been cheated on. I think my man is cheating on me, are these some of the signs?
-All of a sudden he's broke, yet he works 2 jobs.
-When he isn' t working, he's doing other extracurricular activiites.
-He works day shift, I evening shift
-I work f/t & go to school 2x a wk.
-He doesn't call as frequently anymore & isn't readily available when I call him.
-He called me by an unfamiliar nickname the other day & used a new gesture for "I love you".
-He asked me the other night if I was still in love w/ him, the same question he had asked his former spouses before he divorced them
Well, is he? Or am I just being paranoid?
2007-03-11 12:06:43 · 12 answers · asked by ♨ Wisper ► 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are certainly a lot of symptoms of cheating but it is all circumstantial.
The best tool I have for something like this is my intuition. It sounds to me like your gut feeling is that he is cheating.
Talk to him. Keep an open mind but be leery. Let him know you're going to be needing some reassurance right now. Hopefully, he'll be able to deliver.Good luck!
2007-03-11 12:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im having the same problem. My husband has been calling me "ma" lately or "mami". Its so new, and he barely tells me he loves me anymore, but I honestly dont think hes cheating, and if he is hes pulling it off in a 5 minute time frame. I wouldnt say youre being paranoid though, I would definately ask some questions, but dont sound like you are accusing him. good luck.
2007-03-11 19:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, I would be concerned about the fact that he has been married more than once. Look more closely at the reasons he got divorced multiple times. Did he cheat on them? If so, he will probably cheat on you. As a rule, I personally would not get serious with someone who has had more than one failed marriage. It just sounds too fishy.
2007-03-11 19:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by kari w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's perspective, I'd say he's got something going on. But don't be uptight. If you really want to know I'll tell you how to find out without fail. Tell him in you have suspected it and that you were mad at first but now you understand that he needs another outlet and you're cool with it. You gotta sell it though. Best done while in bed just before or just after sex.
But really this isn't a trick on him as you should be cool with it.
2007-03-11 19:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah huney i think he's cheating. especially since he asked you the same question he asked his previous wives (plural not singular) before dumping them. the one who is cheating is usually the one who accuses it. his guilt is getting to him or he can't live two lives at the same time and its getting too confusing for him.
All of the above could be signs of cheating or they might not be....go with your instincts and make sure to stand up for yourself---you deserve to be treated with respect at all times.
2007-03-11 19:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being paranoid. When you have the chance sit him down and ask him. Tell him how you feel and take it from there.
2007-03-11 19:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say former spouseS as in more than one???
this guy is obviously not liking being with only one women so it might be that he is.
2007-03-11 21:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by MsChuLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is, and paranoia is just a heightened sense of awareness. Listen to your guts.
2007-03-11 19:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. Sorry.
2007-03-11 19:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that he might be cheating
2007-03-11 19:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋