she says i am being very affectionate and she doesn't like it.. i was always like this.. the thing is .. i kiss her and hug her a lot..but i was always like that 4 a year now . "i don't do it in public places or anything only when we are together at home"..
Shall I try not to kiss her and hug her so often??
Shall I try to be affectionate?
What do you think?
2007-03-06 20:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by papillon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me that she gets annoyed from it. But if im your gf. I would love to have lots of love from you. Give me hugs and kisses. Inside or outside places. That would make me think that you really into me and love me a lot. But thats just me. Every girl are different.
Maybe you should ask her how does she want you to be affectionate?!.
Ask her why doesnt she like it when you give her lots of hugs and kisses everyday. Tell her thats how i show you how much i love you....See, what would be her reaction.
If she gets mad..don't get mad back just tell her.."I want to know so i know how to approach you that i would know that you don't like it"....
Simply just talk to her about it...and ask her what she likes....would she like it if i just give her a kiss on her shoulder?! or hug like a buddy hug...stuff like that...it won't hurt you or her if you just ASK.
*ONE OF THE IMPORTANT THING TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS TO HAVE A GOOD COMMUNICATION TO EACH OTHER AND COMPROMISE.
Hope Goes Well & God Bless!
2007-03-06 20:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a song by billy Joel it goes like this Don't go changing for me cause I love you just the way you are, remember that, if she don't like you the way you are find someone that does she is the one who will be mising out, and guys who don't like to snuggle do not know how much of a fire they can build up, pooop poor lady does not know what she has.
2007-03-07 04:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please, don't change! being affectionate is the most wonderful thing a guy could ever be. she is so lucky to have you. i can't believe she doesn't like it. if you're willing to be less affectionate for her, do it only when it's her. it doesn't mean you have to change yourself forever. i swear, most women prefer affectionate men.
2007-03-07 04:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being affectionate is adorable, just don't overdo it. Maybe if she doesn't like it, slow down a bit.
2007-03-07 04:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you ever change! i wish more men could be like that... it would make the world a better place to live in
2007-03-07 04:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself... i like this kind of man :)
2007-03-07 04:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋