well it seems that i have a problem.....well you know, i'm turning 18 now, but still dont have a bf,,because i feel that no one is right for me....well i'm looking for someone who would understand me and accept me for what iam and its really not easy to find a guy who understandable and kind.....do guys only look for a sex or love?....i think most of the guys is only after of sex not love?am i right/its base on my observation...do you think i can find a guy that will respect me and will not ask me to have sex with him?im a filipina woman thats why i'm looking for that guy....well you know filipina woman are known to be conservative.....and iam still a conservative one bec. i grow up in a conservative family......
2007-03-06 20:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by gracielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is possible to find a guy who is interested in you, and will respect your wishes. However, you need to consider the fact that not every guy is like this. In fact, the majority of guys out there are more concerned with getting laid than making someone happy.
You may feel that nobody is right for you, but who have you been looking at? Are you only considering the guys who are extremely good looking and all the other girls want? Or have you also considered the average/below average guys? From most of the guys I have known in my life, the majority of the ones who are really good looking with great bodies and perfect everythings think they "deserve" sex, and will pass up most girls who don't give it to them. A lot of the other average guys out there are willing to wait for the girl to be ready though, and usually treat them better too.
2007-03-14 21:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by bemaniac64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there are still some nice guys out there. Take your time and you will find one. You are still very young. You need to be focusing on your education, or career right now. Time will eventually bring the right person to you.
2007-03-07 04:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we (men) think about sex almost every 5 seconds,but that doesn't mean that we are not capable of falling inlove,being inlove and truly loving someone for the rest of our life.one more thing,pinakamaganda ang mga filipina para sa akin,so don't worry.
2007-03-07 05:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by ignorant fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take it one day at a time when it comes to a relationship. also guys go for sex then love.
2007-03-14 23:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis Flores 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres 6 billion ppl in the world, im sure u'll find sum1
2007-03-07 04:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋