My heart has been broken and it feels like a knife is sticking in it.Want go to any detail but it was a betrayal stabing in the heart and back. It is hard for me to get over.
2007-03-06 20:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is easier than said than done. You just have to let time go by. It will. Been there, done that. But time did help, and now my heart is mended.
Keep yourself busy, busy, busy. Time will go faster.
2007-03-06 20:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to mend a broken heart (for me) is to totally get over it and find someone who wouldn´t do that to me. It hurts, and looking for a new person to sleep with will not replace the pain. There will be hang-ups a plenty that way. One should (in my opinion) spend that week at home moping around the house and eating icecream, then when you feel a bit better, take a long warm bath, a nice long shower, smell incredible, look great, style your hair differently, and go and have some fun with your friends. Then, if you do see somebody that is cute and looks like a new opportunity, you will be READY. You won´t appear to that person as ´damaged goods´. You´ll appear and (be) ready to do something new. And have fun. Basically, just do what you have to do to get over it and then have fun...Love and Respect
2007-03-06 20:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel - going out drinking is not a good idea, you might end up doing something you regret and feel even worse. Distance yourself from the situation you find yourself in and fight destructive behavior.
Stay strong, keep yourself occupied with things you enjoy. You also need a good support structure ie family and friends. Try not to keep a grudge, in order for you to move on with your life you have to forgive and forget (It's gonna time time, of course). Get rid of the baggage, it's just gonna hold you back from finding true happiness, be it on you own or with someone new.
Good luck!! Remember positive thinking and breathing will also help you get through the worst times.
2007-03-06 20:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly there really is no cure to mend a broken heart. on my 2 year anniversary with my ex boyfriend i caught him and my best friend in bed together. The only way that helped me get over it is i just secluded myself for two days, and then i surrounded myself 24/7 with friends and just tried to keep my mind off of things. When i see him and her it still hurts and just thinking about him makes it hurt too still even to this day so i just surround myself with friends again until the pain starts to pass.
2007-03-06 20:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by cowgurl_398 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i'm sorry that had to happen to you=( hang out with your best friends or family and just have fun. if that doesn't distract your mind, watch cheesy movies and eat popcorn. or listen to loud music and just party in your room. you can also always scream into your pillow or cry your heart out. i'm sorry that's the only way that can HELP you mend a broken heart. i know it's hard...time usually does it, even if it means years. it's okay to cry. i really hope you feel better. *hugs*
2007-03-06 20:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to get over, but one thing is for sure, you will get over it eventually.
Until then, get out and meet some new people. And try not to get caught up in a relationship until at least 6 month goes by.
2007-03-06 20:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over it ,,i been broken many times back to back front to front back to front and front to back countless time but im still here fighting time will heal your wound,,,
but hiding inside the shell will not help you a bit move forward embrace the future with open arms go out and enjoy yourself meet new friends and be friendly
when im in your position i didnt show my pain even im bleeding inside i said to my self i will not give her the satisfaction and i heard from one of her friend that she is expecting me to cry like a baby or behave like a lunatic and begging her to come back
and i know that she sneer on my back
put your chin up it is not the end of the world it is just your new beginning dont give him the satisfaction show him what are you made of ..dont show him your weakness show him your toughness,,he is the looser for stabbing you
goodluck!!!
2007-03-06 20:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time my friend............time.Im hearing you.Unfortunately this is one of lifes experiences that need be delivered in order for you to grow and above all find what is real. Keep in mind.....if its not meant to be, its not meant to be. Hopefully the path your on now finds you true love..........
2007-03-06 20:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life and try to forget about it. Good luck hey!
2007-03-06 22:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋