this girl is beautiful and cant see it....her self esteem is very low and i wanted to have some tips to help bring her self esteem up...because i love her
2007-03-11 12:11:13 · 8 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lots and lots of compliments dont ever give up : )
2007-03-11 12:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not like everything in this answer but... First off you guys are really young, trust me things change when you get older so don't be so adamant about choosing her as a soul mate, but maybe she is. Maybe she likes your reassurance when you tell her you all the nice things you do and all the nice things you do for her. Her depression could be an act because she really likes you and what you're giving her. Your question on how to get her to love herself, well she can only do that by herself there is nothing you can do to make her feel confident, just hope that as she grows and matures she becomes more secure about herself.
2016-03-29 00:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to do it for herself, she cant keep on relying on other people to lift her esteem.
Get her to realize this and that is about as helpful as you can be.
2007-03-11 12:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by That Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you really have to spend time with her. When your with other people, only focus on her. You have to pretend that shes the only person there and you can focus on. Tell her that you can't focus on anything else but her. and say i love you at random times in the day. you have to really be there for her.
2007-03-11 12:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's beautiful every day compliment her take her on dates and just kinda wanna be around her. every girl likes a compliment.
2007-03-11 12:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
giver her a nice dinner or movie just to get away you could also giver her a gift certificate to a salon to get her hair or nails done maybe even a massage (when you look good you feel good and vice versa)
2007-03-11 12:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
give her a LOT of complients! She will like that
2007-03-11 12:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good question.
2007-03-11 12:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋