how can i work through this problem?

Question

me and my bf had a fight about a month ago, he rejected my calls and everything, its becouse i went into his email and i appologised and said it wouldnt happen again becouse i love him and i trust him, it was just curiosity that got to me. But he still thinks i dont trust him, how can i convinse him that i do, i called him last saturday and we talked, about nothing in particular, and he sounded happy when i said it was me, but at the end i told him that i had missed him and i loved him and then he got kind of cold, and when i tryed calling the next day the same thing.

i havent called since becouse i dont wana be all naging but i really do miss him and i want this to work,

oh its long distance by the way, im in france and he in the us..

please give me advice, PLEASE

Answer 1

Well...this sounds kinda of suspicious... exactly why is he mad??? because you checked his email. May be you should evaluate your relationship. It sounds like to me that he may be hiding something otherwise why would he get so upset instead of reassuring you that he is trustworthy. I'm in a long distance relationship also and its all about communication, if he acting cold towards you because you checked his email, then maybe you should move on. I know it's hard because you really care about him, but how can he too love you but be so cold.

Answer 2

I'm really baffled too. Some guys are just too damned cranky. What else do you have to do to show how truly sorry you are?

I really think, except if there are OTHER unmentioned circumstances in which you show a distrustful attitude, your BF is being unreasonable.

May be "he's not that into you.." anymore and if this is the case, there's nothing to do but to move on!

Answer 3

wait for the time being things would settle in due course

Answer 4

Send him a ecard that says "I'm sorry". Hope he will reply you after that. Good luck.