...they feel as if they've been used; even though they got EXACTLY the same thing the man got, plus: dinner, a movie, some laughs and a few drinks. Maybe an orgasm or two to boot...what did you expect?
2007-03-06 20:49:29 · 16 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, let me clue the morons of the group into a fact: the 'marriage' part of the question was a comical exaggerration...I didn't mean it literally!
2007-03-06 21:04:59 · update #1
Because women are looking for something more emotional....sex to women isnt just sex normally....its all about emotions and bonding....where as a man its all about physical and pleasure.......women feel used because they are expecting that emotional connection.....sometimes men feel it when they love someone...but men its so much easier to turn off that emotional side and women well its not........so they get pretty upset.....now there are some women out there who know how to turn that emotional side off and some men who do not...but the thing is women and men just see sex differently.....
2007-03-06 20:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Alia H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, You name tells it all. Why do you think women what to get marry after a 1 night stay??? I don't believe this is true. Like you said, the guy and woman got what they wanted and had a few laughs. There's no problem i can see with that,specially without the marriage part. Are you sure you didn't hit your head on something or what!!! P.S. I do not do 1 night stays. I have to know the person very well and have dated this guy for a long time,if i consider having sex.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-07 04:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two answers for you. One society has most women brought up to beleive their their body should have but one other person to share it with, so in fact they are being used, and taken advantage of, if you care how they were brought up.
Two women (can) tend to put more emotional attachment to sex, so giving you their body is more of a gesture than an act. A way to think of it, if some guy came in your house and did whatever with your mom, then walked out the door muttering "man that was fun". Knowing you'd never see him again, or even who he was. I'm pretty sure you'd understand the feelings of disgust.
2007-03-07 04:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding your self if you think she had an orgasam, or she would be back for more! Because she can give those to herself!
The dinner...probably macdonalds or some other crap place.
Laughs....yes well its polite to laugh at peoples jokes even if the are the lamest youve ever heard!
Drinks? You can buy those any time you want!
So what did you offer that was exceptional?
2007-03-07 04:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, I don´t think they want to get married next morning..I´m just laughing because I understand the sarcasm...but yes, the woman probably knew what she was getting into just the same. Maybe she expects more because you were sooooo good...lol.
2007-03-07 05:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by nassim420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha I don't know what kind of women you've been dating. But most girls I know including myself would be freaked out if they had sex with a guy and right after he asked for marriage.
2007-03-07 04:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by 98nil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, pleeeeeassse can I marry you?!! What a loser. Women have been known to enjoy a no strings attached night or two you know? Maybe you were just terrible in bed.
2007-03-07 04:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by FoxyB 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never let a woman use you like that.
Always stay in control.
Become the alpha male. Make her come to you.
2007-03-07 15:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are living in modern times. Also morals and values are not kept as people are tempted by lust.
2007-03-07 04:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on whether or not they been led to believe there was more to the 'date' than casual sex! having said that i never feel used! lol
2007-03-07 04:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋