where as wives dont like husband watching blue films
2007-03-06 20:54:02 · 17 answers · asked by pandu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, let's refer to it as erotica.
Erotica has been around for thousands of years. It began as painting, sculpture and poetry, and eventually evolved into literature, photography, acting, and video.
Erotica is simply an alternative form of sexual arousal; it is harmless fantasy and nothing more.
Regarding fantasy, Helen Fisher ("The First Sex," Ballantine Books, Feb. 2000) says that 71 percent of men and 72 percent of women fantasize while having sex with a partner. Men fantasize about conquest and domination, women about submission and surrender.
Dr. Joyce Brothers says, "It might relieve some of your guilt to know that many happily married individuals who have no thought or intention of ever betraying their spouse have sexual fantasies about someone other than their spouse."
Both men and women (single and in a relationship) have shown a desire to enjoy erotica in some form.
As long as a partner is taking care of his/her obligations and responsibilities (job, family) and seeing that the other person is being fulfilled sexually, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with enjoying alternative forms of arousal.
If he is fulfilling you sexually, give him some privacy and space to indulge in a little fantasy. Your relationship is not at risk.
2007-03-06 23:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Blue Films
2016-10-31 06:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It is normal 4 any1 to enjoy the beauty of another person of the opp sex even if she/he is married or not. So ur husband's behaviour is normal.He is 2 b appreciated 4 his frankness in telling the fact. Even u will feel crush when u meet a very handsome man, 4 which u r not 2 b blamed. Watching blue films is not a sin. Those r meant 4 entertainment & knowledge like any other movies. Both of u should watch & explore different ways of doing sex. Reg his insistance to do sex the same way as in blue films, u should politely tell him that certain poses hurt u. He will surely consider ur difficulties. At the same time u should accommodate his preferences 2 the max & don't insist solely on the most lousy missionary position. Similarly u can also demand the type of sex u want. It is ur right. Remember, sex is meant 4 pleasure.
2016-03-16 06:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the husband gets all that he wants from his wife he should not have time and desire to be watching films. May be he thinks he can learn new tricks! Blue films are monotonous stuff.
2007-03-06 21:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by cnsone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who likes to use that expression. Husbands like blue film because they don't have to beg or do dishes to get a session with them.
2007-03-06 20:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
They get the moods on seeing that. They watch it to use all those in their practical life. The ask their wife to do that. But certain things ladies avoid which dont like. They will request the wife to do so. The wife do it unwillingly. Thats the reason ladies hate these films.
2007-03-06 21:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
What do you mean by blue films?
Blue is a pretty color.
2007-03-07 06:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different in some families but just sit together
2007-03-07 07:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by asin k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not need hide anything from life partner..she or he no idea about that,they can watch together and learn no wrong..if watch secretly might be not good attitude,its my comments
2017-01-24 03:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by SL Nathan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because blue help good mood.
without blue, husband would be grumpy
2007-03-06 20:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋