Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

should people who are married spend all of their active life away from each other trying to buy house car ect. and when they are old and cant do much to each other they live together trying to be happy

2007-03-11 12:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by sadman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bff is depresed and i want to make her happy wut do i do??

2007-03-11 12:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by Madison= 1 in Friends

hi
i'm french and i'm looking for an english penpal, between 17 and 20
i'm a strange crazy girl
fond of philosophy and litterature, be it fantasy or "boring"
wanting to improve her english and to become a writer
i do love writing and reading


i just want to make friend with english people 'cause i love this country

if you're interested please answer!
if you're not please think over!
if you're afraid of my strangeness please answer to discover that i'm just a poor stupid person!

bye and goodnight

2007-03-11 12:13:04 · 11 answers · asked by muzine 3 in Friends

if your daiting somone older than you like he is 17 and your 15 so like when he turns 18 does that mean you cant date anymore cause youll be 16 and hell be 19 so i was just wondering

2007-03-11 12:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by HaleighBlackx33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey ladies have any of you read that book "the rules" and it actually worked for you. I'm sick of being a doormat and wanna set some boundaries so I'm gonna read that book and see if it works. What do you think?.

2007-03-11 12:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by Ginger 2 in Singles & Dating

whenever I tried to talk to him he always act really unfriendly. not in a bullying way, but in a I-don't-care type of way. but he does't hate me or anything. weirdddd!!!!!

2007-03-11 12:12:01 · 6 answers · asked by ~love me or leave me~ 1 in Friends

Im married to a soldier in the U.S. army. I came over to Germany to be with him, and I mean I literally put my life on hold to come out here and be with him. Before I came out here I thought I would be able to get a job and take some classes and what not, but there is nothing here. NOTHING. All the English speaking jobs are taken, and I dont speak much German. I'm so depressed, my husband barely pays any attention to me anymore, I feel so alone and unappreciated. I dont think he realizes that I sacrificed a great deal in my life just to be here supporting him. I have so many things that I want to do, and that I want to accomplish, and while Im here with him doing nothing I feel so horrible. I dont know if I should stay here and deal with my increasingly fragile mental state or go do what I need to do for ME. I need some serious insight. Thank you in advance

2007-03-11 12:11:54 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im starting to remember things from my childhood that i think i blocked out im really scared because i remember a man touching me at 12 and i also remember my cousin beating his wife and also some weird fmily secrets i dont know what to do i mean im 23years old and i could stur up a lot of things if i start speaking about it but i cant stop thinking about these things pls help

2007-03-11 12:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by mima 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

However, it involves going to the beach and you know, taking your shirt off and swimming. Now, I am not in the best shape, but the trip is only in two weeks. Any suggestions to get in shape quickly or avoid embarassment?

2007-03-11 12:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by Ragriav 3 in Friends

this girl is beautiful and cant see it....her self esteem is very low and i wanted to have some tips to help bring her self esteem up...because i love her

2007-03-11 12:11:13 · 8 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school and i really love this boy in my group of friends. He's really shy and i want to kiss him whenever i see him? how do i get him to want me?

2007-03-11 12:11:09 · 17 answers · asked by i ♥ u 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother in law thinks that there isn't anything on the planet that is spicy enough to make his eyes water. We've tried everything we can think of. Short of putting battery acid in his food, is there anything you can suggest? He's not my favorite brother in law so if it burns his tongue off thats fine with me!

2007-03-11 12:10:50 · 5 answers · asked by j05gemini 3 in Family

there not single

2007-03-11 12:10:49 · 18 answers · asked by elain h 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it Both a Woman and a man? Is it from a former relationship?

2007-03-11 12:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by Haley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been such a long week...... And, now I find myself alone. Which is just fine, ususally. But, I sure could use some company this evening.

: )

2007-03-11 12:09:33 · 21 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a tall blonde with blue eyes. i am a b ball player and cheerleader. i am smart and funny. i am also very popular. i am a really nice person to be around, but it seems no one wants to go out with me. if i were a girl at your school would u go out with me? what do u guys think i should do ? should i make the first move?

2007-03-11 12:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 12:08:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

recently, many guys I know have been falling for me, and I am too good to tell them NO... i don't know how to say no, to a guy without hurting his feelings...
2nd question::
also, why do guys blame someone else, when texting something... like, a guy just told me he wanted me to be his gf, and I KNOW IT WAS HIM... but i didn't know what to say (how to say NO) because he is like a friend of mine so... you get the idea... so i took like 15 minutes trying to reply, and he sends this text message saying, it was his brother who took the phone... WHY WOULD HE DO THAT?

2007-03-11 12:08:41 · 3 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 12:08:18 · 7 answers · asked by april h 2 in Singles & Dating

we have a mexican girl 23 years old that has been working for us for the past year. she speaks no english at all. she works 11 hours a day and is the only mexican there along with my mom and cousin. i try to converse with her to keep her from being bored but conversation is somewhat difficult. i know some spanish because i took 3 years in high school. we had some decent conversations before and i try to talk to her everyday. she only speaks when i talk to her and never talks to me. if i dont speak to her the whole day she will not talk to me. she is not a shy person. when i stand next to her it feels awkard like she is uncomfortable when im close. should i just stop trying to speak to her.

2007-03-11 12:07:55 · 3 answers · asked by Mos Def 1 in Singles & Dating

my dads b-day is next weekend and i wanted to do somthing for him hes turning 44 "i think"...well i don't really kno what to do for him any ideas???

2007-03-11 12:07:08 · 3 answers · asked by Tracy Z 1 in Friends

i dont know if i should because ive known him for a few years. and his sister and i hae jus been messin around until recently we started to get serious.

2007-03-11 12:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by jfgoof2 1 in Friends

been cheated on. I think my man is cheating on me, are these some of the signs?

-All of a sudden he's broke, yet he works 2 jobs.

-When he isn' t working, he's doing other extracurricular activiites.

-He works day shift, I evening shift

-I work f/t & go to school 2x a wk.

-He doesn't call as frequently anymore & isn't readily available when I call him.

-He called me by an unfamiliar nickname the other day & used a new gesture for "I love you".

-He asked me the other night if I was still in love w/ him, the same question he had asked his former spouses before he divorced them

Well, is he? Or am I just being paranoid?

2007-03-11 12:06:43 · 12 answers · asked by ♨ Wisper ► 5 in Marriage & Divorce

met a guy who is 27 on the internet. Eharmoney was the site we met off of. Turns out we live really close to each other, almost in the same neighboorhood. When we first met, we exchanged emails for a couple weeks, and then we talked on the phone. The first conversation we had was over 8 hours long.
We talked every day for a week, and then we met up in a public place. We talked for hours together and went back to his place and made out with no sex. He told me that he really liked me, and I said I liked him too. He kept asking me what I thought about him so then I said I like you but your arms arent big enough and I usually like bigger arms.
Then we made plans to meet up a few days later, and we kept talking on the phone every day. We met up again and had a good time, and he said he was pissed about the comment I made about his arms, so I apologized and said I was sorry.
Then we talked a couple more times on the phone, but then he stopped calling that next week. I called him a couple of days after I had not heard from him and I asked him why he hadn't been calling me, and he said he changed his mind and made a 180 degree turn the past few days. He said he wasn't attracted to me, and he didn't see how I could have said that about his arms and then turned around and been all nice and changed my mind and apologized. He said he thought that was wierd, and that he had noticed things about me that he found unattractive. I hung up on him.

Then 2 months later, I called him up because I really liked him and I felt really badly about saying what I said, and after talking to friends I realized I hurt his ego. So I called him and he was really happy to hear from me, and then he invited me over. So I went over and we made out again but didn't have sex. So then we talked a couple of more times on the phone after that, and he told me again that he wasn't attracted to me and did I have a friend I could hook him up with that looked more like what he was looking for? I give up. Who was the bad guy, who was mean in this situation?

2007-03-11 12:06:20 · 1 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 12:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by sixsgm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, we're friends, getting to be good friends (still not the hang out type friends, but we do talk to the phone). We're both 17. I really like her a lot. Well, a lot of times it seems like she likes me too, but...idk. Before today, I've twice asked her to go with me to specific places. Both times she's been "too busy." She really is busy, she's involved in soooo many things. I put that in quotes because today I found out why she hasn't accepted. We have off from school on Friday, and I asked her to hang out with me...she just kinda ignored it at first...but then explained that her parents wouldn't let her. This led to a huge discussion about how they don't let her do anything unless they really know the person. She has invited me to her church before, and I met her parents. And her dad has twice met me when he came to the place where I work. So is it an excuse? Idk what to do....because of some knowledge of her I have, I think she's telling the truth. But still, what can I do?

2007-03-11 12:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend left for the movies at 1:30. He went with his brother to hang out- no big deal, but he calls me acciently at 5pm and tells me he'll be home soon. My aunt just came home from the hospital and her new baby girl. He knew I was supposed to be at her house 10 minutes ago( 7pm). He's still not home. Also, it's my day off and he wasn't here all day. Would you be mad?

2007-03-11 12:04:38 · 16 answers · asked by melissamarie728 3 in Singles & Dating

Apologizing once for a minor incident is < goodenoughright? > 03/11 10:59:03

Once you apologize to someone, that's good enough, right? I had a little argument with the guy I'm dating,and we didn't speak for a couple of days. I called him to apologize, and we talked for a long time. The conversation went great. But, I haven't heard from him, and that was on Thurs. It's his turn, right?

2007-03-11 12:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend asked my advice on something he should do. i told him what he should do and the consequences if he do. he calls me telling me wat i told him.ddduuuuhhhh

2007-03-11 12:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by nadi 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im 14 years old and iv'e recently gone threw many problamatic situations in my life.My biggest is my urge to cut. I want to STOP!!! I always lie to my friends but now that they have found out we have just driffted apart. I feel really bad i lied to them and i HATE the way im acting. I dont want to feel like this anymore PLEASE HELP ME STOP!!!

2007-03-11 12:02:03 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica V 1 in Friends