I've only been in love twice. Once two years ago and now. I am afraid of being hurt so therefore, I am afraid of love. And all I want to do is tell him how much I think about him and how I've never felt this way. I know it is love but I don't want to get hurt. He says he loves me but sometimes I doubt him. Emotional pain is one thing I can't stand. How can I get over this and be capable of loving him without fear?
2007-03-09 06:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by amberlynne_2007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's natural that your feeling this way. Im in the same boat as you are. You have feelings for him....and he says that he has feelings for you. You don't know whether to believe him or just turn him down. I know where your coming from. I feel you. You don't want to get caught up in the "wrath or love" again. maybe you just need some time away from the opposite sex. you don't really need to get involved. When i recovered from my break up's.....i told myself....."You should chase the guy.....the guy should chase you" that's my motto. Let the guy go for you. When he says that he wants to be with you.....don't believe him right away. just put that in the back of your mind. Then when time flys by and he see's you again.....it's gonna be like he feel in love by just sight of you and your poiseness. good luck girl. your smart. your can do it.
2007-03-09 07:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by *BABY NENA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experienced my first bout of "emotional pain" a month ago. Remanants still exist today. My case is entirely different from yours and I've vowed never to make that mistake ever again. Too agonizing.
You however are just going to have to go with your feelings and become involved. You can't shun relationships because you're scared. You'll have to take the chance and work at it to make it last. Sadly...no guarentees in life.
2007-03-09 14:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Sunshine...Be VERY afraid of love...have you read the statistics for divorce? 1 out of 2 marriages end ...the culprit? People who were NOT afraid of love and plodded forward listening to their genitals....time together will provide all the love sedatives you need...challenges to your relationship that force you both to make a joint decision....money hassles....step outside the infatuation realm you find yourself in now...and the answer of whether this feeling is love will become apparent in time
2007-03-09 15:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting into a relationship is always a risk... there is always the chance of being hurt but it's outweight by the chance of finding something incredible. Just remind yourself that this guy is NOT your ex and he deserves a chance.
2007-03-09 14:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just tell him how you feel with confidence then he should have no problem cause you told him and guys like that in women. If you just tell him srtaight up then he should not say anything to hurt you!
2007-03-09 15:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by *TURTLE* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,you can just try to tell him and if he doesn't do anything tell him that you have been hurt before and you don't wanna get hurt again and tell him how much you love him.try it,and if it doesn't work,then I'm sorry.bye.
2007-03-09 15:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by jessinia p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick fix. However trying to love is better than not trying. Remember:
"It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all".
2007-03-09 14:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋