Always he was talking sweetly with me. but after having physical intimacy, he has just forgotten me, forgotten all his promises. Avoids talking to me. Can you suggest me why is he behaving like that.
2007-03-06 20:16:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either hes using u ....im sry ..or that or he's very busy ....
2007-03-06 20:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You served his purpose. He's no more interested. That's it. You wrongly manipulated your freedom. It's better for you to forget him. gather up your strentgh. Understand your values. Runnig behind such a freak would never benefit you. He was sweet cos he want it. He's done with it now and wants to move on, that's it.
I hope at least now you understand why society requires to follow ethics. Things are not over yet. He may come back whenever his desires pop up again. Hope you won't fall for him next time. And neither for anyone who impresses you on a first glance. Peopel now-a-days easily fake out virutes to impress others. We gotta be wise enough to understand the truth.
Life still moves on. You gotta move on too. Forget all that ever happenned. You cannot just sit aside thinking about the incident and why he did this to you. Concentrate on your own career, your own life. There's a lot you life can offer you, but only if you are ready to grab it.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-07 16:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you haven't given us a lot of back story to go on, I'm going to venture a guess and say you weren't what he thought he saw/liked when you two exchanged photos and information online. He got there, decided you weren't either the personality or physical beauty he saw on the 'Net, but didn't want to take a total loss, so he bedded you to come away with some small conquest to justify the trip. You didn't lose anything, you got exactly the same thing he did, just not what you wanted...that's life. Take what you got and move on!
2007-03-07 04:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can Internet Dating Really Be Dangerous?
- Wolves in Sheep’s Clothing
- The Dangers of Deception and Secrecy
- Choosing the Real Over the Virtual
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2005/5/22a/article_01.htm
2007-03-07 05:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the nature of most men to seek sexual conquests. Well, he conquered you. I think that he didn't find you compatible enough to continue the relationship. We don't know how many times you've had sex with him. But the fact that he is ignoring you points to the way that he is not interested in you anymore. Since you both had sex with mutual consent, you cannot charge him with cheating. It was a casual affair, a one night stand, for that matter. Forget it and get on with life. Learn to be selective and don't jump into bed next time without proper commitments.
2007-03-08 00:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the men’s psychology, he wanted to see you, and if you are beautiful and rich then he may continue this relation. I think you are not good looking or may be you are not rich. So, don’t worry. If you want to take some action against him then consult lawyer and put some case against him. But be careful next time. As well as my sincere advice is to listen one song, which is sung by Shann. Bhool Ja. I dedicate this song for you. Once again. Sorry.
2007-03-07 04:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Tech 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, wake up and smell the coffee. It sounded to me that he just went after the "physical intimacy".
For me its too obvious. People does Net chatting or whatever you may want to call it a lot especially guys who just want sex.
They try to make close relationship with you after they got what they want then there gone....
If you really want to find the Mr. Right guy. Stop looking and he will look for you.
2007-03-07 04:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Really I am very sorry for the incident happened with you. Now all will advice you that you had done wrong thing, that you trusted him and gave him your everything. But my advice to you don't think in that way that you lost your everything. Think positive and try to overcome with this that u lost your everything.
wait for the time and the day you got chance take your revenge in a positive way.
2007-03-07 05:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by dipak c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You silly girls dont use ur brains, but just always proud of your beauty & this is reason such guys do that.. My dear just forget it as nightmare .. Its ok ur virginity has lost.. But every bad thing is teaching of good thing. So just think of ur future & carreer (whatever u doing) & just forget abt him & explaining such helps to others which would make a rumour in others. ( your net frnds/ relatives may be watching ur questions & answers )
2007-03-07 04:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by prashant_bele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your heart, you had made a big mistake. but i will not say that it could not be imporved. i suggest you to forget him as if you have never met him, if he don't bother about you why should you. If you are true to him don't mind leave everything with god he will defenetly be punished by him earlier or later. I advise you to forget him.
2007-03-07 05:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all he wanted was sex, and you gave it to him straight away. Net is dengerous for meeting people, they can tell you all the right things and make themselves look wonderful. Forget about him and find someone who likes you!
2007-03-07 05:59:17 · answer #11 · answered by kruzen54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋