I found a long black hair on my boyfriend's clothes, is he cheating on me?

Question

I asked him who the hair belonged to and he said it is mine, I am a blonde. Is he cheating on me?

Answer 1

Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Yes he is cheating, now ask yourself is it worth the end of your marriage?

Answer 2

How many hairs are there? One or two is not a big deal. However, my boyfriend came home from being away for 2 weeks with blonde hairs all over his black clothes. He wears black more than anything. It being winter, a lot of fleece, which is why it popped out at me. I found dozens of blonde, fine hairs on his clothes. Mine are red and more coarse so it is obvious. Transference is one thing, but dozens and dozens at a time - something is up. Simple logic is - one or two, no big deal. Many, many hairs over a period of time means there is much more going on than a simple "oops, sorry I bumped into you" situation.

Answer 3

Finding hair on your boyfriends clothes is not any kind of evidence. I shed like a dog and I have not slept with every person I have got hair on. It sounds like you are having serious trust issues with your boyfriend. Sit down and talk with him, but don't start it off by throwing out accusations. Just talk and listen. That is the only way you will feel better.

Answer 4

wow..if you're a blonde then obviously know its not yours for a fact a lot of people have problems where their hair falls off so if he tells you that he was just surrounded by gurls wit black hair then id say believe him but then there is the question of why he would lie to you at first when you first asked him?? so if i were you i would look into that you kno see if hes changing then confront him...GOOD LUCK and dont expect the worst...

Answer 5

first see if anyone you know around him has black hair. if his mom, sister has blonde hair than yes he is. if there are other people like coworker, sharing car with someone who has that hair color than it could just be he was sitting on the seat and caught it. look at all the possibility. if nothing seem to justify how it got there than you can yell at him.
speaking from personal expericnce. i have two boyfriends, one is dark hair and the other has highlights. when he leave i find the one with lighter hair on me all the time, luckily my other bf never notice.

Answer 6

I don't think he is cheating on you blonde girls tend to have a little bit of black hair so stop worrying.

Answer 7

it depends on what article of clothing. b/c he could easily brush up against someone if it was his jacket or shirt. i would find harder evidence to come to some conclusion if he's cheating on you or not. besides, hair can be found anywhere

as for saying it's yours... guys are just bad liars

Answer 8

Ooh, I don't know. It could've been a coincidence because sometimes I find hair on me, but for him to lie and say it's your's he's probably cheating

Answer 9

don know
sounds like he thinks u r blonde n stupid!
go visit the doc

Answer 10

Sorry sweetheart...that was my wig!!

Seriously, that could be anyone's hair. Could be his mom's, grandmom, or hell just one of your best friend (j/k). I think you're just being insecure, he's not cheating.