The soccer season is starting and my worse enemy is joining the team. Last year she joined and she bothered me a lot. What should I do?
2007-03-09 06:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be nice and TRY not to let her bothered. Knowing that it is bothering you is add fuel to her fire to get on your last nerves.
Try you damnest to ignore or just be nice even though you want to hit her hard in the head with the ball.
2007-03-09 07:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Plus Size Panther! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to being a team, you have to leave your issues off the field!! Be professional about your sport. Ignore any comments she may make to you. Young people don't believe this, but when you act like something doesn't bother you in the slightest, that person will leave you alone!! They pick at you to get a reaction!
Anyway, play your sport, have good sportsmanship, and don't worry about that twit!!
A side note...there was this girl that I really didn't like in HS, but we were both on the annual staff. Occasionally we were chosen to work as a team on a project. We didn't care for each other but when it came to working together we make a hell of a team!! We had some great ideas and really got stuff done when we worked together. Maybe we didn't like each other because we were just too much alike!!
2007-03-09 15:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she bother you? You know, she might be jealous of your talents, you ever thought of that? Find someone on the team that is not as good as you, and both of you can help each other. Ther's an old saying, two heads are better than one, in this case it's 4 feet are better than 2!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 15:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this person keeps bothering you I would let the coach no. I would definitely not let this keep you from playing the game. I also would maybe try talking too he or she first and tell this person how you feel and then go to your coach. Well I wish you the best of luck ,May God Bless You
2007-03-09 15:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her.... she's not worth your time or your energy to fight with and stress over. You're on the soccer team to play soccer... so play!
2007-03-09 15:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy-To-Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is ignore her, and play your best. if you're really good, you can outshine her and maybe she'll quit eventually. I assume you've got some friends on the team, right? Kill her with kindness- be overly nice to her so she won't know what to do!
2007-03-09 15:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her your best friend on the team. Be nice even when you want to scream. It will change her attitude towards you on the field and even off.
2007-03-09 15:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Diane A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats life there will always be someone there to bother you. be the better person hopefully the coach will notice, yu could accidentally kick her a few times, hehe.
2007-03-09 15:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell her when she'll start to bother me to keep away from me and mind her own business.
2007-03-09 15:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you can do during practice.. lets say she has the soccer ball.. you should run and slide tackle her.. hey, i didn't tell you this.. its a dirty move that many soccer player do..
2007-03-09 15:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Breaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋