2007-03-06 20:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, my sister, she hates me because i reported our father to the cops 4 abusing us, and he died 3 days after questioning, i did the right thing and have no regrets, and glad hes dead, she has always been in denial and wont contact me or let me contact her, that was a year ago, im just going to 4get it now
2007-03-06 20:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 34 year old daughter hates me. She has a lot of issues. She grew up without a dad. I am blamed for that (even though that wasn't my fault). She started drinking age 15, she's been drunk most of her life ever since, disregarding everything I have tried to do to help. I am blamed for that. I tried to help her kids. I got blamed for that. I get called all the names under the sun, she goes behind my back trying to break up my relationships with everyone else, she lies most of the time, cheats, steals, without compunction. I get blamed for that too! The list goes on.
I have tried so very hard to be patient but now I realise I actually hate her hard voice! I hate the way she's so aggressive & unpredictable- she frightens me.
I loathe the way she twists everything round. & I no longer understand her. There is simply no reason any more why she should not be happy!
That's my daughter!! & yes, I do feel ashamed.
On bad days, I want more than anything to just forget all about her because she makes my spirit quake... but I don't doubt, when she next needs me, she'll be on the phone demanding more favours!
Only this time, I've decided, SADLY my answer will, unfortunately, be "Sorry, I can't help."
2007-03-06 21:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My parents had another daughter, (I don't consider her my sister at all), who, throughout her life, has lied and cheated to get what she wants, irrespective of who she treads on in the process. I stopped any contact with her about 4 years ago due to horrendous lies she told about another family member. (rape) She blames this whole situation on me, apparently it's my fault. But, you know what? I don't regret not having any contact with her, my life has been so much easier without her poisoning it.
Unfortunately, regardless of whether you are related to someone or not, I think there comes a time when you have to ensure that people who drain you and make you feel crappy about yourself are kept out of your life. It's sad, but true that family members are often those people who can make you feel the worst about yourself. I don't think I will ever consider her my sister again.
2007-03-06 20:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my father hates me because i will not forgive him for him spending my wedding present money on heroin and the fact that he beat me almost every day for years now he is clean (supposedly) iam meant to forget and forgive no chance i have my own family to think of so the majority of my family mum dad etc have stopped talking to me as iam the one rocking the boat crazy how some people get brain washed by loved ones
2007-03-06 21:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my sister there is this kind of love/hate relationship. I never really hated her, but sometimes she drives me mad and than of course we say not very nice things to each other, but usually we make up.
2007-03-06 20:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by remy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a difficult one i personally dont like my mum she hates me and i hate her that is the way our relationship is i would not like to try and make things right between us as she has moved on aswell so why upset that just leave things as they are.
2007-03-06 20:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by feadergesj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate my cousin as we had this massive argument bout 6 years ago(i was 11) i don't want to ever see or talk to her again i;ve seen her bout 2 since then but i don't talk to her but its ok i hate her & i will never see her again as my dad & her dad(they're brothers) had a massive argument 2 years ago & haven't talked since so i don't care bout them at all
2007-03-06 22:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by little miss sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone really
but my moms cousins daughter hates me cos her ex boyfriend asked me out! i said no but she is a bit weird so started ignoring me ever since! i didnt even know her that well to begin with so its a bit confusing.
she stares at me, then when i see that, she goes "hmph" and flicks her hair.. lol she's 24 btw lol very childish i guess lol
2007-03-06 21:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you always ask such depressing and horrible questions?! I'd hate to be you, with your issues x x x
2007-03-06 21:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think nearly all my lot hate me
2007-03-06 20:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋