don't look away until she does. This will give you a spark of confidence. When you can do this normally, you can do it to the girl, but THIS time, after a few seconds you stick your tongue at her like a little boy who "hates" a girl that he likes.

This will make you BOTH feel better and break a crapload of ice. She'll be surprised at first, but very receptive to an approach immediately after you do it.

You need to chill and lean back when talking to her. She isn't so intimidating if you lean back and talk as if she's been your friend forever. You need to get in that mode.

Please no confessing of anything ever because you will learn a very painful lesson that GIRLS are the ones who need to be impulsive and talk about feelings. Just trust me on this. It is WAY better to hint at the feelings in a cocky + funny way that says she is cool. Say things like "You know what? You're REALLY cool... Like my little sister." Have a sly smile and you'll get a reaction that is a bit confused because you're not like the other wuss guys and she'll be more attracted.

Good luck with this one,
Franklin

Answer 3

no need to rush "love".... highschool relationships are meant to be built.

Myself, I have several (by several i mean 10-15) friends who are women and maybe only 5-10 friends who are female...mabey i'm just lucky?

As for asking, there's no reason to take your thing so far. Maybe the reason you are so stressed out is you are trying to say too much.

My advice would be to take slow steps, with a little compliment here and there. Just simply say "Wow, you look really pretty today.." sounds corny? Well it really isn't. I've used this compliment on several girls i've had interests in, and they all reply either with a "thank you" or a smile.

Or go with the simple "You're beautiful",,,don't worry about long drawn out sentences when a two-letter one can get the job done. Save the long responses for when you meet that special someone you really want to be with in marriage.

Answer 4

attempt to no longer control the area lots. If he does such as you he would be receptive to chatting with you for any reason in any respect. Ask him a pair of sophistication, or if he's in a game, ask him while the subsequent pastime is, or how the final one went. point out a mutual buddy. something will do, do no longer attempt to be all lovable, talk with him like every physique else, which will provide a extra effective impact which you 'are in his league' and not a wanna be for use and tossed aside.

Answer 5

Sounds like you're really in love. But, this girl doesn't seem to be THAT interested. I think you should form a really good friendship with her first, and make comments like "you look nice today," and that kind of stuff. Once you're sure she enjoys your company, I say go for it. Your plan seems pretty good.

Just remember not to go too fast, genuine love takes time, and you would probably go crazy if she turned you down.

Good luck!

Answer 6

that's really sweet of you! i think that's a great plan! ask her to the movies, just don't try anything funny while the movie is going. ask her to the movies like a friend, try to get to know her better, all that good stuff! if she says no to the movies, don't be discouraged! Keep at it, (just dont' be annoying) try to get to know her better and make eye contact. Become her friend and trust me--- it'll all work out!!

Answer 7

no don,t say that da first time u ask her out she will think order wise make sure u hav gone on at least 4 or more dates get rid of that nev make sure she laughs an always be a gentle man at least until she is ur gf girl like a guy who is confidence

Answer 8

have a party and invite her or u can let her know somehow that u like her or u can ask her out but make sure u look her in the eyes,that always work

Answer 9

no dont say that...wait until she is in a group and then ask her if she would join you in going to the cinema for a movie. that will get you points for being brave. if she says no, just say...well you dont know what youre missin' honey. and leave her in suspense

Answer 10

i think wat u have planned is pretty good. but i know exactly how u feel because me and my boyfriend relationship youst to be like that until i just started being more relaxed around him and he started actually making conversations. i hope i helped at least a little.
good luck