Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

When a girl wrote this poem for someone, what message was she trying to convey. What was the mood of the writer, was she upset, sad, furious, frustrated, still in love or just fed up?

here's the poem:
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what does one do when she doesnt know she is blind,
she cant compare brightness or array of colors
no pinks, no tangerine, no mint, or yellow
she thought everything was pitch black into the dark

no way to compare, no way to know
as he painted the scenario as bleak and lifeless
when reality shows otherwise, it would be deceitful,
when he prefers something or someone's happier tone


who does she blame when she is blind
blindness that she created, blindness that she wanted
sights can be restored, and possibilities are seen
she will see the bright colors, and will flood the make-believe darkness.

2007-03-09 07:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by ♦cat 6 in Singles & Dating

Because i am with this boy and i found out he is my 5th cousin and i really like him.

2007-03-09 07:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I used to be best friends with my older brother until he went off to boarding school. When he graduated and came back home I swear he was a whole differant person. Now he is off srewing his life away and he only calls when he wants something and he never asks how I'm doing. Sometimes I just try to let it go...but the last time I avoided him he called from the ER room, becasue he O.Ded. I think he is a physopath but since he is 19 he has to get help himself and that is never going to happen. Am I alone in this? I just don't know what to do.

2007-03-09 07:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by Lizbiz333 2 in Family

it just seems soooo unromantic and lazy

2007-03-09 07:00:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Things are going very well. We trust each other completely. She lives in another country. I love her that much to make it work.

2007-03-09 06:59:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right...I've liked this guy for years and I think I may love him. He told me once that he fancied me a bit but that was a while back. We're still friends but I don't know what to do. Should I face my fears and confront him or should I move on?

2007-03-09 06:59:14 · 31 answers · asked by vicki-rose 1 in Singles & Dating

and she does not want to say when where or with who and it bothers me alot what is the easiest way to get over this?

2007-03-09 06:59:07 · 22 answers · asked by colochi79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 06:58:59 · 19 answers · asked by kristine 1 in Weddings

The soccer season is starting and my worse enemy is joining the team. Last year she joined and she bothered me a lot. What should I do?

2007-03-09 06:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Afternoon y'all,

I'm going out this weekend with a cute guy from work. It turns out an old college buddy of his is going to join us.

I'm hoping to have a threesome, but I just found out that we are going to a concert that has a band I know really well from High School. I used to date two of the performers.

I'm wondering, are guys comfortable with have 4 or 5 on 1 sex? I'd love it, but I don't know how to best bring it up.

I only have one night to pull it off, 'cuz the hubby gets home on Sunday Night and the boyfriend gets back Tuesday. (My boyfriend is my future babydaddy in 7 months!)

2007-03-09 06:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm serious. I want a really chaste woman.

2007-03-09 06:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If somone loves you more than you love them...or you love your wife more than your child...or love your child more than your wife loves your child....by home much?

What is the unit of measure? How do you quanitify?

2007-03-09 06:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by Captain Jack 6 in Marriage & Divorce

why people think someone 3/4 white 1/4 asian is a asian
someone 1/8 black 7/8white is a black
like Wentworth Miller has little black blood but he looks mostly white
I know lots of 25%asian 75%white people look mostly white
some even have blue eyes and blone hair
why people think the one have 80%white blood 20%other race
not a white
btw I am asian girl live in Hong Kong
there are lots of half asian half white in here
people over here think half asian is white

2007-03-09 06:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by mtdladybug56 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I know I have asked this question before last night and most of the answers say no and run. I love her I do but I'm about to start college in the fall and shes only in the 10th grade and I get that she loves me and that she wants a part of me but I dont get why now after a year together why now you know. I told her that a baby is a life time committment and that you can't change your mind about it when it gets rough she told me she knows all of that and has been thinking about this for months and that shes 100% sure about this and she wants me to be too. So shes giving me the weekend alone to think things over. I mean I love her and down the road I want a kid with her but the thought of not being with other girls cuz I have a family at home to take care of and when I turn 21 there will be no drinking cuz I have to spend time with the kid and my maybe wife....this is all so scary and I dont know what to do and shes off with friends for the weekend. What should I do?

2007-03-09 06:56:36 · 48 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

they are selling kits with ancient artifacts on how to clean them but the fact is it turns out your NEVER suppost to clean artifacts

2007-03-09 06:56:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend isn't allowed to talk on the phone so when i call his parent's will not let me talk to him.. this is important I need to talk to him (I'm carrying his kid!-he will be a dad) So I need an excuse to talk to him on the phone, he doesn't have email, but I don't want to tell his parent's until he knows first, especially over the phone. I mean imagine answering the phone and someone telling you "I need to talk to your son on the phone I am the mother-to-be to is son". So what should I say in order to talk to him?

Yea I know, being pregnant at 16... sucks... bad choice.
What do I say, for my excuse??? ♥

2007-03-09 06:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by TaraKara3 2 in Singles & Dating

i have not had the best relationship with my in laws so i dont know if maybe this is the reason that i may be a little bothered by this, but my sister in law took my baby to take pictures with her without asking me. i dont like it . am i over-exagerating

2007-03-09 06:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by haley01 1 in Family

I have told the case workers more than once where he is but for some reason they just don't have the time or what ever to get him..Can any body tell me what to do?????? PLEASE help me........Thanks

2007-03-09 06:55:34 · 25 answers · asked by mfroeh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you feel when you know just now that your husband has a child from another woman whose age is between the ages of your children? The husband that you've known to be the most honest and faithful there is in this world? Is it worth ending the marriage? Should I just forgive and forget? How?

2007-03-09 06:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by finding_answers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone has asked my fren that but she doesn't want to because he is not successful nor well educated and rides a motorbike.
She asked if this is her reason must she simply say "yes" & allow his phone calls & reveal more bout herself, even tho she does not want to in order to avoid back stabbing. He said "I want to call you once in a while to chat with you and get to know you better and just be your fren".
He asked her if she were married (she's not) or has a boyfriend coz she was twitching her ring she was wearing. He kept saying "I want your cell phone number (few times)"

Then she said " I think i know where this is heading. I don't want to be too close. We can chat at work."
Then he says "What are u saying? Just wanna be your fren. Not thinking bout that sorta thing."

Her Question to me is, "Is it wrong for an educated girl (but not doing that great) to want something more than the above? "
If she tells in his face will she get into trouble? Possible revenge perhaps?

2007-03-09 06:54:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have been together for 4 years and have a little girl who's 1. we used to be very sexually active and loved just fooling around ang having fun? now we are never intimate at all, when we go to bed we just sleep? ive tryed everything to be more intimate but his just not interested but i know he love's me? ive even started having dreams of sexual affairs with other people and i feel terrible, like ive cheated? i have put on weight and i wonder if he just dont fancy me anymore but when i ask him he say's he does(but then he would). is it me, i just dont understand? i do love him but im getting sick of it, i know sex is not everything in a relationship but it makes me feel closer to him? ive even thought about leaving coz of it, is that stupid? ive tryed talking to him about it and he try's to make the effort for about a week then it stops again? what do you think? thank you

2007-03-09 06:54:20 · 20 answers · asked by jemzi123 1 in Singles & Dating

and whyyy???

2007-03-09 06:53:43 · 2 answers · asked by Alejandra2008 3 in Singles & Dating

I've only been in love twice. Once two years ago and now. I am afraid of being hurt so therefore, I am afraid of love. And all I want to do is tell him how much I think about him and how I've never felt this way. I know it is love but I don't want to get hurt. He says he loves me but sometimes I doubt him. Emotional pain is one thing I can't stand. How can I get over this and be capable of loving him without fear?

2007-03-09 06:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by amberlynne_2007 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:53:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what were you going through when you met ? please answer

2007-03-09 06:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My DH and I are separating after 3.5 years of marriage and 7 years together. Without going into detail, we both have issues to deal with before getting back together and I'm moving 120 miles away. Here's the strange part (or at least most people I think will find it strange)...I'm moving in with his sister. We have always been super close and I think of her more like a best friend/sister than sister-in-law.

What do you guys think? Are we a Dr. Phil episode waiting to happen?

2007-03-09 06:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i ask this qeution because they say women cheat for a reason so i want to know if in fact thats true

2007-03-09 06:52:12 · 2 answers · asked by jayie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-09 06:52:01 · 32 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 06:51:28 · 1 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Singles & Dating