work. i didnt even like him at first. now i miss him everyday of my life.
2007-03-09 06:55:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Met him at church; he was visiting his brother, who was our priest, from another city. My dad was the deacon, my mom asked everyone to our house for lunch. After lunch, my mom dared me to ask him out - I did, and we went to a movie that night. We saw each other as friends for a year (I was dating someone else), then he wanted more so confronted (nicely) the guy I was seeing to see how serious he was about me. I chose the guy who is now my husband. We had dated two years before we got married. Married very happily almost 18 years!
Things have not always been easy, there have been some terrible times, but understanding, love and hard work have gotten through it all. Marriage takes maturity and commitment, and it's "work", meaning that it must be nurtured and cared for all of the time. People get into trouble when they get lazy or selfish.
2007-03-09 15:49:43
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answered by Lydia 7
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I was a police sergeant. The dress store in the mall called the station stating they needed an officer to work off duty for a private party/fashion show that was to be held that night. The officer needed to wear a dark suit. I asked around and none of my guys could work the job. I took it and worked the door that night with the store's assistant manager verifying the ID of invited guests. She is Chinese. She is the classiest and sweetest person have ever met. She was so nice to me, I was like a puppy following it's owner. She called the station again in a month requesting an officer to escort her to a fashion show she was modeling in. After wards we went out for dinner and I got the nerve up to ask her out on a real date. She said yes. I was the happiest guy in town. It was the greatest two years of my life. Unfortunately, we broke up because I was a bonehead and misunderstood her actions and comments to me. It was all my fault. That was over 4 years ago. Not a day goes by that I don't regret my foolishness and sadness at losing her. While still looking, I have yet to ever meet someone to replace her. Moral of the story guys? The way you keep your one true love is the same as the way you win them. Guys, if you're listening, love, honor and cherish your girl.
2007-03-09 15:21:14
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answered by dragunov 4
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Well we work together. At the time he worked second shift, and I'm on days. We never really saw each other but out of the blue I got a friend request online from him. It started as idle chit-chat, then led to having smoke breaks together, then when I was torn over a bad relationship break up he asked if I would like to goto a concert with him.
I remember thinking it was a pity date. He felt bad that was all. The closer it got to going out, I realized it wasn't pity, that maybe he was interested in me.
On our first date, we kissed and in that moment, it felt like noone else existed. The music stopped, the noise stopped and it was just him and me. I knew RIGHT then that this man was going to be the man I spend the rest of my life with.
Of course thats silly but seriously I just knew and looking back, he says he too just knew I was the one.
2007-03-09 15:21:36
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answered by MJ 3
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We went to school together actually. We both liked each other but I had a boyfriend. After we graduated we would see each other out and talk, he started partying with my sister, I had just broken up with a guy that had been cheating on me for a while, and I hadnt seen him in a while so we all went out and we have been together ever since. And we know have a daughter and a baby on the way and our Anniversary is Monday!! He had told me that he loved me like a week after we were together and I said "no you dont" and then about a week after that I realized I loved him too, its just a feeling that I got that he was "the one". It was great and still is.
2007-03-09 14:58:52
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answered by Jennifer H 4
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I actually met the love of my life through a myspace heavy metal group. It was completely by accident. Joint together by musicial interest.
how did you know he/she was the one?
We talk for hours. We CARE about what the other has to say. We respect eachother and would never want to hurt eachother.
and how are making it last?
It's always mutual, meaning we care for eachother in the same amount. It's all about balance! An unhealthy relationship begins when one loves the other more.
2007-03-09 14:57:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I met my fiancee over the internet. I knew he was the one because we just naturally fit. I quit drinking over 7 years ago, he just doesn't drink, he finished partying a long time ago too. We were both looking for someone to settle with, not to party with.
I met him at a time when I was just completely disgusted with love in general. So funny how it happens when you AREN'T looking.
A lot of the getting along has to do with giving space to the other person, and giving weight to the other persons feelings. It isn't about me me me, or him him him, its about "US". I think a lot of people forget that the marriage consists of 2 people, not just one.
2007-03-09 15:01:40
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answered by BrokenOpalAngel 2
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I was going through this horrible break up and I felt like no one could replace that dude and then one of my best guy frenz was always there with me trying to make me feel better and then when I started getting over the other dude I asked my guy fren what made him stick wit me through all that and he said thats because he really klikes me
2007-03-09 14:57:50
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answered by carmel 2
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true love....hmmmm who's my true love......
I guess he started as a friend then a boyfriend then a friend and then a f**k buddy and now a friend again, he's in a very happy long term relationship and I'm in a happy long term relationship. I've known him nearly 8 years and love him to pieces, not that i'd tell him that again. I think i've accepted that we aren't going to be together but i still have him on this pedastall in my head, god only knows why.....
2007-03-09 15:01:59
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answered by Moi 2
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I was riding one night on the strip with one of my best friends that he happened to know. He walked up to the car and asked for anybody's number cause all of us were cute. My friends gave him mine. Funny things is I wasn't even attracted to him or wanted him at all. I used to make him bring me food and just do things for me and he would cause he thought i'd let him have sex with me but I didn't. He got shipped to war and came back and confessed that he had fallen in love with me and I must admit I loved him too. We keep it going by doing things together and changing it up. I was going thru finding myself and he showed me what I deserved and could be. He Is my whole heart love him the death. He provides a life for me even though I am good at doing that for myself. He don't take no shi t though. Strong and independent and I love him to death.
2007-03-09 15:18:43
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answered by special 2
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We were introduced by a mutual friend. I was in the process of moving and she was finalizing her divorce. Because I had been divorced years earlier, I was able to help her with details. We spent time together and within a month knew we were made for each other.
2007-03-09 14:56:50
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answered by Anonymous
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