Family & Relationships - 6 March 2007

If your best and life-long friend in the past had a crush on your wife while you were married and nothing came of it or ever will....

Would you forgive them and continue to be friends?

I ask because this is what happened and my husband is very stubborn. He will not mend the relationship with his friend and our whole family is really torn up about this. I would never cheat especially with his friend whom I consider a brother and my child refers to as "uncle". The friend has never made passes at me or behaved inappropriately but my husband suspects that he likes me "that" way. I just feel guilty because although I did nothing wrong this fight is over me.

2007-03-06 18:55:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-06 18:54:20 · 13 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Friends

WHAT DO I DO IF I ACENDENTLY SAID I LOVE U 2 MY DAD. i was on the fonr 2 my gf and i told her i love her then dad rang and i acendently said i love u 2 him. OMG i am so shameded he gets home at 4 thats a few mins away what do i say when he askes me?

2007-03-06 18:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by josh miller 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl that I think may have a crush on me. She's very pretty and nice. I've never been on a date before nor have I been asked out by a girl? What should I do if she asks me out?

2007-03-06 18:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by matt14 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you help me to do that important thing, please? If you........... let me know quickly because I feel by a romantic empty!.
Thank you for all worker team.

2007-03-06 18:50:57 · 1 answers · asked by said youssuf 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me or does anyone else thinks that it is crazy to spend tons of money on a wedding, go in debt and live in a small apartment? I know people have the right to do what they want with their money, but I think that it makes more sense to save money, since the money is the #1 cause of divorce. What are your thoughts?

2007-03-06 18:50:28 · 24 answers · asked by Fireanddesir 2 in Weddings

My heart has mended and I am redy for love.How do you find out if your potential partner do's not have a S.C.D. without insulting her.Condoms I can use. but what about Dining out.If you know what I meen. A good answer and spelling will get you 10 points.Insults will get you nothing.

2007-03-06 18:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a person has a sex relation with anybody does it mean they are in love too.

2007-03-06 18:46:54 · 18 answers · asked by nadia a 2 in Singles & Dating

What concerns do you have about these games? There are plenty of criticisms about these games affecting the health and concentration of young people. Are there any positive aspects to this type of leisure activity?
Thank you for answeriing and helping with my research. Would you please include details of your age and the ages of your child/ children.

2007-03-06 18:45:13 · 10 answers · asked by lizzie 5 in Family

I thought that was one of the things that made them different from women?

2007-03-06 18:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Friends

Ok, so I wrote this poem and I know its not too good. So, I was wondering what I could do to fix it, I know some of the lines are a little too long but I dont really know how I can fix it and still get my point across. Any serious suggestions would be really appreciated..so here it is.

"You Dont Know Me Still"

You think you know me?...
I'm not the girl I used to be.
Sometimes I still may cry.
But I'll never believe you again,
Cause I know you'll just lie.
Sometimes I may still get lonely.
But you'll never again get love from me,
My love for you now is just a memory.
And I used to think I'd always miss you.
But now I know I can make it through.

So what do you guys think?, and please be nice. Thanks:)

2007-03-06 18:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a last minute thing that i would like to marry my future wife next month ( March 6 , "Good Friday" ) and this would be my first time taking a huge step. I realize that theres many things that needs to be done and dont know where to start and how to bargain. Im in 323 area in southern california and have little $ to burn. And im estimating about anywhere from 80 to 100 people that will attend ceremony including a wedding party. I know this wont be any fancy one but a decent simple wedding day. I have research in wedding magazine and find it so exspensive and this is why i ask for your help with some of your wedding critics with pointers. Heres a list i would like to know more about that would be less exspensive and where to find.
1) Buy a tuxedo ( fee, location )

2) Cathalic church ( fee, location )

3) Notary (recomand, fee , location )

4) Catering (suggestion , fee )

5) Invitation (fee, location)

and last ....

6) Wedding Rings ( recomend, location)

2007-03-06 18:43:00 · 2 answers · asked by WANTED !! 2 in Weddings

OMG! I'm getting so sick of all these dorky guys asking me out! I try turning them down nicely but then the next day its a totally different one asking me out & i'm back to square one again! And I did go out with this guy who was al least half-decent but I broke up with him cuz his best friend was all mad at him cuz they both liked me but I chose this guy over the other one. So they weren't talking to eachother & I just got sick of it & had to tell him that I didn't feel right coming betweent their friendship. Anyways...he still really really likes me & he wants to kiss me but if I do kiss him it will be my first kiss & he knows it. I really don't wanna kiss him cuz i'm saving it for when I find true love & he knows that but he won't leave me alone about it. He even suggests that we do a bit more than kiss & I don't feel comfortable with it. He knows that I'm not that kind of girl who does things like that...what can I do to make him & all these other guys to leave me alone?

2007-03-06 18:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i need to no how do u signle a guy saying u like him
plz help???

2007-03-06 18:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by drifter 1 in Singles & Dating

Who are you closer to? I was closer to my grandmother. I miss her so much. I miss my mother to. I feel bad that I miss my grandmother more. Is that bad?

2007-03-06 18:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Family

Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal

2007-03-06 18:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by yassmin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was raised in a very conservative house. Sex was taboo and I think I was raised to think of it as an ugly act. Now I'm married, but I can't shake these thoughts. My husband is a great guy, but I know he's now getting frustrated by this. Whenever he makes a move, I freeze up! I love him, and want to give him what I know he desperately wants. I have never even touched myself! I'm so unhappy with myself. Any advice? How do I "waken these senses"?

2007-03-06 18:38:08 · 25 answers · asked by Dear_Abby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl asked my bf out, he said he has a gf. but i think shes making him like her. and he told me hes confused aboutt this. and hes acting different shes hurting our relationship, but shes hurting me really bad because i realllly love him. i don't know what to do. what should i do? do i talk to her or wat?

2007-03-06 18:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by pink_tux1466 1 in Singles & Dating

to grab the grocery clerk or the guy behind the register at your favorite high end store and just screw him all afternoon?
Maybe out of frustration for what your husband isn't doing for you...

It's just a question.

2007-03-06 18:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am 20 yrsof age he my man is 22 years old, he and i have been dating for like 6 months now he told me that he was gay but i caught him having sex with his good friend which is a girl....her name is stacyanne i knew something was up between them two i just didn't ant to be rude and just ask...

2007-03-06 18:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me & my boyf been together for almost 5 years but i never Been introduced to any of his friends, he keep saying its not the right time & involving so many people around us will cost as problem but nothing more, and in the same time he don’t want to be introduce to my friends what is it exactly this behavior is it normal

2007-03-06 18:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by yassmin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I have known 'Ken' for a little over a year now. We dated for months, and he broke it off due to his being bipolar. He told me that hes a different person every day, and he doesnt want to break up with me, but he doesnt want me to be 'dragged down' by his mood swings. He confided that he loved me to one of my friends a bit ago, and he believes that even though hes unhappy, hes doing the noble thing by trying to get me to be with someone that I deserve. What do you guys think? I love him dearly and I cant imagine him being alone (he isnt social, he visits 1 friend, if that) and having no one to lean on. Every time I tell him Im hear to listen to him, he makes himself more distant, and insists that we shouldnt be friends because he wont be able to keep his mind set. He thinks hes doing the right thing, but the truth is, its driving me NUTS, and he just as unhappy as I am. Any suggestions?

2007-03-06 18:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by blearghll 2 in Singles & Dating

playing the organ at GTL Baptist church. They pay me $375.00 every Sunday. I’m in charge of directing the choir, teaching songs and keeping everything with the music department in order. I love it but they! give me hell. I’m the lead musician there. It’s very frustrating in choir rehearsals Because the choir is always trying to put there little in puts and since in when all they know how to do is sing what I ask them to sing. They talk back to me, with smart comments, and they only sing out loud when the pastor is sitting in rehearsals. We have10:00 am and 3:30pm services every Sunday. I don’t fill that im getting paid what I should be getting for all that. SO I have been looking in the ACC news paper for another church and I found one. They pay $300.00 a Sunday, they have 3 choirs, I will be the second musician. only have a couple of outing a year, less 3:30pm services then GTL church. this is my only income. im not working right now. so please help! what should i do?

2007-03-06 18:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

.. i hope no offense or anything.. but how long do you ladies wait before sleeping with a guy that youve known or met?... how long should a guy wait so he wont look all perverted/?.. just curious.

2007-03-06 18:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im just wondering cause my friends masterbate and tell me how it feels plus they love having sex with there boys but hey sex is something spiritual so im trying to find out if guys think its normal for a girl to masterbate?

Please take this question seriously and not as some sick joke or anything! Because im being very serious ok !

2007-03-06 18:33:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me among other reasons because of the distance; I'm in New York; he's in Tokyo. We started dating in Tokyo, then I had to move to New York. The break up was not mutual, but it was open ended, in that he did not completely rule out the possibility of getting back together once I moved back to Tokyo. I'm moving back to Tokyo to start work there in May; he doesn't know that yet. He wanted to be friends and as friends, he would email me at the same rate, he said, and I can call him on the phone, we can meet in Tokyo "as friends". But he is responding quicker to my emails, initiating conversations, and he writes me: "[my name], hello. [my name], fundamentally there is no problem. [my name], by the way now are you coming to Japan in April?" I am wondering why he wants to know whether I'm coming back to Japan and why is he talking to me more? When I asked him, he said there is no one new.

2007-03-06 18:33:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been together w/someone for a long time, & I love him dearly.
He's my best friend and confidant and I can't imagine my life without him.

However, in the last year, our relationship has deteriorated.

i'm a recovering bulimic and drunk. and he's a good natured mama's boy, who hides under a tough macho exterior.

It was all very sweet in the first year, up until he tried to control me. Naturally I rebelled & tried to break up with him but he'd insisted he'd change. he didn't.

Months later i met a cute guy at a cafe. he made me feel beautiful and intelligent. & before you know it, we were making love.

Boyfriend knew something was going on, but he refused to break up because he considered me his "soul mate'.

peace for some time, until boyfriend calls enraged after going thru my emails.

I feel sick and guilty. I need space. I hate feeling like I have no control. Bulimia returns. I just want to be alone. he wants to be with me all the time. I'm isolated. so empty no friends

2007-03-06 18:32:23 · 5 answers · asked by butters 2 in Singles & Dating

Anullment is when a marriage is considered null and void. It means no marriage took place.

2007-03-06 18:31:13 · 22 answers · asked by allanbabes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well every time me and my partner have sex , i feel it ends too fast. theres always forplay involved but i cant say i end up being satisfied all the time.. so heres my big question, is somethin wrong with him or am i expectin too much??

2007-03-06 18:30:12 · 16 answers · asked by ♠Nekogal♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so heres the deal.
my boyfriend and i well things arent going to great,
like he proposed to me about a month ago and i told him if were still together when im 18(2 years) then yeah. hes 19.

and last night four of my guy friends showed up drunk as hell and wouldnt stop hitting on me and i beat the **** outta one of them then asked them all to leave and they wouldnt. so i called my boyfriend and told him what was goign on and hes all im so stoned babe call me in the morning. then i sent him a message like an hour later telling him waht happend, which was that they wouldnt leave or stop hitting on me so i went and slept in the bathroom/
no big deal. right?

okay well then today i check his page and all the pictures of me and him are off.
i find out hes been hanging out with his ex.
hes with his ex now at the hot springs.
and he wont answer any of my calls or call me back.

Am i freaking out over nothing and being a psycho girlfriend
or should i be worried?

i really love this guy.
i dont no what to do,


any advice?

2007-03-06 18:30:08 · 2 answers · asked by Ky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships