I work as an administrator in a university. The blokes are all married but can't help wondering if they ever fantasise about me when making love to their wives. If I have a great body, cute face..what is the likelihood they do?
I am the youngest there. Im 25.
2007-03-11 09:34:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is the one you want. It a resounding yes we do & if you are as lovely as you say then rake it from me, yes yes yes !
2007-03-11 13:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by davis.rick@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest Answer? A man will fantasise about who he fancies most. But all it is is a fantasy, particularly if a bloke thinks you're out of his league.
Me and my girlfriend, if Im being serious are not good looking people, we have other qualities. She's said that I'm free to look at and fantasise about who I want and she's not worried about it but the minute I touch or do something about it we're finished which is more than fair enough.
Another thing (please please dont take it the wrong way!) at least some of these guys may well believe that their girlfriend or wife who they genuiinely fancy more.
Chances are that ALL of the blokes probably have fantasised about you but for whatever reason will never do anything about it.
Don't worry about it, concentrate on making yourself happy in life. You may find that getting yourself a partner may cut down unwarranted "attention" that you might be getting but don't use that as a reason to do so.
2007-03-11 10:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly all men fantasize to some degree. I think in our ancient past we were not monogamous. That trait is buried in our genes. But we have been civilized to not be mating with many women. To an extent this is true of women. Studies done in Scotland have proven women are always looking for better sources of genes for their children. As with men they seldom do but the though crosses their mind. Not many will admit it but the science says it is true.We cannot entirely escape our genes, it is sublimated but still there. Further it is the reason we are predators, hunters. We are not flight animals but fight animals. The location of the eyes usually indicates whether flight or flight. Horses for instance are flight, ergo the eyes are on the side to look for danger from the side or rear. Humans have their eyes in the front as we can see the prey.
2007-03-11 09:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the best known secrets forkeeping a marriage alive is to indulge in teh odd fantasy.......but that is where it ends.....a two mins or however long moment in time that means nothing......and then into the matital relationship again which is the one that matters. You know it is not particularly flattering to think of yourself as a meere object of a passing fantasy.....a real man who has chosen you to live each day with is by far the better option.
2007-03-11 21:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did when i was married , but as soon as i got divorced i didnt think about her again .
does that seem weird i guess its the un obtainable thing and once it becomes something you can do then its no longer a thrill, but i never acted on it when i was married.
its a bloke thing but do you ike the attention
2007-03-11 10:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by denny m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send us some pictures and then I'll let you know. I certainly don't fantasise about any of the women I work with!
2007-03-11 10:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how old the guy is or you are every man has fantasies about women they see or work with just like women have fantasies.. Its a fact of life...
2007-03-11 09:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men fantasize about just about every woman they see.
2007-03-12 03:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by maureen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They maybe want you for 2 mins then there wife for the rest of there lifes.
2007-03-11 13:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Michelino 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, all married men secretly want it to do it actually. They can do it, so they fantasize.
2007-03-11 09:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by cooler_leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋