Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

There is this girl who used to be my friend until the swimming caraval. we are now arch enermys and she is always putting me down makeing me feel small.She belives I called her something I did not do. She got angery at my other friend when i went to the fishand chip shop. she did not want to come cues I was there and she said out loud me and my friend are hores. that is untrue. She said my friend had a bad voice and is always pushing her. She is getting way bitcher since she came friends with popular stuck up bitches. What should i do? and i hate school i find it hard to make new friends but i can be really nice, but they think i am strange cues i used to frown but I am not that same person no more what should i do? and when i get too stressed i can hardly breeth and i get small panic attacks i dont like big crouds cues i am super shy.

2007-03-06 21:10:28 · 1 answers · asked by Izzy w 2 in Friends

just like that.... the day before we talked about our future and on monday he just said that it isnt working anymore and he doesnt know what he feels anymore....
im so chocked....and sad and i feel lonely and scared... i cant see a future for me anymore..... how long will i feel this way and what should i do to make the time go a bit faster....? i would like to hear about som1 elses experiences....

2007-03-06 21:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by cillahblues 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give my best friend a baby shower but some of the people on her list, family members, are what one could call shaddy characters. I'm haveing the party at my home and I just don't feel comportable with haveing these types of individuals in my home. I can't change locations and I can't figure out how to invite some of the family without makeing the others upset. By the way everyone one guest list are people that I don't know. I need some help to figure out how to deal with this. Should I just let it go and get over it, after all it's her special day and she should have everyone she wants there?

2007-03-06 21:09:44 · 1 answers · asked by Fuzzybunny95531 4 in Friends

My brother has got married to a girl who was not virgin at the time of marriage. He is now not able to tolerate her and started torturing her. He told her, " I could not sleep with a lady who has so bad physical condition, even if I could have got a girl like you in free of cost."Can we apply for divorce on this ground? Can my sister-in-law harrass my brother on the ground of mental torture? If she cannot prove the mental torture, then can we take any legal step against her? Can mental torture be proved? My brother has used so many slang languages in his mail to her. Can it be a valid document as a proof? Is any document required to file a case for mental and verbal torture? She wrote she was ill. But my brother neither called her nor phoned her. Even from my house no one called her where as she informed us that she was ill. Will she be able to take legal step using telephone evidence and email? My brother is in Angola. She is in India. We are Indian.

2007-03-06 21:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by sanjukta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime a guy looks at me, I look away. I don't know why, but I just do. I'm starting to get to the age where it's rediculous to do that. I'm 19 and I haven't had a man yet. How can I make myself stop doing that? I need a man before I turn 20 in december.

2007-03-06 21:06:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im kind of blur with what actually my guy wants from me..

2007-03-06 21:04:12 · 18 answers · asked by gegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My gf & I are both mid-20's college undergrads and we've been to gether for over a year. We've had our share of ups and downs thru out the relationship and we are best friends who became lovers. We've talked of a possible future together and have goals of grad & medical school. Recently, my gf came down w/ extreme anxiety to the point in which she had to take leave from work, withdraw from school and abruptly head back to her hometown b/c she felt lost and uncertain. At the moment, she also helps manage a family business, not doing well in her courses, waiting for responses from pharmacy school, fighting w/ her ex bf and feeling as if she can no longer have the mental strength to go on anymore. For me, I've always taken care of her but now she is 300 miles away from me (living at her ex's), and on the phone, she sounds confused about everything and she wants to put our relationship on hold but yet have a future. For me, I now feel depressed, mad, unfocused & lost...what am i to do?

2007-03-06 21:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by kisskissbangbang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im into bad boys and a year ago started talking to a italian dope dealer who is incarcerated he was talking to this older italian woman and when she found out about me talking to him all she did was start harrassing me calling me the n word my friend who is hispanic the s word i called her racist names back i told him and he said it was only natural and he still is talking to me and ditched her cause she started flipping out posting all types of blogs keep in mind she admitted she had never met him but had been writing him for 2 years i like him alot but i dont want to get serious with him cause i figure cause he is italian and im black all he wants to do is sleep with me he said race doesnt matter to him or his parents when he told his dad about me he just asked when was he getting grandkids and he tells him to tell me hi but in the back of my mind it's hard to believe that he would want something longterm with me and i keep questioning him am i wrong for feeling like this i dated a few white guys who only dated me to see what it was like to date a black girl then split cause they didnt think i acted black enough how can i stop feeling like this"

2007-03-06 21:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dumbfounded while reading a recent question.
The question....why is my husband doing me 2 times a month.

Most women answered: Stop treating him special. Stop wearing laungurie (spelling, I am a man). Play hard to get it will make him want you more.

Did none of these gals see the 2 times a month..? **** I jack-off three times a week even when I am having sex with 3 girls a day.

Girls, DAMN, I should start a column,....oops BLOG.

Girls, If you want sex, TAKE IT. Unless your man needs viagra, he will welcome you taking charge and demanding what you want him to do.

We are so tired of literally beating around the bush, ... you must know men think about sex every minute. BUT REMEMBER...we are thinking about getting off.....because that is what we were tought.!!!! Slow us down, make us please you in order to receive our much desirved lingam massage.
Dont let sociall TABOOs get in the way...open up.

2007-03-06 21:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by Larry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

TEN POINTS for the best answer!
- innocent hell
-avenger
-lady of the beginning
-flower of the wind

2007-03-06 21:01:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and why it wouldn't work

I'm trying to think of excuses, his bad hair, the way he walks

but it leads me back to love.

Why am I like this?

2007-03-06 21:01:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 21:00:40 · 17 answers · asked by sweetdreams 2 in Weddings

2007-03-06 20:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Dya - The white Angel 3 in Friends

i am in my late 20's and so is my boyfriend, we've been living together for 2 years, when i first met him he was very healthy and outgoing, but 5 months ago he was diagonised with cancer, our carefree life was replace with constant hospital visit, pain from chemo and constant fear of cancer getting worse. Now i am not trying to be selfish here, but logically its affecting my life, my realithy and my feelings every second! should i stay with him because 'love' and 'its the right thing to do', or should i leave because i don't want to live in fear anymore? i fear his death, fear my own motality, fear future, is it a way of living?

2007-03-06 20:58:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i met my husband in aug 2002 and we fell in love and got married at christmas 2003, i was and still want to be the most happiest woman alive. we have had our up's and down's mostly down's but we have worked through it, i got very hurt in my last relationship, and so did he. but when i found my mr right my whole heart went. i can be a bit insecure, may-be a little jelouse, i've been working on and off as i have a daughter from a previous relationship, and my husband has brought her up as his own, he's gone to work for us, a couple of weeks ago, i found out that he'd been in contact with his ex- girlfriend, and they have been texting each other ever since, he say's there's northing in it, he just wanted some answer's. and if he had told me, i would of gone mad at him, ( which i have anyway) but not only that he's been in contact with her brother and her mum, but just as friends. i can't stop him doing it, he's not left me, he want's us to be together, but he also want's his friend's.help

2007-03-06 20:57:20 · 42 answers · asked by ssldavey2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 20:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to marry my partner, I have the Ring and Everything...

here's the problem , he has married and divorced and it has left him a little scared as far as his opinion of marriage goes.

He was married to his ex wife for 10+ years and divorced a little over 3 years ago after she cheated on him (They where in a monogamous Relationship).

A Few weeks ago i asked him if he would ever get married again and he said maybe

He sees marriage as an unessasary "Trap" , divorce is a nightmare, and that all marriage is good for is the legal benefits you gain from them (Filing joint taxes ect.)

A few weeks before that i told his that i want to marry him and he said "so, you want to be Mrs. (his last name)" smiled and said "Ok" and just kept Rubbing my leg and smiling

Its very confusing

Side Note
* We are in a Responable Non monogamist relationship, I don't want this to change after marriage unless we come to an agreement that it should (Unlikely)

2007-03-06 20:54:20 · 6 answers · asked by Raven Ty Marx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

where as wives dont like husband watching blue films

2007-03-06 20:54:02 · 17 answers · asked by pandu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so i have been going out with this girl on and off for about 5 years now.. basically i took he virginity and she took mine.. it was after 6 months going out.. we have been through everything.. i love her alot and we used to be really close.. basically she went to college and when we split up for 2 months for the first time she had sex with this other guy the first night she met him while she was drunk and high.. she then made out with him the next day.. and had sex with him again and broke his comp and bought him a new one.. we got back together 2-3 weeks after this happened.. she didn't tell me and lied about the guy.. we got along very well the past 2-3 weeks.. she called me this morning and told me she felt guilty and had to tell me..i called the guy and he made fun of her for being so easy and blah blah.. basically i am really hurt by what she did to me .. i really feel like this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me..she wants to see me this weekend,what should i do

2007-03-06 20:53:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

day?

afternoon?

night?

2007-03-06 20:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is secret marriage legal? And how to do it?

2007-03-06 20:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by lady in pink 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 20:49:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well it seems that i have a problem.....well you know, i'm turning 18 now, but still dont have a bf,,because i feel that no one is right for me....well i'm looking for someone who would understand me and accept me for what iam and its really not easy to find a guy who understandable and kind.....do guys only look for a sex or love?....i think most of the guys is only after of sex not love?am i right/its base on my observation...do you think i can find a guy that will respect me and will not ask me to have sex with him?im a filipina woman thats why i'm looking for that guy....well you know filipina woman are known to be conservative.....and iam still a conservative one bec. i grow up in a conservative family......

2007-03-06 20:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by gracielle 1 in Singles & Dating

...they feel as if they've been used; even though they got EXACTLY the same thing the man got, plus: dinner, a movie, some laughs and a few drinks. Maybe an orgasm or two to boot...what did you expect?

2007-03-06 20:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't normally like going on two or three dates in row. What is something casual I can do in between? I'm excluding hanging out with them with my friends, because I hear a lot of women fell awkward doing that at first.

2007-03-06 20:49:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a poem to express how I feel about this guy but we're not going out or anything so it's gotta be more to convince him 2 ask me out.

2007-03-06 20:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am considering dating a fat lady on a casual basis to start with,i don,t know where to start open to surgestions,thanh you

2007-03-06 20:48:41 · 29 answers · asked by dobber 1 in Singles & Dating

Can any one help me to contact widowers who need to have a widow as a companion.

2007-03-06 20:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Carina21 1 in Friends

ive been chatting to a man on the net for a year ,never took it too seriously ,the longer i know him ,my feelings are getting stronger,i,d never tell him this ,cos we are both married ,he is sort of my soulmate ,how can this be ? because we have never physically met ,but i almost feel his precence ,we are so alike....help !!!! stuff like this isn,t me .

2007-03-06 20:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by stringhey2alfie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am 19 and met a great guy on the 20th of february. We talk everynight and we met in person on the 24th of february. When we met we hugged and held hands and cuddled but we are not dating. I told him that i like him a lot and he told me that he likes me to. We have both been down the same road so we are taking things one day at a time. I have only been in love one time and that was almost 4 years ago. I know for a fact that I am falling for this guy, I mean the thought of him just puts a strong feeling inside me and when we hugged I felt so good. I am actually a little bit scared bc it hasnt been long enough. Im not saying that I am in love i am just saying that i know i have some strong feelings for him. We havent kissed yet but we plan on it when we see each other again. We do like each other but i am just a little scared of how I feel. Can anyone like help me out on how to not be so afraid of my feelings?
No rude comments please?

2007-03-06 20:42:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating