Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

2007-03-06 20:41:31 · 25 answers · asked by Kerry S 1 in Weddings

I have decided that I do not want to continue my current relationship. It's 4:30 a.m., she's downstairs. Most of her stuff is here, she doesn't have a car, lives 1 hour away. I told her that I'm not sure if I want to be with her, that I need time. I have been completely honost with her and will do nothing but that. The problem is if I break it off right now she will be hysterical, call her parents...all around bad situation. I am suposed to bring her home in a few hours and, for both of our sake, I need to do it before then. I need to break it off, I know there's no easy way. I just need advice. There is no specific question...I just need help. I really care about her and want to do this right. I will be honest no matter what...please help?

2007-03-06 20:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u mind

2007-03-06 20:39:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do you choose this one?

2007-03-06 20:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 20:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a very devoted wife to my family and my children my husband keeps complaining about each work i do i am very hurt how can somebody just shout or get angry at every little thing to his wife he loves now i think he doesnt need me i feel sad i think he does not love me please add your suggestions

2007-03-06 20:36:22 · 18 answers · asked by %0oi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just only 18 yrs old i am a Filipino.. and i have been in a serious relationship.. i love my gf so much & I know she also loves me as the way i love her i spend most of my time being w/ her.i study hard just to give a beautiful future for her. she inspired me to do that. we've been so long but theres a guy who is trying 2 break our relationship. because the guy also loves my girlfriend so much. thet guy is my bestfriend. but now i treat him as my biggest enemy!!! he is doing everything to destroy my personality with my gf. i feel so bad about it!!! i don't want to be seperated with my gf. i want 2 be married with her because all i want & all i need 2 a gurl is in her. i love her so much!Thet guy is doing everything to get my gf from me. he is doing everything to stay away her from me. i do a lot of things 2 keep her from me but i am very hopeless because my identity with my gf is already destroyed . i cannot afford 2 lose her. help me guys! i need a lot of answers! thank you!

2007-03-06 20:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by JP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've noticed that, in my school it seems like white guys prefer the "not so good looking" asian girl ( well, at least in asian standard) over the pretty asian ones?!

2007-03-06 20:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by ImJuStAgIrL 1 in Singles & Dating

we are in a bitter divorce and i need to know about 2 financial things

i threw him out the day after he told me...but he'd had me quit my job to go back to school about a month before. I struggled and skimped and borrowed the rent, car payment, etc for 5 months....while he didn't pay his credit card or other bills, now he says he doesn't have to pay me back his half of the bills because the day i threw him out we were seperated?? is this true? i ended up losing the apartment because i couldn't come up with the money...and am about $10k in debt to family now thanks to him!!

Also...he's trying to get me to file taxes with him, because he got an inheritance last year of several thousand dollars and he'll lose alot if he files alone....but i want atleast Half of the inheritance now as it was during our marriage (before the seperation) and i deserve it after all of this hell....i have a right to it.....right?

HELP HELP HELP!!!!!

2007-03-06 20:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by MsMist 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 20:35:03 · 5 answers · asked by 123pooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 20:31:48 · 1 answers · asked by MCR Lover Always Be:) 1 in Singles & Dating

we have tried to have sex many times before. but i felt extreme pain and didnt have sex. but this time i had no pain and no bleeding. if i go for a check up will the doctor be able to find out if had sex. please help me.

2007-03-06 20:31:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother has got married to a girl who was not virgin at the time of marriage. He is now not able to tolerate her and started torturing her. He told her, " I could not sleep with a lady who has so bad physical condition, even if I could have got a girl like you in free of cost."Can we apply for divorce on this ground? Can my sister-in-law harrass my brother on the ground of mental torture? If she cannot prove the mental torture, then can we take any legal step against her? Can mental torture be proved? My brother has used so many slang languages in his mail to her. Can it be a valid document as a proof?

2007-03-06 20:29:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother in law is always arguing with me about whether I'm having a girl or not ..based on her "feelings"...She feels it inside that we're having a girl.....She also keepsasking to be in the room while I'm delivering the baby.......Is your mother inlaw this way??

2007-03-06 20:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family

My mum and dad are very different in Religion ways and their backgrounds. One says you’re not allowed to have freedom and the other says do as you want it’s your life??

I wonder what people views on my dad’s side and my mum’s side about us??

Of cores we take our mothers traditions and ways of doing things?? But we don’t get the respect on my dad’s side and my bf thinks like them too so he doesn’t respect the way I am. Plus we live in my dad’s environment so we have to play by the rules which we don’t go by with?

Does the say “when you’re in Rome do as the Romans do”? Do we have to fake things that were not? So we can be accepted in the people’s eyes and do what they do??

2007-03-06 20:27:29 · 2 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been married 2 yrs and have 2 children under 2 my marrige is on the verge of breaking up. any ideas tips or secrets to a happy marrige would be appreciated before mine ends in divorce.

2007-03-06 20:27:13 · 26 answers · asked by **?** 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I will shortly be meeting my ex for a drink. She ended things 1 mth ago after going out 9 mths on the basis her feelings had changed. This coincided with her suffering from depression. She also suffers from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.

She raised the issue of us splitting and I said to her I thought she was depressed (she has a history). She admitted she was & went to the dr who prescribed prozac and counselling. 1 wk later she said she wasn't depressed, didn't need counselling and it was our relationship causing her unhapiness. We broke up.

I didn't contact her to give her space. She contacted me recently on the basis she owed me money. I said to not worry about that. She then said she had a dvd of mine which she could bring round if I wanted. I wasn't sure what to make of her contact.

I decided to ring her to chat. We have now agreed to meet. I am not sure what her intentions are??

I do miss her & want to be with her but am not sure how to go about it witout scaring her off?

2007-03-06 20:25:53 · 25 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-06 20:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by tarang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I have been having strange dreams and all of my dreams have involved me decieving my closest friends or them hurting each other. In one dream, I started dating my close friend's exboyfriend after they broke up because he was beating on her. In the 2nd dream, I dreamed that my best friend and another close friend of my got into an argument, where my close friend hurt my best friend. My close friend said she didn't do it, but I told her "how could I go against my best friend and not believe her?" So that ended my relationship with the close friend. In my 3rd dream, I dreamt that my roommate and her boyfriend got into an argument and he beat her and I found out. Her boyfriend and I are close friends as well,so when I confronted him about it, we started fighting and he ended up hurting me as well, but my roommate took his side, but she still helped me to get better. Am I crazy or in time will I end up hurting 1 of my friends or will they hurt me? I hope neither. What do they mean?

2007-03-06 20:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by jen38106 1 in Friends

she says i am being very affectionate and she doesn't like it.. i was always like this.. the thing is .. i kiss her and hug her a lot..but i was always like that 4 a year now . "i don't do it in public places or anything only when we are together at home"..

Shall I try not to kiss her and hug her so often??

Shall I try to be affectionate?

What do you think?

2007-03-06 20:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by papillon 1 in Singles & Dating

The woman I've dated have been very attractive and they seem to all like a challenge. (I hate playing games,but it seems I'm forced to a lot). How do I remain a challenge without them thinking I'm completely not interested (in which case they may think he's not interested in me forget about him)?

2007-03-06 20:24:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he left her 2yrs ago to come live with me i fell in love with him now he has gone back for the kids he says he says they dont even stay in same bed? he still wants to keep seeing me what shall i do?

2007-03-06 20:24:37 · 36 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-06 20:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by 123pooh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf had a fight about a month ago, he rejected my calls and everything, its becouse i went into his email and i appologised and said it wouldnt happen again becouse i love him and i trust him, it was just curiosity that got to me. But he still thinks i dont trust him, how can i convinse him that i do, i called him last saturday and we talked, about nothing in particular, and he sounded happy when i said it was me, but at the end i told him that i had missed him and i loved him and then he got kind of cold, and when i tryed calling the next day the same thing.

i havent called since becouse i dont wana be all naging but i really do miss him and i want this to work,

oh its long distance by the way, im in france and he in the us..

please give me advice, PLEASE

2007-03-06 20:22:03 · 4 answers · asked by sara 1 in Singles & Dating

what happenned?

2007-03-06 20:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by uuummk 5 in Singles & Dating

Im 13, and im fat, iv had 1 girlfriend ( on and off for about 2 years )so shes basically about it.

I want to know why looks are so important!

The girl i love ( yes, im 13, but i do actually love this person ) goes for looks, so those guys dont actually like her and treat her like crap! So once they break up she comes crying back to me and the rest of our friends and it reapetes. I know she ONLY like me as a friend because she made it clear many times. She has the greatest personality and she beautiful. WHY are looks SO important?!


Its not fair.

2007-03-06 20:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by The Con 5 in Singles & Dating

Who loves the tv show Brother and Sister on ABC?

2007-03-06 20:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My heart has been broken and it feels like a knife is sticking in it.Want go to any detail but it was a betrayal stabing in the heart and back. It is hard for me to get over.

2007-03-06 20:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by becca 2 in Singles & Dating

My older sister had an apartment mate that put all of her mail and packages in a front closet..and hid them..so that she never knew that some important mail had come for her months ago!

What did you do about the apartment mate...did you get rid of them..or try to deal with them in other ways?

2007-03-06 20:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by ladyk 2 in Friends

Always he was talking sweetly with me. but after having physical intimacy, he has just forgotten me, forgotten all his promises. Avoids talking to me. Can you suggest me why is he behaving like that.

2007-03-06 20:16:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating