My Boyfriends Friends smoke?

Question

my boyfriend is a year older than me i'm 13 he's 14 after school this week i saw three of his friends smoking one is the same age as me. I dont think he knows about it i'm worried he going either start if he finds out or if i tell him he might think i'm moaning about them and then if he asks them they would think i was tryin to get them into trouble or try to iscolate him from his friends. i don't think i should tell him but i dont want him to start.

he wasn't there when i saw them he's really sweet and he hates smokin himself ,i think.

Answer 1

Okey. Well just talk to him about it. Tell him that by his friends smoking, at such a young age, that it makes you a little uncomfortable. Tell him that you aren't going to report them, as they live their own life, but you are just worried about his health.

Now, if he starts to smoke, and you dont like it, then you really only have two choices. Stick with him, even though you dont like it. Or move on.

Good lucky hunny...

Answer 2

Smoking is a filthy habit, and no good has ever come from it. Tell your boyfriend that you think he is too intelligent to smoke. If he keeps it up, you'll have to decide whether or not you're willing to put up with it. Keep in mind, if he smokes around you he's hurting your health, too.
No matter what happens, don't you start smoking. Even if it means the end of your relationship. Your life and your health is number one right now.
Good luck.

Answer 3

cuz if u dont use it each and all of the time u will burn up each and all of the weed. weed is the only drug the place if u use it each and all of the time u want much less every time to get severe cuz it maintains to be in ur equipment for 30 days. a non-addict will use a minimum of 2x extra to get an analogous severe than an addict. and why do u decide to smoke weed besides, its unlawful for a reason. if something u might desire to get ur bf to end smoking no longer smoke with him. WTF are u thinking?

Answer 4

You don't need to tell him his friends were smoking, but in conversation, you can bring up that people who smoke are huge loosers and tell him that you would never go out with someone who smoked.

That should do the trick.

Answer 5

Well unless they hold him down and force a cigarette in his mouth and make him inhale, you will just have to let your b/f make his own decision.He may never smoke, then again he may smoke like a chimney.Chances are if he starts, he probably wont quit unless he sees the need to and wants to,I hope he doesnt start myself.

Answer 6

So drop some hints about how gross you think smoking is. Hopefully he'll get the hint and either stop if he's already doing it, or not start if he's not. Good luck!

Answer 7

I would point it out very casually, and say a big YUUUCK somewhere in there. Nothing at him, just what you saw, like a casual conversation.

If he flips out that's, his problem. He shouldn't though, you're just expression an opinion, not telling him who to hang with.

Answer 8

He's still a boy sooner or later he will try smoking is part of life and he may or may not like it and make a decision of his own don't bug him about it.

Answer 9

If your boyfriend truly wants to start smoking, he will. But if you dont want to be with a smoker, dont be with one. Tell him how you feel about smoking, and see how it goes from there.

Answer 10

your too young to have a boyfriend... enjoy your life!! boys seriously suck! and i think you should take that chance in telling him!! i mean what have you got to loose?!?I'm sure he already knows but i think you should tell him how you feel about it .... and if the relationship is really serious then he will understand!