My wife and I have recently separated, we still sleep in the same bed and sometimes even cuddle. She has told me to move on!! I have asked if she is seeing someone and she says no. She has lied to me before as I knew that she was emotionally attached to someone while we were married and when I questioned it she said no( I read e-mails ) She now has become very close with her boss, she says they are good friends. Tonight we went for dinner, parent/teacher meeting ( we have a 3 year old) and had a great night. Once she got to her car the first thing she did was call him when he's in Colorado. I know because I did the unthinkable, checked her phone. We were in bed, she was just falling asleep and I was holding her. She got 2 text messages at midnight and I didn't like it and left the bed. Even though we are "separated" it kills me because I want her. Am I being told the truth when I ask if she is seeing someone ? They talk all the time !!! Getting texts at midnight, is that normal ?
2007-03-09
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pedro_penedro
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bang her a few times more and leave her. She's a s1ut!
2007-03-09 07:44:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I hate to say it, but something is up here. I think that she is doing the old: Keep your friends close (her boss), and keep your enemies even closer (you). As long as you are in love and trying to win her back you are also a mark for her to rip you a new one in divorce proceedings.
I agree w/ the other guy. Have one last passionate night w/ her, and then disappear the next day. The only note you should leave are divorce papers.
2007-03-09 14:38:06
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answered by akristel2003 7
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As much as it hurts, get copies of her e-mails and text messages and go to a family law attorney.If you dont she will first and you will be screwed in more ways than one.She is staying with you because she doesnt have to support herself you are her security blanket so she can live the life she is living with you taking care of the responsibilities.I know it hurts, its almost as pa9infull as losing someone to death, but accept the fact that she doesnt love you, the marriage is going to end, and she is planning on doing you in financially.Get in touch with that lawyer yesterday ,take custidy of your child ,and then put her stuff on the porch.
2007-03-09 14:23:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Your wife is walking all over you and you are allowing it. Be a man already and leave this pathetic excuse for a wife. She is clearly cheating on you with "Mr. colorado" and you know it. Why are you being such a wimp about this. I would have kicked this piece of sh''''t to the curb by now. what are you waiting for?
2007-03-09 14:25:21
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answered by Kimmy 4
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First off if the boss is married call his wife and tell her what you think is going on then confront your wife and boss at their work then call his wife and maybe hookup with her at his house and be sure to soil his bed sheets so he knows you were there with his wife.
2007-03-09 14:27:11
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answered by bluemist 4
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My friend......consider your fears confirmed. Shes seeing her boss. Its pretty obvious. First of all leave the bed and the cuddling. It'll make it no easier for you. Believe me. You have to make a clean break or this will eat you alive forever.
2007-03-09 14:24:23
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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Perdro, my good man, she is banging her boss. WTF would he email her at midnight twice and she call him as soon as she could. He was pounding one out and sent her a text message tell her what she did. She lied before and she's lying now.
Kick the lying slut out of your house and find a new women. She obviously does not want to get close to you and she's constantly think about the other douchbag.
2007-03-09 15:12:39
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answered by Anonymous
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You are confusing her actions with love. She doesn't love you. She is a coward. You are finding more and more about her that is unbelievable. You just need to get away and forget about her. You will not get that person you once knew before ever again.
2007-03-09 14:35:50
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answered by Need Answers 4
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Who gets texts from their boss at midnight?? She's probably seeing him and using you to fill in the time when she is bored. You are "safe" to her.
2007-03-09 14:21:06
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answered by MJ 3
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That is one hell of a large lie, and what is worse is that she is using you. If you are separated, get your own place. Stop knocking yourself over the head with this woman, and find a new one.
2007-03-09 14:41:20
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answered by Tony S 5
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She is lying to you. It is very difficult to accept this but she is seeing him. File for divorce and ask you attorney to develop her infidelity as part of the divorce. He can subpoena her cell phone records and take the deposition of the rat. Good luck.
2007-03-09 14:20:53
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answered by Anonymous
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