Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

plz advice

2007-03-09 06:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by sweetooth 2 in Friends

I have done nothing other than show the girl I love how much I love her, and have bought flowers, and always tell her how beautiful she is and how good she looks all the time and what a great person she is and constantly complimenting her all at the same time she is accusing me of cheating, lying, sleeping around, just emotionally abusing me non stop then I take it and we cuddle in bed and kiss with the most passion and love I have ever felt in my entire life we look into each others eyes and we become one in that moment of passion WOW!! how good love feels!~!!! well we had an evening like that on 3/01/2007 I bought her two dozen roses and we had a wonderful kiss good night, I went home got up next morning went to work, called her at work and her co-worker told me she is out of town....ok?? I said not being told by her or knowing anything..and now it is 3/8/2007 no phone call, no email, no text, no nothing, I call her cell sometimes it rings never being answered, and sometimes off..she has no voice mail and I was told she went to a midwestern state..and I know she has male and a female friends there..and here I am left standing wondering, caring, just ?????????????? I do not get it, she says she loves me, she says she has an interest in marrying one day, says she loves me like she has never loved before...DO I DESERVE THIS? I don't know..I just love her genuinally more than life...she is really pushing me away, now to the pointe that I am not going to persue her at all, I do love her but I don't want to be with someone who treats me like this..and if I dont' persue her and she does love me or even care about me, she will come to me, Right??? oh well !!! I FINALLY, AFTER 37YRS OF LIFE FIND MY TRUE LOVE AND SHE DISAPPEARS..HMM JUST PLAIN SAD,,SHE IS SUCH A SWEETHEART AND I LOVE HER SO MUCH BUT WILL SAY "GOODBYE" LOVE. you know where to find me, my love for you is not going anywhere it remains in my heart waiting on you, if ever

2007-03-09 06:24:14 · 2 answers · asked by jeaster1969 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by usama s 1 in Weddings

it is that i think before i like someone:( how sad! Cant be crazily madly in love...any advice?

2007-03-09 06:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the last min. my friend tell me she going to the beach + she just got some money and was gonna get me a suit since i wasnt wearin 1. i said no i could just go wit wat i was wearin but she wanted me 2 get in the water so she'd get me one anyway and + she needed accesories. we get to the store and i feel bad makin her buy me stuff so i try getting out of it by saying i dont like anything, but she picks out one for me and i try it on. i find her in the store and i hand her the suit and look around the store some more. she takes it and heads in the dressin room to try on stuff. she says she didnt find anything and my suit is gone and her bag is bulky. i could've said put it back but we leave and she gets caught, now she mad at me cuz she's like she's a good friend,she stole it 4 me plus she saved me 4rm trouble and she shouldnt get in trouble alone she owe $200 and want me to pay it. she steals all the time so i feel its not my fault . i didnt force her or ask 4 anything she offerred.

2007-03-09 06:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was trying to help her do some image editing, but she got frustrated and then shew blew up and pushed a chair over. Then she screamed at me to "Get out!". I came back down about 15 minutes later, she said "Get the h*** away or I sware I'm going to kill you!". She was is furious, and I don't know how to talk to her without bursting her bubble once again.

Any ideas? (Currently I'm hiding in my back yard shed playing drums and using the computer).

2007-03-09 06:21:53 · 32 answers · asked by dswim 1 in Family

I know age and race is not supposed to matter and it does not to me. However, I am just curious how you people would look at an attractive older white woman with a very handsome 30 y/o black man? I know this is not the norm but I am just curious how many stares we will get tonight. I personally love it and I would rather be with this young man than some crusty 60 y/o white man.

2007-03-09 06:20:33 · 37 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is a year older than me i'm 13 he's 14 after school this week i saw three of his friends smoking one is the same age as me. I dont think he knows about it i'm worried he going either start if he finds out or if i tell him he might think i'm moaning about them and then if he asks them they would think i was tryin to get them into trouble or try to iscolate him from his friends. i don't think i should tell him but i dont want him to start.

2007-03-09 06:20:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I'm dating someone that's extremely sensitive and she doesn't seem to think she needs to change at all, is this something that should be ignored and accepted? By sensitive, I mean "offended" at almost everything that is said or done, as if everything is intended to hurt her.

Personally, I feel that saying you are "just sensitive" is just another way of saying you're "just immature" and I usually respond with "insensitivity" because sensitivity is ridiculous. I mean, does the world revolve around you?

2007-03-09 06:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Art Student 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend that is reali close to me. we share everything and i love her to bits. but sumtyms she makes jokes about my family, and sometimes they reali offend me. but i dont no if i shud say somthing, coz i dont want to fite. we only had a fight once, and it was terible, and i dont want it to ahppen agan. i jus try to brush these things past, but it reali makes me angry. i mean, the only person whos allowed to diss my brother is me?? rite. wel das how i feel neways. but i scared she wont undastnd. wot do i do??

2007-03-09 06:19:02 · 18 answers · asked by MEE 2 in Friends

I can't take this anymore, i think are fearful of me because of how I look. What the hell do I do? I'm like the most laid back nicest guy on the planet but people seem to fear me, unless they already know me.

2007-03-09 06:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Spring Break 07 - I= U C I< YEA!!!!

What are you doing for SB '07 - And are you getting some?? Don't be shy ladies! Let's see how many people out there really plan on getting some for SB! Guys and Gals

2007-03-09 06:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by xtaticlyme 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i'm going out w/ this really cool guy and i'm just about ready to have sex with him,but i dont know how guys feel about how well 'groomed' u r down there. i'm a self-concious person and i really do what to please him. how do you like a girl to be??? please keep in mind that the boy is 16!

2007-03-09 06:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by chica.bonita_09 2 in Singles & Dating

either way it's going in and out, i have a tendency to rock, it's easier! (sorry for the lame wording, just trying to not get reported again!)

2007-03-09 06:17:21 · 21 answers · asked by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 in Singles & Dating

My bloke and I are getting married that day but we need a witness for the ceremony at San Francisco County Court...

...Would you like to help out two total strangers? :D

2007-03-09 06:17:08 · 19 answers · asked by toe_jam_on_toast 3 in Weddings

I asked him who the hair belonged to and he said it is mine, I am a blonde. Is he cheating on me?

2007-03-09 06:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by badgirlplease 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:16:52 · 1 answers · asked by doublepenetration@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have recently separated, we still sleep in the same bed and sometimes even cuddle. She has told me to move on!! I have asked if she is seeing someone and she says no. She has lied to me before as I knew that she was emotionally attached to someone while we were married and when I questioned it she said no( I read e-mails ) She now has become very close with her boss, she says they are good friends. Tonight we went for dinner, parent/teacher meeting ( we have a 3 year old) and had a great night. Once she got to her car the first thing she did was call him when he's in Colorado. I know because I did the unthinkable, checked her phone. We were in bed, she was just falling asleep and I was holding her. She got 2 text messages at midnight and I didn't like it and left the bed. Even though we are "separated" it kills me because I want her. Am I being told the truth when I ask if she is seeing someone ? They talk all the time !!! Getting texts at midnight, is that normal ?

2007-03-09 06:16:41 · 23 answers · asked by pedro_penedro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know: cutie, sweety, sweetheart, baby, sexy, handsome... what else can you think of?

2007-03-09 06:16:29 · 19 answers · asked by Cookie H 3 in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been cheating on my husband with my manager from Captain D's. I wouldnt call it cheating BC I needed the raise for extra money to help our household. Then we added my husbands best friend to the mix to spice it up even more, and now my manager wants both of us all the time. How do I get my manager to pay more attention to me and end the affair with my husbands best friend? I feel really bad since thats his friend and all!

2007-03-09 06:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by nicky w 1 in Family

2007-03-09 06:16:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The first time he kinda got ride of a third person hanging around. Second attempt is just suggest the two of us working on a project. The first time was a little touchy touchy, then a nice back rub I enjoyed it standing real close to me. So, whats is motive?

2007-03-09 06:16:01 · 3 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Defend your sex, or don't. Anecdotes are welcome.

2007-03-09 06:15:42 · 4 answers · asked by Tippy 2 in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were smoking herb and I had a good sex drive. Now that we are clean I have lost all sex drive. We have been together for 10 months and planning to marry him. It isnt like I got bored or anything I just don't want to I'd rather play a game or cuddle or something. I'll have sex with him and act like I'm loving for his sake and he knows this but I want the feeling to be real. Any ideas to get it back? We are both under 20 so it isn't because of age.

2007-03-09 06:15:28 · 14 answers · asked by princesspeachdeuce 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you give her space and time and wait till she contacts you again? Or do you go to her? My g/f is upset with me at the momnet and im wondering if i should just back off and give her room or go and contat her? I know im gonna get a load of smart a s s answers on this one, but if you can get that outta the way first and then answer my question that'd be great. Thanks

2007-03-09 06:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She will never put out and he will always follow her like a puppy dog

2007-03-09 06:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend because of some crazy things he's been doing while out partying (was caught by photos later posted to the internet, of all things). He is younger than me and knows I dislike his partying, and I felt like he lied when he had told me he just hangs out with his friends, etc. and doesn't go wild, in addition to the things he actually was doing. He didn't cheat on me (well he says he didn't) but was doing things... a boyfriend shouldn't.

He also hasn't been supportive of my lifestyle in the past (he works in the corporate world and I am a freelancer), which caused arguments and hurt my feelings. He also would edge away from talking about any future together.

He pleaded for one more chance, said he wanted to change, needs to grow up, wanted a future together and to be more supportive, and that I am the most important thing in his life. So I'm giving him a last chance. Most of my friends think it's mistake. Has the "one last chance" ever worked for anyone?

2007-03-09 06:12:40 · 14 answers · asked by have a nice day 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:12:25 · 13 answers · asked by babydollsloan 1 in Weddings

my husband just walked out on pay day and took all the money with him. my landlord said that if the bill isnt paid today she is evicting us and i dont work cause of a manicly depressed kid. how do i save my family?

2007-03-09 06:11:58 · 14 answers · asked by wlfbelcher 3 in Marriage & Divorce