okay, so i'm going out w/ this really cool guy and i'm just about ready to have sex with him,but i dont know how guys feel about how well 'groomed' u r down there. i'm a self-concious person and i really do what to please him. how do you like a girl to be??? please keep in mind that the boy is 16!
2007-03-09 06:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by chica.bonita_09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Since you feel you are ready to make that next step, i think you two should have a talk about "sexual" prefernces.
How groomed a woman is down there is a personal prefrence that varies btwn guys. You first have to find a style that best suites you. Myself, I prefer a full brazlian, no hair at all. some men prefer a landing strip, which is just a strip of trimmed hair on the "pubic mound" with no hair on the outter and inner lips, and back around the butt.
Or some guys like a woman who is all natural. If you are unsure, stick with the landing strip. That is the most "common" of pubic styles for women now days. If you want to wax to get the shape, then you can, (it hurts, but the more you do it, the less it DOES hurt...) Or you can shave, but depending on how fast your hair grows, do it at the LAST possilbe minute.
Either way, be sure you have that sex chat with him, so that he knows he is going to be wearing a condom, what YOUR boundries are, what his are, and have fun.
2007-03-09 06:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're young, and the guy's young (and you're ready to have sex... think about this seriously before you do), it's probably not best to be bare--the guy may think you've not "matured" that way yet. And if you're just having sex (not oral) then it probably doesn't matter yet.
And if the guy's 16, I don't think he'll care that much.
(I would say, though, that I prefer a clean or landing-strip girl. Bushy hair just gets in the way; you get hair caught in your teeth, and you don't have as good of a visual "view" for some positions...)
2007-03-09 14:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so this "really cool guy" is 16. You are older? Younger would be my bet.
Honestly Sweetie, you're too young to be asking this question. Wait a few years, okay?
Use protection... like being in a different room.
That being said, different guys have different preferences when it comes to a woman's private grooming. I've preferred shaved or very trimmed since... geez, 1980, when a girlfriend surprised me with it. My wife graciously accommodates me (I believe she finds it more hygienic, so win-win.).
2007-03-09 19:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it to shaved. But some people like hair down there. Chances are though that he's not going to mind anyway because if he is sixteen he's just happy to be in the vicinity of a vajajay.
2007-03-09 14:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its all perference! Me personally Ive been bald since 13 as from my many male friends they hate to have a women that has a jungle down there w/ monkeys swinging from tree to tree but I also heard as long as its trimed down and managable its all good. boys especially 16 dont care as long as they are getting some. Hope that helps....
2007-03-09 14:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by spanky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Holy crap! If he's only sixteen, how old are you? Look, sugar, that's too young to f u c k, period. Don't degrade and demean yourself and him. Even if you're "of age", he is not, and you would be guilty of rape! And yes, you get found out and you WILL be arrested and charged!
As for the question you asked: few men care one way or another how much hair is there - it ain't the hair we're interested in!
2007-03-09 14:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
A nice grassy field is what men like. Shaved is OUT! But since he is 16, he doesn't need to know this for about ten more years.
2007-03-09 14:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally do not like coughing up hairballs if u know what I mean. I am not meaning to be vulgar, but thats just my personal preference!!! But then again u are WAY to young to be thinking of these kind of things!!!
2007-03-09 14:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Papi G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you seem to young for sex but its your choice just protect yourself because you never know if he'll leave you after that.. but anyways i prefer a girl that's completely shaved. it makes it easier when you go down there.
2007-03-09 14:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by gansito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok... Since I like girls too. I'll tell you my preferance. I like it bald or nearly bald. Its SOOO MUCH EASIER. Most guys I know prefer the exact same.
2007-03-09 14:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋