If I'm dating someone that's extremely sensitive and she doesn't seem to think she needs to change at all, is this something that should be ignored and accepted? By sensitive, I mean "offended" at almost everything that is said or done, as if everything is intended to hurt her.
Personally, I feel that saying you are "just sensitive" is just another way of saying you're "just immature" and I usually respond with "insensitivity" because sensitivity is ridiculous. I mean, does the world revolve around you?
2007-03-09 06:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Art Student 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the person is being offended by every little thing than I don't think ignoring it will help. You will always say things that will "offend" her and she will always feel hurt and take them the wrong way. If you really want to work on it perhaps you two should seek counseling or you may just need to move on from this relationship.
2007-03-09 06:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Vivita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do sound insensitive in that last line though. Other than that well it sounds like she's immature. Does she not get sarcasm? Is she "special needs"? I think this shouldn't be ignored or accepted it should be worked on. Grow up.
2007-03-09 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont be rude if shes sensitive i mean tell her how you feel just be like: i no you really sensitive and all but i think you should keep some of it to yourself not that i dont want to know about it really i do but i just think you need to live a little more freely.
2007-03-09 14:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should be ignored because how else can you be honest about yourself and those around you if you're not a sensitive person!
2007-03-09 14:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's the amount of attention she gets, that's why she so sensitive. don't ignore sensitivity, but let her know how you feel about it, rather than dancing around the idea. you need attention too
2007-03-09 14:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by rise FROM the ashes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's important to be sensitive to her sensitivity
but it's impossible to maintain a 1 sided relationship- it takes 2 people to make it work
it's very difficult to "walk on eggshells" because of another's thin skin
be yourself- she needs to accept you for that or someone else will be happy to
2007-03-09 14:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by ann s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you want to continue with this relationship, it should not be ignored.
whether a relationship continues or not depends on whether you want it to or not.
and if you choose to respond to her sensitivity with insensitivity, then i would say that your relationship is heading for the dumps.
2007-03-09 14:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun with that. Wait til sje starts on you. You need to talk to her about it. And I sure she'll be offended, but your *** is next, for the complaint desk. Imagine waking up to "your socks are on the floor youleftthetoothpastelidoffyoudid'ntdrythedishes" get my point fix or forget about it. is my motto
2007-03-09 14:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by walker9842 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's way too sensitive and self-centred from what I gather. Your maturity levels are too different. Find someone more suitable for you.
2007-03-09 14:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right....I also think that you should move on and find someone who is less "sensitive" ....good luck
2007-03-09 14:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋