My boyfriend got a job promotion and is moving to VA within the next week and im going a week later. He wants me to go one minute then the next is making excuses how i wont be able to handle it and I get stressed and cry for hours im sick of this back to forth stuff and dont know what to do? I love him, but is it only me or am i being dumb?
2007-03-11 10:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i live in VA. and it's not bad
its really pretty.
but the weather is a little crazy.
like last week it was 35 degrees. but yesterday is was almost 80.
2007-03-11 10:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by yelah1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this.... but moving there is a bad idea. I've seen too many girls follow a guy to another state, in another city where they don't have family or friends. They get there, things are ok for a while, and then they break up. Because they're not married, the girl has nothing to do but be stuck in that place. And it never seems to work out. My advice: stay where you are. If he loves you, he'll understand.
2007-03-11 10:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Godfather76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very excited and is worried about how he will look in his new job. Sit him down and alone and tell him how much you love him, but the hyperness that you understand because he is excited is upsetting you because you want more than anything to go but he is giving you reasons to think that maybe you shouldn't go and its bothering you. Does he love you and does he want you to go because you do and love him. What does he really want for both of you? Go from there when you get your answers and follow your gut instincts. Take care Heather
2007-03-11 10:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to him. there should be no inbetween about him wanting you to go or not. if he does then go but if you do make sure that it is gonna be worth it. if you are gonna go and then a week later he is gonna break up with you leaving your life will be pointless. ask him if he really does want you to go or if he just wants everything to be done. at this point its like serious and not just fun and games. if he really does love you like you love him then he will want you to go. and if he doesnt then it wuznt meant to be. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-11 10:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by [[baby girl]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being a *** about it then don't go. Do yourself a favor and don't go. He might have a chick on the side there and he doens't want you to mess it up... that's what it sounds like to me.
2007-03-11 10:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by carlymychelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is dealing with a internal problem, yes he wants you to come becuase your his partner, however he is moving and he may want to see what new women he will be around, i would say tell him you want to know now, if he wants you to go, if not i would say start looking for another, because he is not being true to you
2007-03-11 10:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by jessica d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that you are happy where you are. Let him go. Doesn't sound like he is much of a catch to me.
2007-03-11 10:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋