When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were smoking herb and I had a good sex drive. Now that we are clean I have lost all sex drive. We have been together for 10 months and planning to marry him. It isnt like I got bored or anything I just don't want to I'd rather play a game or cuddle or something. I'll have sex with him and act like I'm loving for his sake and he knows this but I want the feeling to be real. Any ideas to get it back? We are both under 20 so it isn't because of age.
2007-03-09 06:15:28 · 14 answers · asked by princesspeachdeuce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's much better (to me) drug free. I won't incriminate myself by stating what I used to use except for Alcohol. I never drank "OIL" unless I was using something else. My drive has increased slighting since I no longer am on a quest to feed my cases of "MUNCHIES".
2007-03-09 06:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to give you to much info on my sex life, but I
will tell you that as you age your sex drive will increase.
Women go through periods where they don't feel that interested in sex sometimes and other times they are more
interested. I know the herb can make an average night,
quite an adventure, but it shouldn't be used alot.
People think that when you get older the sex sucks, but I
am having the best sex I have ever had and I'm 41. Also
I feel like I'm in my 20's. You'll know what I mean when
you get older. Try new things, buy toys, play games, wear
some high heels men love that, but surprise him and you
will get into it.
2007-03-09 15:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been through that same thing where your still in love but the heat isnt there anymore...what we did was went out to more places movies, plays & concerts. We also flirtted with eachother while we were out. like rubbing his chest or whispering naughty ideas in his ear then when you do end up going home you can do them in the kitchen, laundry room or bedroom just spicing it up a little will make that sex drive come back without having to use drugs. the attraction is still there you just need to be more creative and more imagnation in bed. I do think 10 months with someone and thinking of marriage is a little rushing it dont ya think?
2007-03-09 14:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by spanky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I use to smoke, before I got pregnant again, and Im not gonna say it was "better" but I was more into it b/c I was loosened up and I didnt care. It was cool, but it is great without it too. Maybe you should try getting a sex game they work good, we have some of those .
2007-03-09 14:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend! Or at least make sure that your "lack of" is with everyone and not just him. You could have fallen in love with him during a different stage in your life and now you are a different person.
2007-03-09 14:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Miami_mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really weird. Maybe you two only liked each other b/c of pot? That makes no sense b/c pot kills the sex drive.
Just make sure that you are both relaxed and ready to go when you get intimate.
Maybe skip a few days.
2007-03-09 14:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can safely say all relationships hit this stage eventually. It seems to be human nature. All I can say is get back in the saddle and learn to ride again
2007-03-09 14:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To late you need the herb. I don't know why they don't legalize it anyway. I would rather be around a pot head then a drunk any day.
2007-03-09 14:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Extacy is the best for making one horny. If you take some X it will make you so horny you won't be able to stand it. Try some X, it will get you both so horny that it could be a 2 hour session....LOL
2007-03-09 14:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should make a trip to the doctor, and if your b/f really cares he'll want to see you straightened out.
2007-03-09 14:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋