Well I am 19 and met a great guy on the 20th of february. We talk everynight and we met in person on the 24th of february. When we met we hugged and held hands and cuddled but we are not dating. I told him that i like him a lot and he told me that he likes me to. We have both been down the same road so we are taking things one day at a time. I have only been in love one time and that was almost 4 years ago. I know for a fact that I am falling for this guy, I mean the thought of him just puts a strong feeling inside me and when we hugged I felt so good. I am actually a little bit scared bc it hasnt been long enough. Im not saying that I am in love i am just saying that i know i have some strong feelings for him. We havent kissed yet but we plan on it when we see each other again. We do like each other but i am just a little scared of how I feel. Can anyone like help me out on how to not be so afraid of my feelings?
No rude comments please?
2007-03-06 20:42:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take things slowly, don't rush. Relationship needs to be nurtured and not rushed. Keep things the way it is and let the relationship develops.
2007-03-06 20:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make that big of a deal out of it. Keep in mind that you will be hurt in life a lot of times. Yeah, we want life to be perfect but it always isn't.
It's a big step for you and you're approaching it like a brand new car... I will only drive it down to the corner and turn around and come back. And I will only buy gas at that one gas station because it is the best. And I won't let anyone work on it except for the people at the dealer where I bought it. So, on and so on.
Then a year later you are thinking, "I need to wash it today but it can wait until next week."
So no matter how perfect this seems to be at the time, it's just another date. It might turn out good or bad... it doesn't matter. You are the one that needs to be in judgment. You need to sit there and think, "Is this what I want?"
You're just worried that you are going to fall for him in a big way and he won't fall for you in the same depths.
One of the very most attractive things about a woman is being vulnerable. If you try to protect yourself of not getting hurt, you lose that and your innocence. It makes you a little rougher around the edges. Little by little you lose your femininity. You need to stay in a position where you can be hurt and cry it off if it happens. Men should do the same but we have a very hard time doing that as well.
2007-03-06 20:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in the beginning stages of a crush. Those feelings you feel right now are the best part of getting in a new relationship. Just calm down and go with the flow, if it is meant to be it will happen. Good luck!
2007-03-06 20:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
embrace your feelings and enjoy the ride! dont let your feelings take over but dont deny them either
2007-03-06 20:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHS AND TELLING HIM YOUR ANXIOUS CAN HELP. TRUST ME, HE PROBABLY IS FEELING THE SAME WAY. RELAX AND ENJOY HIS COMPANY.
2007-03-06 20:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just fall girl. :)
2007-03-06 20:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by sterling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you say you are nineteen, or twelve? WTF?
2007-03-06 20:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by I know!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋